33-yr-old Diana’s dating history has left her fearful of acting from a place of hurt once she becomes intimate with a man. Determined to do things differently, Diana went in search of love online when she came across 34-yr-old Shane. Shane has shown himself to be ultra-respectful and willing to wait things out, but for how long? With things heating up, Diana comes on Episode 72 to ask Paula how she can keep her wits about her, while waiting for Shane to get to a place of wanting to marry her.

In the summer of 2020, it appeared 33-yr-old Stefana found the love of her life in 25 yr-old Ben.  Through taking things slow, Ben showed himself to be the best boyfriend, and by October, asked to be exclusive, talked about the future, and even invited Stefana to meet his family at Thanksgiving.  As the meeting and holiday were wonderful, Stefana invited Ben to her family Christmas.  So why did Ben pass on the invite, and by early 2021 ended up telling Stefana that he just didn’t feel she is his “one?” On Episode 71 of Make Him Wonder, hear a no-holds barred discussion, including Paula’s coaching regarding Stefana’s hope of getting back with the man she continues to feel is her Mr. Right.

After an 11-yr marriage, 43-yr-old Karen was going through a divorce when she met 27 yr-old Jamie, by accident. Karen initially contacted Paula wanting to know how she could move Jaime from sex-only to wanting more connection. But only moments before recording, Karen was dumped by Jamie, via text. On this episode of Make Him Wonder, hear Karen’s commiserative tale of how a simple mishap allowed Karen to be driven in the wrong direction, looking woefully in her rear-view mirror, wondering how to move ahead.

When we cater to what a man tells us he wants, we are taking a harder path to commitment. 44-yr-old Alejandra’s relationship with Jayden is a good example of the oxymoronic situation many women find themselves in, because we are intrinsically Connectors, Cooperators, and Caretakers. But as men are all about Challenge, Competition, and Conquering, giving into them doesn’t get us what we desire and deserve in the long run. In Ep. 69 of Make Him Wonder, Alejandra works out what she needs to tweak, going forward, to keep Jayden wondering!

After a 10-yr marriage, 37-yr-old newly-divorced Michele is dating recently divorced Mark. Michele states that Mark and her former husband couldn’t be more “different,” yet Michele feels she will somehow repeat the failure she feels her divorce to be. Michele comes to Paula to ask how she can let go of her past and fully commit, as well as understand Mark’s current inability to commit. Paula helps Michele recognize and commit to her own feelings, so that she can release Mark to the timing that he needs to be ready, willing, and able to make a full commitment.

According to recent statistics 40 Million American’s use online dating and 52.4 % of them are men. So why is it so frustrating and feel like such a time-waster? On this episode, you get an audio glimpse into Paula’s discussion with Becka Hays and Matt Johnson of The Becka Hays Show about everything related to online dating. Paula also outlines ways to connect to her for a new, affordable, self-help course that also provides a coaching call to get your personal online-dating questions answered!

35-yr-old divorced mom of two, Sanaa, struggles with understanding her 41-yr-old boyfriend, Malcolm. After 3 months together, Sanaa reports that she and Malcolm would spend hours on the phone, and that Malcolm has spent a lot of time with her kids. Sanaa understands Malcolm’s difficulties at work, and the fact that he is a devoted caregiver to a family member, however she states that calls or texts are a minimum “standard” to which Malcolm needs to adhere. Regardless of telling Malcolm that she needs consistent, daily communication, Malcolm will now go AWOL for days, and complain to Sanaa when she brings up the issue. In Ep. 66, Sanaa wants to know if she should continue to talk to Malcolm about her needs in this area, if she is just nagging, or if she needs to simply walk away.

49-yr-old Nicole met 44-yr-old Spencer online. After just a few weeks of dating, Spencer showed a lot of interest, only to abruptly pull-back in a short time. In this episode, Nicole tells Paula she didn’t see any “red flags,” but Paula finds that they were waving at Nicole from the beginning. During this in-depth discussion of how men self-soothe and amuse themselves with women, listen for the “red flags,” and hear what Paula suggests for Nicole to move forward with Spencer.

Never having been shown any love or affection from her mother, 35-yr-old Emma broke-up with her loving and supportive 35-yr-old boyfriend, Max. Upon making the connection to her childhood experiences, Emma began questioning her motives around the breakup. Can Emma face her fear, trust her experiences, and feel that she is lovable? And if so, will Max be open to allowing Emma back? In Ep. 64, listen for Emma’s strength and resilience, and if you trust in the approach she agrees to take to attempt a reconciliation.

42-yr-old Peggy comes on Make Him Wonder stating that she is “tired of giving from an empty cup.” After 3 marriages, 4 unplanned pregnancies, and breaking up with her current live-in Beau, Tom, several times, Peggy continues to suggest things to Tom expecting him to make choices for her, and change himself. On Ep. 63, hear an exchange that has Peggy opening up about the insights to which she has heretofore dismissed. Will giving over to her inner knowing allow Peggy to make the changes necessary to get her life and love back on track? Listen to see if you feel Peggy is ready to fill her own cup, or if she will continue filling those of others