As always a huge thanks goes out to everyone who have donated to keep the podcast going for another year.

I’ve been bugging Oliver to come on the show for years and he finally got sick of me asking.   We talk about the complications that can come from being in a polyamorous relationship, dual citizenship, the awkwardness of play parties,  mind fucks, being a switch, porn and chastity play.

You can find him on twitter @lovingviolence