Make Him Wonder

When 30-yr-old Jay asked 32-yr-old Olive to be his girlfriend on their first meeting, Olive agreed. The two developed a close connection and only upon investigation did Olive find out Jay was lying about his age. Once the two had sex, Jay ghosted. On this episode, Olive wants to know if the cultural differences soured Jay. Paula explains why things were not that sweet from the beginning.

After making a strong online connection, 48-yr-old Robin was excited to meet 50-yr-old Jay. Jay was also keen on exploring further, only to pull away in short order. Where did such a strong connection get short-circuited? In this episode, find out why once you’re separated you can be ready for commitment, while a separated man will not… and what it is about meeting-for-coffee that sets a man up to be lukewarm about continuing to date you.

44-yr-old Emma met handsome 51-yr-old Matt online and wanted to know his true intentions before having sex.  After cancelling their seventh date out-of-the-blue, Emma got a text that Matt was frustrated that there was no passion or sex on their sixth date. On this episode of Make Him Wonder, Emma gets clarification on Matt’s probable feelings and what risk vs reward is worth taking to put his fears to rest so the two can move forward.

47-yr-old Vivian wants her on-again-off-again relationship with 40-yr-old Gabriel to go the distance, but every time she talks about commitment the two argue and a breakup ensues.  Is it Gabriel creating the roadblock or something else standing in the way of this couple going the distance? In this coaching conversation, hear the best way to have a relationship start online and end in forever after.

After a year and a half together, 34-yr-old Gigi keeps hearing the classic “it’s not you, it’s me,” from 37-yr-old Aaron regarding his unhappiness with their relationship. Discussions about it and going on breaks haven’t solved the issue, and Gigi is afraid of a final split. In this episode, Paula explains to Gigi how her compassion is crippling Aaron’s desire and helping to ensure the negative outcome she fears, and what she can do to become his shining star, once again.

32-yr-old Brianne says it’s a pattern of hers to have men “very interested” from the start only to end up “walking away” after she “harasses” them when she doesn’t receive the time and attention she wants. 42-yr-old Carl is no exception. A military man and away a lot, Brianne lets her anxiety get the best of her.  On this episode, hear how Brianne falls prey to her emotions that make Carl the bad guy, eroding his desire to make things official.

40-yr-old Charly has been dating 37-yr-old Sam for nearly a year. But on the heels of 3 failed relationships with the mothers of his 4 children, is Sam truly free to be in a completely committed relationship? On this episode of Make Him Wonder, hear what Charly reveals to Paula in their conversation that she didn’t let Paula’s staff know ahead of their recording. Is this reveal a game-changer for what Charly can expect from Sam now and for the foreseeable future? Despite the clouds surrounding her, Paula helps Charly get clear on her goals for the best chance of reaching her romantic summit.

Back from Season Two Ep. 16, 23-yr-old Rose used the O.N.E. Love online dating self-help course to help her capture the heart of her Mr. Right.  Now knowing that she’d like to marry this man, Rose has questions about spending time-apart while traveling, and how to keep her subconscious programming and feelings of unworthiness from creating problems in her relationship.

38-yr-old Tabitha felt enormous regret about how she treated her 36-yr-old ex-boyfriend, Jimmy.  Despite Jimmy telling Tabitha she shouldn’t beat-herself-up or feel guilty, she can’t help feeling anxious over Jimmy’s silence during their break. Torn between reaching out or holding out for Jimmy to come back, Tabitha reaches out to Paula for her advice. 

46-yr-old Aida has been in an on-and-off LD relationship with 52-yr-old Inman for nearly 2 years. Aida is tired of waiting for Inman to make a complete commitment and move to her state so the two can be closer. On this episode, Paula explains how rushing the tempo is risking Inman’s desire, and how changing her mental script about their love-story will allow Aida to have the best chance for a happy ending.