Loving On Purpose

Do you fear your adult children may cut you off from having any contact with their family and your grandchildren if you disappoint them?  Feeling this way does not help in building a good relationship with them. And feeling fearful is one of the worst feelings to feel.  In this episode I give reasons why we have this fear, how this feeling is causing you to live in scarcity and six suggestions on how to stop having this fear.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

It's wonderful all the adult opinions there are out there in the world.  When we collaborate we have come up with some amazing creations, inventions, advancements in medicine and technology.  But we humans often struggle in our relationships when our opinions differ.  This episode is about when we disappoint our children by a decision we have made and what we can do to have the confidence in ourselves to move forward.  It explains why we can't make them feel better about our decision but what we can do to find peace in a contentious situation.  

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

We are the creators of our experiences in our lives.  If you don't like the results of the circumstances or happenings in your life, you can change them by changing how you want to feel, or contribute, or be in response to your circumstances.  We can't change our circumstances, we can't change how our adult children act around us, but we can change how we respond to their actions and this controls what kind of result we have in our life in regard to any specific circumstance.  The circumstance does not determine the results of the life we live; it's our response, our actions, our thoughts that determine whether we like or dislike the experience we having.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

I share in this episode three stories of past clients who loved their estranged children enough to wait until their children were ready to heal the relationship.  I recieved three emails within a month from these past clients exclaiming their joy and gratitude to God for coming forth of their children indicating they wish to restore their relationships with their parents.  Love always wins...again. 

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

What causes us to not always act like the kind, loving parent we want to be to our adult children?  No.  It's not because they are unkind and unloving.  It's because you may think you are feeling love for your child but perhaps you're feeling resentful that they are unkind and unloving.  Feeling resentful is going to cause you to show up as resentful....not kind and loving.  Listen to this episode where I talk about what we need to do to act like the person we want to be.  What you do is caused by how you feel.  I explain in more detail in this episode what that statement means.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

We clean our houses more than we clean out our minds.  When we practice getting rid of some of the harmful thoughts we hang onto in our minds we free ourselves to choose thoughts that serve us and help us to see things from a more beneficial perspective.  When we clean out our minds we tend to not take things more personally.  We tend to get more curious and less judgmental in our thoughts which results in us being closer to living the life we want to live.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Not many parents talk about their relationships with their adult children especially if they are struggling in it.  Nobody told us we would be expecting our needs would be met at this time in our lives by our involvement with our adult kids.  No one told us that we are responsible for fulfilling our own needs, of finding our own happiness, not our children, not even our husbands.  Just because we may not be included in our adult children's lives as much as we would like doesn't mean they love us less.  Nothing has gone wrong; it's just different than we not only expected but were also hoping for. What do you want to do with your life now that your role as a parent has changed.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Faith to me is knowing God conspirers in my favor.  Faith is knowing that God knows what's best for us and has a plan to get His children back to Him.  Faith causes me to not give up on my adult children.  Faith is knowing  what my responsibility is to my adult children and the most important is to stay out of God's business.   Faith is knowing He loves them more than we do.  Faith is knowing part of the plan is opposition.


David Bednar video "How Will I know Where I'll Go When I Die ?"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mi31zXs-Ldk&t=2s

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

We know we judge others, especially our adult children, too often but we don't know how to stop.  Even knowing that we don't like how we feel when we're judging them doesn't making us stop.   We think we have some control over them living a happier life if we just help them see their weaknesses.  But this is a little lie our brain tricks into thinking.  In this episode you'll learn four suggestions on how to stop judging others.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

I can help people solve any problem with their adult child but that's not entirely true.  The teachings of Jesus Christ show us the way to solve any problem.  What I do is show people how to apply the teachings in their lives and where to start learning how to do that.  Listen to this episode where I offer some scriptures that can be applied to choosing love, forgiveness and compassion rather than judgement.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life