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  • 1279 || new wave of movements

    there's a new wave of valuable movements on the horizon, and I highly suggest you catch one.


    THE SOURCE: https://wagingnonviolence.org/2024/11/a-new-wave-of-movements-against-trumpism-is-coming/


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    11 min
  • 1278 || the first step

    Some of us have work to do. Some of us are terrified, but we're ready to take action. This is your reminder to do it scared. Time will pass either way, so we may as well put in a fight along the way.


    Rachel Maddow's Message: https://www.msnbc.com/rachel-maddow-show/maddowblog/maddow-trump-election-win-defend-democracy-rcna179201


    Sophie Diener's Poem: https://www.instagram.com/sophiediener/reel/DAGaFkARf3m/?hl=en


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    9 min
  • 1277 || the glass cliff + election anger

    Another day of election grief ranting and some information on a "new-to-me" term: "The Glass Cliff".


    Links to the inspirational resources I referenced are here:


    Glass Cliff: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glass_cliff

    @imdaven on tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@imdaven?lang=en

    @WhaleDetective on tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whale_detective?lang=en

    @BlackLiturgies on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackliturgies/?hl=en


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    10 min
  • 1276 || election hangover

    Today I'm ranting about my election grief in lieu of a regular style episode.


    Links to the inspirational resources I referenced are here:


    Rebecca Solnit's Twitter: https://x.com/RebeccaSolnit ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor

    Rebecca Solnit's Website: http://rebeccasolnit.net/

    Robert Reich's Video: https://www.tiktok.com/@rbreich/video/7434148767412030763?lang=en

    Robert Reich's Resources: https://robertreich.org/

    @YourKoreanDad's account: https://yourkoreandad.com/

    Nikita Gill's Poetry: https://www.instagram.com/nikita_gill/?hl=en

    We The Urban's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wetheurban/?hl=en


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    10 min
  • 1275 || build + broaden positive emotions

    Today I'm sharing even more techniques using neuroscience to help us escape negative thought spirals. All this is extremely subjective and not meant to be used all at once. Pick one, try it, and give it some time and repetition. Maybe it helps, maybe you move on to the next. Don't be so hard on yourself, either way!!!

    Unfortunately, negative emotions have a tendency to compound, however there is building evidence that positive thoughts and behaviors (when practiced in contextually appropriate ways) can compound as well.


    RESOURCES:

    THE ARTICLE: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2908186/


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    11 min
  • 1274 || escaping doom spirals

    Today I'm sharing even more techniques using neuroscience to help us escape negative thought spirals. All this is extremely subjective and not meant to be used all at once. Pick one, try it, and give it some time and repetition. Maybe it helps, maybe you move on to the next. Don't be so hard on yourself, either way!!!


    RESOURCES:

    THE ARTICLE: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/flipping-out/202207/doom-spiral-when-negative-thoughts-get-out-of-control


    PART 2: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/flipping-out/202208/doom-spiral-what-to-do-if-your-inner-voice-goes-too-far


    Ethan Kross's interview: https://magazine.columbia.edu/article/best-way-stop-negative-thought-spiral

    The science: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2908186/

    Cognitive distortions list: https://psychcentral.com/lib/cognitive-distortions-negative-thinking#5-tips-to-stop-cognitive-distortions


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    10 min
  • 1273 || dealing with a thought spiral

    Today I'm sharing various techniques using neuroscience to help us escape negative thought spirals. All this is extremely subjective and not meant to be used all at once. Pick one, try it, and give it some time and repetition. Maybe it helps, maybe you move on to the next. Don't be so hard on yourself, either way!!!


    RESOURCES:

    Marsha Linehan's Technique: https://www.campuswell.com/cognitive-distortions/#1690237279413-809f9f34-cc86


    Lisa Daino's technique: https://www.talkspace.com/mental-health/conditions/articles/catastrophic-thinking-thought-spirals-how-to-stop/


    Dilshad Edibam Khurana's technique: https://mpowerminds.com/blog/Understanding-the-psychology-behind-downward-spiral


    Ashley Fletcher's Techniques: https://www.mindful.org/halting-the-spiral-navigating-repetitive-thought-patterns/


    Ethan Kross's interview: https://magazine.columbia.edu/article/best-way-stop-negative-thought-spiral

    The science: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2908186/

    Cognitive distortions list: https://psychcentral.com/lib/cognitive-distortions-negative-thinking#5-tips-to-stop-cognitive-distortions


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    11 min
  • 1272 || negative thought spirals

    Today we're talking about some common cognitive distortions. Not to brag or anything, but I’m kind of a professional spiraler. I have done it so well for so long that my internal anxious voice has taken me full circle and essentially become background noise. So while I have a million personal stories about me catastrophizing or spinning out about the future, I realize I don’t really have a ton of actionable solutions. So, I did what I do when I have an idea for the podcast and I spiraled into a resource hole so I could find any of the relevant neuroscience and therapeutic remedies so that we could practice getting ourselves out of the grip of the spiral once and for all. 


    RESOURCES:

    Ethan Kross's interview: https://magazine.columbia.edu/article/best-way-stop-negative-thought-spiral

    The science: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2908186/

    Cognitive distortions list: https://psychcentral.com/lib/cognitive-distortions-negative-thinking#5-tips-to-stop-cognitive-distortions


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    11 min
  • 1271 || final thoughts on hope for cynics || patreon

    "Cynicism is a tool of the status quo." - Jamil Zaki


    "Billions of us are taught that life is a battle where winners take all and losers are everywhere. Our trust and hope are mocked as naive. By now,you know better. You can stay skeptical and avoid knee-jerk assumptions about people. You can remember that the media warps our view of one another and look for better data. Most of all, you can realize that hope is not a weakness, but a path to being less wrong and more effective. We can use that hope, like a divining rod, to locate others who want thesame things we do, building solidarity and common cause." - Jamil Zaki



    RESOURCES: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_find_hope_when_youre_feeling_cynical

    https://www.theguardian.com/books/article/2024/aug/23/hope-for-cynics-by-jamil-zaki-review-beating-the-trust-recession

    https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/in-hope-for-cynics-researcher-explores-how-seeing-the-good-in-others-is-good-for-you


    THE BOOK: https://www.jamil-zaki.com/hope-for-cynics


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    11 min
  • 1270 || creative maladjustment || hope for cynics 9

    "I am sure that we will recognize that there are some things in our society, some things in our world, to which we should never be adjusted. There are some things concerning which we must always be maladjusted if we are to be people of good will. We must never adjust ourselves to racial discrimination and racial segregation. We must never adjust ourselves to religious bigotry. We must never adjust ourselves to economic conditions that take necessities from the many to give luxuries to the few. We must never adjust ourselves to the madness of militarism, and the self-defeating effects of physical violence." - Martin Luther King Jr.


    RESOURCES: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_find_hope_when_youre_feeling_cynical

    https://www.theguardian.com/books/article/2024/aug/23/hope-for-cynics-by-jamil-zaki-review-beating-the-trust-recession

    https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/in-hope-for-cynics-researcher-explores-how-seeing-the-good-in-others-is-good-for-you


    THE BOOK: https://www.jamil-zaki.com/hope-for-cynics


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    12 min

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@MYDBpodcast is a bite sized, real talk, daily motivation podcast to play while you make your bed every morning. Build momentum - better your life.


Each episode is around 10 minutes and…