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By Dr. Cynthia Hawver
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The podcast currently has 58 episodes available.
Hello Mamas! In today’s podcast I want to share my personal story and journey of how Mama Shrink became a mama. This is my holiday miracle and the one I am always most grateful so it felt good to share it. I get asked a lot about adoption, especially when people see us with our 2 boys who are both bi-racial.
I am sensitive in sharing this story from my perspective as my kids will someday have their own adoption story. There are parts of my journey removed to protect their birthmother’s and things that I am not comfortable sharing publicly.
Adoption is a whole other level of becoming a mom. It’s very different from how other women become moms in terms of trying to get pregnant and being able to conceive. I often refer to it as an emotional rollercoaster because there are so many highs and lows and unknowns that being able to conceive does not bring.
My boys were meant to be mine.... I know that for sure. In this story you will see the signs and miracles that took place that brought them to my husband and I. We may not be connected biologically but we are connected a soul level which I will take any day over genetics. I hope this story helps all moms unable to conceive to have hope that you can become a mom through the amazing gift of adoption.
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Dr. Cynthia Hawver's website: drcynthiah.com and you can find me on the socials @dr.cynthiahawver
Ever wondered how to navigate parenting a strong-willed child? Curious about effective strategies that can transform challenging behaviors?
In this insightful episode, the host delves into the challenges and triumphs of parenting a strong-willed child. Drawing from personal experiences, the discussion unfolds a narrative that encapsulates the intricacies of managing a child with a strong personality. From setting boundaries to the significance of consistency, the conversation covers various aspects of parenting, illustrating real-life scenarios that many parents can relate to. Strategies such as using time-outs effectively, providing choices, and employing positive motivation are discussed, offering a comprehensive guide for parents facing similar situations.
The episode commences by emphasizing the importance of setting clear boundaries for strong-willed children, elucidating that a firm "no" should mean "no." Consistency emerges as a key theme, with the host highlighting the need for unwavering adherence to rules and consequences. Practical tips, such as offering only two choices and using timers for time limits, are introduced to foster a sense of control for the child while maintaining discipline. The incorporation of effective consequences and the power of forgiveness in disciplining form essential components of the discussed parenting strategies. The narrative further explores the use of timeouts, stressing the significance of creating a distraction-free environment for its efficacy.
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Dr. Cynthia Hawver's website: drcynthiah.com and you can find me on the socials @dr.cynthiahawver
Hello Mommas! The holidays are coming in so fast and before we all get busy with life, parties, kids and everything else, I just wanted to talk to you about dealing with the holidays when you’re feeling depressed, down, overwhelmed and anxious.
If you are feeling these things, I want to assure you that you are not alone. 90% of people are feeling the exact same way. Holiday depression and stress is a real thing and it happens even to the best of us.
Through this episode, I want to be able to help you find a way to deal and manage with these feelings and suggest some things you can do to make the holidays a bit better for you and your family. I want you to be happy during this season momma’s and I’ll be discussing some things that I know might help you out.
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Dr. Cynthia Hawver's website: drcynthiah.com and you can find me on the socials @dr.cynthiahawver
Mamas, it is so important to have a good therapist for yourself and for your children if either of you need one. You shouldn’t settle for a therapist just because it’s convenient, they accept your insurance, or because you’ve worked with someone forever and don’t want to start over.
In this episode, I’m going to be talking to you about what you need to look for and what you should want regarding good and bad therapy.
I’m going to give you some tips and tricks on how to know for sure that the therapist you’re seeing is the right fit for you and your family.
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Dr. Cynthia Hawver's website: drcynthiah.com and you can find me on the socials @dr.cynthiahawver
I would like to dive into the concept of mindset shifting in the next 2 episodes of the Mama Shrink Podcast because I feel that this is such a big thing. It’s one thing to think about something in a certain way and it’s a whole different level when you really believe what you’re talking about. This comes down to the whole concept of the biology of belief.
So today, I’m going to talk about self-sabotage. What is it, how do we do it, and why we do it. I have personally engaged in self-sabotaged throughout my life and have seen this cycle in many women that I have worked with over the years. I share about this in order to help you move out of this vicious cycle and become a happier mom and woman.
So, let’s discuss Self-Sabotage
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Dr. Cynthia Hawver's website: drcynthiah.com and you can find me on the socials
@dr.cynthiahawver
Ever wondered why common courtesy seems to be fading away in today's world? What if teaching manners could make a significant impact on our lives and society? In this podcast episode, Dr. Cynthia Hawver, a licensed psychologist and host of the Mama Shrink podcast, passionately addresses the decline of manners in society, emphasizing the need for parents to actively teach their children these essential skills. Dr. Haver shares personal anecdotes and observations, ranging from the lack of door-holding to the rise of disrespectful behavior in children. She dives into various aspects of manners, covering interruptions, speaking disrespectfully, saying "please" and "thank you," and even extends the discussion to modern challenges like cell phone etiquette.
Dr. Hawver advocates for modeling good behavior as the foundation for teaching manners to children. She stresses the significance of addressing interrupting, disrespectful speech, and the importance of expressions like "please" and "thank you." The discussion expands to encompass behavior at the table, societal politeness, and the need to instill courtesy in email communication and other forms of modern interaction. Throughout, she highlights the pivotal role of parents in shaping their children's behavior and fostering kindness.
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Facebook Group: Dr. Cynthia Midlife Mamas https://www.facebook.com/groups/drcynthiamidlifemamas
Dr. Cynthia Hawver's website: drcynthiah.com and you can find me on the socials @dr.cynthiahawver
In this insightful podcast episode, Dr. Cynthia, a seasoned psychologist, delves into the complex realm of guilt, particularly experienced by mothers. Opening up with a raw exploration of societal expectations and the relentless pursuit of perfection, she addresses the common narrative of moms feeling guilty for perceived imperfections and societal pressures. Dr. Cynthia shares personal anecdotes and professional insights, revealing the multifaceted aspects of guilt, from work-life balance struggles to the challenges of setting boundaries.
Dr. Cynthia addresses the origins of guilt, rooted in upbringing, cultural influences, and personal values. Drawing from her experience, she highlights how guilt can be a generational hand-me-down, perpetuating patterns that need breaking. The episode explores various scenarios, from the guilt associated with work-life balance to the intricate dynamics of relationships and divorce. Dr. Cynthia discusses the unhealthy use of guilt as a form of emotional manipulation, shedding light on power dynamics and the role of insecurities. By encouraging self-reflection, she guides listeners to differentiate between healthy guilt that prompts positive change and the unhealthy burden that hinders growth.
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Dr. Cynthia Hauver's website: drcynthiah.com and you can find me on the socials @dr.cynthiahawver
Ever wondered how to navigate family drama during the holiday season? Curious about setting boundaries and making the most of this special time of year? In this podcast episode, Dr. Cynthia discusses the intricacies of managing family dynamics during the holiday season. Drawing from personal experiences and professional wisdom, she provides practical advice on setting boundaries, dealing with difficult relatives, and ensuring a more enjoyable and meaningful celebration.
Dr. Cynthia begins by emphasizing the importance of self-care and setting boundaries, focusing on making the holiday season more enjoyable and less stressful. She encourages listeners to prioritize their mental well-being and explains the significance of setting boundaries even with close family members. She advises listeners to prepare in advance for potential triggers and difficult situations. Dr. Cynthia suggests strategies like using "I statements" and steering the conversation toward other family members to reduce personal stress. Taking breaks, getting fresh air, and keeping a positive attitude can help diffuse tense situations.
The podcast episode underscores the importance of not tolerating mistreatment or uncomfortable situations. Dr. Cynthia encourages listeners to teach their children the value of being surrounded by love and kindness and not accepting relationships based on financial assistance or negativity. She emphasizes the importance of being around people who truly enjoy each other's company.
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Dr. Cynthia Hauver's website: drcynthiah.com and you can find me on the socials @dr.cynthiahawver
Ever wondered how a breast cancer diagnosis affects not just the patient but the entire family? What can you do to navigate the complex healthcare system and maintain a sense of normalcy in your life? This podcast episode explores the journey of a breast cancer survivor and offers valuable insights into dealing with a diagnosis.
Our guest Christa, a breast cancer survivor, shares her remarkable journey from diagnosis to thriving. She speaks about the emotional and physical challenges she faced, her experience with taking Tamoxifen, and the impact on her family, especially her children. With over a decade of personal experience, Christa discusses her transformation into a board-certified health coach and nutrition specialist. She also talks about the importance of advocacy, helping others navigate the complex healthcare system.
From the emotional toll of the diagnosis and treatment to the practical challenges like dealing with insurance companies, Christa's story is a testament to resilience and determination.
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Christa Tyler's Website
Christa Tyler on Instagram
Dr. Cynthia Hauver's website: drcynthiah.com and you can find me on the socials @dr.cynthiahawver
Have you ever wondered how to strike a balance between discipline and understanding with your child, especially if they're strong-willed or involved in multiple activities? In this podcast episode, Dr. Cynthia Hawver has a conversation with her nine-year-old son, Lucas Hawver. They touch upon various aspects of parenting and child development. Lucas shares his perspective on sports, school, and even recounts some mischievous childhood adventures, like hiding his grandma's phone. Throughout the discussion, Dr. Hawver emphasizes the importance of consistency in parenting and the need for children to learn balance. She also highlights the significance of validating a child's feelings and maintaining open communication.
The episode delves into the significance of allowing children to express their emotions and the role of validation. Dr. Hawver underlines that listening and acknowledging a child's feelings can prevent them from internalizing problems and feeling responsible for issues in the family.
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Dr. Cynthia Hauver's website: drcynthiah.com and you can find me on the socials @dr.cynthiahawver
The podcast currently has 58 episodes available.