Make Him Wonder

Olivia was a guest on Ep.#2 of Make Him Wonder. At that time, Olivia was confused about her feelings for her LD boyfriend, Mark, and a growing interest in man at work. While she loved Mark, this new man was filling the

emotional void having a LD, unformalized relationship creates. At 32 yrs old, with a 13 yr old dtr, Olivia was not willing to wait any longer for Mark to make a

decision. Hear how Olivia’s actions prompted Mark to come to terms with what he wanted and needed, so that Olivia could move forward in her life one way or the other.

At 46 years old, Susan is dating online after being divorced three times. With a heart as big as her home state of Texas, Susan gives every man a chance. Her stories are both heartwarming and hard to hear. Her willingness to give her time and attention, as well as her joie-de-vivre and sense of humor have landed her with less than a healthy dating life. Paula gives Susan a dose of reality on how being too nice eases loneliness in the moment, but hurts in the long run to finding and keeping a Mr. Right.

Dating in your fabulous forties can feel like a new world where being brave and daring lands you feeling empty and floundering around wondering what is wrong with men. Find out why being uber sexy is so much fun, but can lead to men just taking you for a ride. In this Episode, Sexy Boss, Syndicated Radio Host, and Author, Heather Havenwood talks about her experience of being super smart and sexy, and how that has created some difficulty in the having men who adore her, commit! Hear why exuding all the wonderfulness about us can be so difficult in getting a Mr. Right’s attention for more than right now!

Sometimes dating after a divorce feels like you’ve been asleep for the number of years you were married and have woken up in a different world. Anna is 42 years old and was married for nearly 18 years. She began dating Dan immediately following her divorce and has been seeing him for 12 months.  When the two are together, Anna says that the relationship is great, but she’s baffled as to why Dan doesn’t seem to need to see her more often and connect more deeply. Anna’s frustration and disappointment with her first experience of dating in her 40s has her questioning if she just should have stayed in her marriage.

Amanda was a guest on Episode #3 of Make Him Wonder.  At 26 years old, she is divorced with one small child. Amanda had been dating Brian for the past year and was about to move in with him.  Because she wanted to ensure that she and Brian would go the distance, she called Coach Paula wanting info on how to keep the fire burning in a long-term relationship. The call took an interesting turn, ending up with Amanda having her mind changed about moving in without a ring and a date. Three months later, Amanda contacted the show again with the news of Brian's lovely proposal and the exact moment he told her he decided he would make her his wife.  On this episode, Amanda shares what she did, why she did it, and how following Paula's advice helped her to be in a fully committed relationship planning her wedding!

Paula talks about the controversy around her concept and the negative comments related to her talks and YouTube video. In this episode, she discusses the importance of a woman showing her value over her body, as it relates to the male brain, Freud's Madonna/Whore Complex, and how important it is to allow a man to see you as a woman to marry over one he can just consume!

After 6 months of dating, Andy proposed to Lisa and the two blended their families by moving into Lisa's new home. Early on, Lisa discovered what this relationship would cost her, and in less than a year she was forced to cut her losses and break things off. 10 years later, Lisa still loves Andy and wants to know if there is any hope to be back with him and make things better.

38-yr-old Mira dated Dan, a 47-yr-old separated, but not yet divorced man, for nearly 6 months. Mira processes the relationship with Paula, wanting to know if she could have done anything differently to prevent the ending, or if it was simply a case of Dan being a Consumer rather than a Buyer.

48-yr-old Katie met 58-yr-old Mike online. When Katie knew she wanted to marry Mike she began utilizing Paula's coaching strategies and in 9 weeks, Mike proposed. The two married soon after. Katie talks to Paula about her failure to admit the truth and heed "the warning signs" regarding Mike's lying and lack of empathy.

44-year-old Riley is in a relationship with 25-year-old Justin. The two have been friends for over 4 years and became romantic 6 months ago. Justin has been discussing marriage, but Riley has been married twice before and promised herself she would never do it again. Riley is also concerned about the age difference and wants to hear from Paula if engagement would be enough.