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  • S2E16: Why Traveling Makes You Uber Attractive LISTEN HERE

    22-yr-old Rose states that she struggles with feelings of worthiness and lovability stemming from a childhood without much unconditional love. When traveling, Rose meets a lot of wealthy men and wonders if they can truly consider a woman from lesser means. In this episode, Paula answers questions about long-distance relationships and points out to Rose why it is that she is approached more often when traveling than when at home.

    1 hr 13 min
  • S2E15: How a Diamond is Treated When She Doesn’t Know Her Value LISTEN HERE

    One week after their first online meeting, 42-yr-old Diamond met 41-yr-old Dan at a hotel. Yada, yada, yada, and four years later, Dan has only taken Diamond on one date, never introduced her to his children, and he has never given her his address.  Despite the red flags that Dan is married or partnered, Diamond has hope for more.  On this episode, Paula gives Diamond the approach that will work to have Dan coming towards her, but cautions Diamond to be careful about what she wishes for.

    41 min
  • S2E14: When Her Compassion Is Met With His Coldness- CLICK HERE TO LISTEN

    For nearly a year everything was near perfect between 26-year-old Henley and 29-yr-old Vincent. But once Vincent unexpectedly lost his job and his mother became terminally ill, Vincent didn’t respond to Henley’s attempts to offer support. When Henley discovered that Vincent's mother passed away over the holidays, yet he went to a New Year's Eve party without inviting her, Henley broke things off. On this episode, Paula gives Henley her support for staying in no-contact, as well as what to do when Vincent comes back.

    1 hr 16 min
  • S2E13: When Staying Stuck Keeps You Safe But Sorry- CLICK HERE TO LISTEN
    Despite seeing several therapists for the last 6 months, 28-yr-old Rosalyn struggles with overcoming an emotional affair her boyfriend, 28-yr-old Jack, had with a co-worker. Jack has done his mea culpas and despite making amends, Rosalyn stays stuck. In this episode, Paula provides Rosalyn with what she feels is the cause and what will help her get past the past and step into her future, free and clear.
    1 hr 11 min
  • S2E12: A Trip to Fantasy Island Can Erupt Without Warning- CLICK HERE TO LISTEN
    As if in a romantic movie, 40-yr-old Sabine met 38-yr-old Mike for the first time when walking off a jetway in Geneva, Switzerland.  Only a few months later, the couple was buying a home together in Hawaii and living a nearly idyllic life filled with similar pursuits, interests, and goals. But a mere 4 years into the relationship, after a short stint away for business, Sabine came home to having her sunny dream turn dark and stormy.  In this episode, Coach Paula explains to Sabine what she’ll need to do to reignite a spark in Mike, so that he can once again feel the fire that will keep his “volcano” rumbling, not erupting.
    1 hr 39 min
  • S2E11: Never Giving Up Will Give Lizzie Her Happy Ending- CLICK HERE TO LISTEN
    33 yr-old Lizzie had been in a 10-yr relationship with 33-yr-old Taylor when they began to talk about children and look for their first home together. So Lizzie got the shock of her life when Taylor abruptly broke up with her for another woman. Only 3 weeks later Lizzie found herself in the hospital with a life-changing diagnosis. Given the severity of her illness and that there is a new woman in his life, Lizzie wants to know if Paula believes it will ever be possible for Taylor to love her again and come back.
    2 hr 9 min
  • S2E10: Internalizing The Blame Keeps You Bending To His Will- CLICK HERE TO LISTEN
    32-yr-old Elizabeth made 41-yr-old Mike wonder and talk about marriage
    early in the relationship. Mike fell in love with both Elizabeth and her
    dog, taking them on trips, and giving them his all. On this episode,
    Elizabeth wants to know from Paula if something as small as her emotional
    reactions to stressful events such as losing her dog, and Mike’s
    insensitive comments about her butt are the reason Mike can’t commit.
    1 hr 24 min
  • S2E09: The Time is Always Now- CLICK HERE TO LISTEN
    19 yr-old Maya feels she's too young to get married, yet she wants a fully committed relationship with 18-yr-old Andrew. Way ahead of the game, young Maya has questions related to The Rules, Social Media, and looking hot vs girl-next-door. In this episode, Paula answers timeless questions that have women winning at every age.
    53 min
  • S2E08: Choosing A Category Helps Mr. Right Choose You- CLICK HERE TO LISTEN
    28-yr-old Ebony is in a polyamorous relationship with a man twice her age.  Ebony states that she thoroughly enjoys the polyamorous lifestyle, yet is concerned she won't be able "to be with just one man going forward."  As Ebony wants to get married and have children in the next few years, she seeks Paula's advice on how to proceed towards her goal of finding a husband and father to her future children.
    1 hr 15 min
  • S2E07: The Number of Chapters in a Love-Story Doesn’t Predict the Ending- CLICK HERE TO LISTEN
    Liz and Jack, now aged 51, have been on-and-off lovers since meeting over 25 years ago. For the last two-and-a-half decades, both have had other serious long-term relationships, yet always remained friends. Recently, the two wound-up back together after a long separation. Following Jack’s failed attempt at getting Liz to move to Florida instead of continuing at a long distance, he decided to call it quits. Liz has come to the realization that she wants Jack back and wants to hear from Paula if she can start a new chapter, or if the book of Liz and Jack is closed forever.
    1 hr 23 min

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Dating and Relationship Coach Paula Grooms, LMSW invites real women to talk about their romantic lives. In these intimate, one-on-one conversations, Paula helps each guest get-real, get focused, and…