32-yr-old Brianne says it’s a pattern of hers to have men “very interested” from the start only to end up “walking away” after she “harasses” them when she doesn’t receive the time and attention she wants. 42-yr-old Carl is no exception. A military man and away a lot, Brianne lets her anxiety get the best of her.  On this episode, hear how Brianne falls prey to her emotions that make Carl the bad guy, eroding his desire to make things official.

40-yr-old Charly has been dating 37-yr-old Sam for nearly a year. But on the heels of 3 failed relationships with the mothers of his 4 children, is Sam truly free to be in a completely committed relationship? On this episode of Make Him Wonder, hear what Charly reveals to Paula in their conversation that she didn’t let Paula’s staff know ahead of their recording. Is this reveal a game-changer for what Charly can expect from Sam now and for the foreseeable future? Despite the clouds surrounding her, Paula helps Charly get clear on her goals for the best chance of reaching her romantic summit.

Back from Season Two Ep. 16, 23-yr-old Rose used the O.N.E. Love online dating self-help course to help her capture the heart of her Mr. Right.  Now knowing that she’d like to marry this man, Rose has questions about spending time-apart while traveling, and how to keep her subconscious programming and feelings of unworthiness from creating problems in her relationship.

38-yr-old Tabitha felt enormous regret about how she treated her 36-yr-old ex-boyfriend, Jimmy.  Despite Jimmy telling Tabitha she shouldn’t beat-herself-up or feel guilty, she can’t help feeling anxious over Jimmy’s silence during their break. Torn between reaching out or holding out for Jimmy to come back, Tabitha reaches out to Paula for her advice. 

46-yr-old Aida has been in an on-and-off LD relationship with 52-yr-old Inman for nearly 2 years. Aida is tired of waiting for Inman to make a complete commitment and move to her state so the two can be closer. On this episode, Paula explains how rushing the tempo is risking Inman’s desire, and how changing her mental script about their love-story will allow Aida to have the best chance for a happy ending.

28-yr-old Alma fell very hard for 33-yr-old Viktor. But following a series of conflicts that included family involvement, Viktor totally shut down and stopped interacting with Alma. After nearly a month of no-contact Viktor's father reached out. In this episode, Alma wants to know if she has any chance of building a bridge to Viktor's heart or if the water level is too toxic and too high to ever be spanned.

34-yr-old Beth invited 49-yr-old Luke and his teenage son to live with her and her three daughters. Once confronted with having to help pay the monthly bills, Luke left without a word or any of his belongings.  On this episode, Beth goes from asking Paula about how to progress things with her lukewarm man to realizing that she is hot-on-the-trail to a better life, and also leading her girls by example.

After 20 years in an abusive marriage, 42-yr-old Cara was happy to hit it off with 45-yr-old Justin.  After 3 months, Cara wanted Justin’s confirmation that the two were being sexually exclusive, but Justin started pulling back. This triggered Cara’s fears around lacking boundaries and oversharing. On this episode, Paula helps Cara make sense of her own mixed emotions, as well as the mixed signals sent by Justin.

31-yr-old Kaira inspired 28-yr-old Giovanni to deal with his drinking problems. She also invited him to stay with her when he had trouble finding a place to live. In turn, Giovanni helped Kaira recover following a nasty motorcycle accident. But all is not on track to commitment.  For pleasure, Giovanni is still on Tinder and looks at pics of his former sex partners. Can Kaira move Giovanni to be a Buyer while she is dependent on him to cover the rent? In this episode, Paula guides Kaira to recognize the one thing that will help her the most on her journey to love and marriage.

52-yr-old Hadley has been on-and-off with 42-yr-old Rob for four years, and the couple recently suffered another breakup. Hadley believes the issues are part of an anxious/avoidant dynamic between her and Rob, as well as the age difference. Paula has another view that gives Hadley hope and several actions she can take to repair some early missteps.