Marriage & Miracles

Marriage & Miracles

By Frankie and JanelleReligion & SpiritualityChristianity
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Marriage & Miracles episodes

  • 27. Kick Anxiety in the FACE! with Kate Schoenecker

    Today's guest is Kate Schoenecker is a Confidence Consultant for Next Level Confident (yes, we work together!) Personal Trainer, and Yoga Instructor!

    You can check out her IG @mckatester or email her [email protected]

    "Some people think their walk with anxiety has to be their reality. I don’t have everything figured out but I have experienced a lot of hope and freedom in this area so I’m passionate about helping other women."


    • Anxiety and depression is affecting 40 million adults in the United States. 18.1% of our population.
    • Anxiety is highly treatable, yet only 36.9% of people receive treatment.

    • Kate shares that she’s been battling different forms of anxiety since she was 3 or 4. "I first went to therapy for Tricotilomania. But when I got older, I thought seeing a therapist made me weak. I originally saw a doctor because I thought there was something wrong with my heart, but it turns out they were panic attacks. I had tingly fingers and numbness. A hard time breathing and chest pain."


      We will answer questions like:

      • How do I know if I have severe anxiety?
      • How can I stop shaming my thoughts?
      • How do I stop unwanted thoughts?
      • How can I use my anxiety for good?
      • Should I go get bloodwork done?
      • How to have a healthy relationship with my body? 
      • How can I have a healthy relationship with myself?
      • Why do I have so much social anxiety when I'm heading to an event?

      • Many of us have fearful, intrusive thoughts. These are unwelcome thoughts that cause more and more fears. This can become a scary loop where are you don’t know what is reality and what’s not. One technique that's worked for Kate is naming the fear a persons name.. like Sally. So instead of resisting your intrusive thoughts, play with them!


        What are the 5 creative things you have done to kick anxiety in the face?

        1. Get your bloodwork taken. If you’re missing nutrients, a side effect can be anxiety. I had an Iron deficiency. I went and saw an Integrative RD.

        2. Thought play. Create a separate identity for your fear. Being able to laugh at yourself and your taboo thoughts!

        3. Keep track of less. What all are you keeping track of? Take an inventory of what all you’re tracking in your brain. Counting Calories. Weighing yourself every day. Social media. 

        4. Take inventory of your movement patterns. If you’re constantly working out super hard, doing HIIT or long runs, it might be causing elevated stress your levels. Weight lifting. Cardio. If your workouts are always super intense it can lead to chronic stress. “It’s not all about calories in, calories out. Recent studies are showing that stress is playing a bigger role in what your body looks like.” 

        5. Try something totally new! Keep an open mind. Something you wouldn’t have tried before. Like chiropractic care, acupuncture, a float tank, water coloring.


        "I don’t need to be ashamed of my anxiety. It’s not weakness. It’s fire! It’s power!"

        "Slow and steady wins the race. It’s okay that you don’t have it all right now!"


        Thank you, Kate, for sharing your powerful mind on today's podcast!

        51 min
      • 26. 7 Puppy Lessons that Frankie & Janelle are Learning!

        Whether you have a dog or not, this episode will likely make you LOL, keep your mind off of COVID-19, and teach you some practical tips for life!  

        My husband Frankie & I got an Australian Shepherd / Border Collie mix 3 weeks ago! Our pup's name is Deni, and she's the cutest puppy in the world. Everyone who walks by her tells us she's the prettiest dog they've ever seen. Which is AWESOME!

        But don't let her cute looks fool you... While we love her very much, we are VERY MUCH learning lessons on patience, sacrifice, and how much work having a puppy can be! 

        Frankie & I will share with you:

        • What's been the most frustrating part of having a puppy?
        • What are the biggest sacrifices we've experienced?
        • Why is intentionality in our marriage more important than ever?
        • How to set boundaries, even when saying NO isn't easy?
        • Why research makes a difference?  
        • How to get creative with your PAWenting? 
        • Why planning ahead & having disciplined habits matters!
        • This quick, hilarious podcast episode will leave you chuckling to yourself over Frankie & my puppy drama, a few tips for personal growth, and either make you want a puppy really bad or decide PAWenting will never be your thang. Ha!

          Shout out to Dog Trainer Ben Davidson in San Diego for all his help so far! 

          Here is the YouTube video by Simpawtico Dog Training about How to Use a Kong Dog Toy - 90% of Behavior Problems Eliminated.

          If you enjoy it, please SUBSCRIBE & Leave a 5 Star Review!

          27 min
        • 25. Find Gratitude During the Coronavirus with Marta Spirk

          Welcome today's guest, Marta Spirk, Women’s Empowerment Coach!

          Join the Women’s Empowerment School @ Martaspirk.com or follow Marta on IG @Martaspirk.

          Sooo... let's talk Coronavirus.

          Because no one else is talking about it, right??

          Just kidding.

          We want to give a couple tips of ways to use this time to reflect & find gratitude for your life!

          We are isolated and secluded in a time of crisis.. and it's a weird time without a doubt.

          And because you're isolated, your weakness’s will likely be exposed during this time, and that's normal. Press into the silence.

          It's more important now than ever to get centered.

          We will be answering questions such as:

          • How can you find motivation during this time?
          • What are 3 practical things you can do right now during this time of “self quarantine” to practice self-love?  
          • How can you be proud of yourself during this time?
          • What are you going to do with this extra time on your hands?
          • How can you find forgiveness for yourself?
          • Stress is a choice... what calms you down?
          • Please know that fear is normal, but when your fear is growing, it might be created by the hysteria from social media. Setting social media boundaries is crucial during this time!

            We strongly encourage you to take your emotional health seriously right now because your emotional health leads to your physical health.

            Marta & I are here for you. If you are struggling with fear, loneliness, or anxiety and want to talk to someone for support, we are here for you. 

            Please don't hesitate to reach out & get the help you need.

            46 min
          • 24. 5 Ways to Heal your Imposter Syndrome with Janelle Lynnae
            • Do you feel like you don't belong amongst all the smart people you work with?  
            • Do you feel like you're not good enough to apply for a high level promotion at work?  
            • Do you feel like you haven't earned your accomplishments and don't deserve the praise you're getting?  
            • Do you find yourself thinking your ideas and skills aren't worthy of other's attention?  
            • And most importantly - How do you heal this conversation in your head?!?
            • In todays podcast we will talk about how you can deal with and heal from your imposter syndrome in the workplace. 

              16 min
            • 23. ALL. THINGS. Enneagram!!!! with Gabrielle Westbrook

              Today's Guest, Gabrielle Westbrook @gabriellewestbrook_ is an Enneagram Coach that helps women who feel purposeless connect to their voice and find their identity through honesty & self-discovery. 

              We're going to talk about how this HAWT new personality test, called the Enneagram, is a great resource for personal growth & transformation. It's like an internal GPS that guides you on your inner work!

              Questions Discussed:

              • How is Enneagram different from Myers-Briggs or Strengthfinders?
              • Are personalities formed via nature or nurture?
              • What should I do if I feel like my life is on autopilot?
              • What is my Shadow Self vs my Authentic Self?
              • Why do I find myself in this toxic, repetitive loop?
              • How do I become a healthier versions of myself?
              • Is my subconscious mind or conscious mind at work?
              • How do I grow in self awareness? 
              • We will go through each types:

                1. Have the need to..

                2. Core desire

                3. Core weekness

                4. Childhood message

                5. Core longing of their heart


                By the way.... Taylor Swift - are you a 1???


                A few awesome people you should check out, mentioned today:

                Brendan Bushard

                Dave Ramsey

                Rachel Hollis

                Claire Guentz


                Action Steps:

                Take the Enneagram test! (duh)

                Learn more about each type

                The Road Back to You book

                Podcast called The Liturgist episode 37


                Connect with Gabrielle on her website TheHopeHealers.com - COMING SOON!

                Or, head to her IG @gabriellewestbrook_ for tons of free enneagram education.

                1 hr 5 min
              • 22. 7 Easy Health Tips for a Busy Young Professional with Janelle Lynnae

                Today's quick episode is with yours truly & we'll discuss:

                - How can I stay healthy when I’m so busy?

                - How do I meal prep?

                - What to do if I have no time for working out?

                - How to manage stress when I work so much?

                - Is a night routine important?

                - When should I drink water?

                - When should I grocery shop?

                -And many valuable questions you didn't even know you should be asking!

                Hey there! Head to my website at www.NextLevelConfident.com to get on the email list to get insta pot recipes & grocery lists and more that I'm sending out tomorrow.

                Thanks for listening & feel free to reach out if you have questions- [email protected]

                27 min
              • 21. HOW TO STEP AWAY from YOUR FUNK & Take Action with Kelly Ann

                Kelly Ann is a Beauty Biz Marketing Coach that helps women reach their highest potential through mindset and marketing strategies.

                This episode is one of the most raw, vulnerable stories we’ve had thus far. 

                Kelly will talk about everything from addiction & opioid problems in the US to depression & drinking to numb the pain to self-love, gratitude, and Tony Robbins.

                Connect on IG: @iam_kellyann

                We will answer these questions:

                • Why is it so hard to ask for help when you’re a hot freakin mess?
                • Why do I keep attracting the same kind of things in my life?
                • What advice would you give women that are in the middle of a funk right now?
                • What would the highest version of yourself do?
                • Why meditation, yoga, or visualizations?
                • Ask yourself: What’s the worst that could happen?

                • My favorite Quotes From Today's Podcast:

                  “Drop into your heart. Get out of your head.”

                  “I became more confident after going through all of this because it showed me what I was capable of.”

                  “Your relationships are a reflection of how you’re feeling about yourself.”

                  “Rock bottom brought me to my knees. Have faith that everything will get better. Don’t stay in your victim mindset. Take your power back.”


                  Thank you, Kelly Ann for vulnerably sharing your story with us. 

                  1 hr
                • 20. Build Your Confidence in the Workplace with Janelle Lynnae

                  This 17 minute episode explains what is The Confidence Workshop is & why the women in Corporate America will massively benefit from the workshop! Todays podcast is with yours truly, Janelle Lynnae, CEO of Next Level Confident.

                  • Do you ever find yourself spending way too much time thinking about that ONE thing you did wrong?
                  • Do you over-analyze situations at work, frustrated with how you handled it, wishing you could go back and re-do it?
                  • When you "fail" at something, do you hear a voice in your head saying "YOU are a failure" ?
                  • Would you have a hard time saying 5 - 10 things you love about yourself when asked on the spot?
                  • Do you feel like you want something so badly but are confused as to why you don't see the results you want?

                  • We will discuss all of this and more.

                    Please head to our website at www.nextlevelconfident.com & reach out to see if The Confidence Workshop is a good fit for the women of your company.

                    18 min
                  • 19. 5 Lessons I Learned from a Phone Vacation with Natalie Adele

                    Natalie Adele is a yoga instructor at a studio & spa in Hartford, Connecticut.

                    Connect with her on IG @yogi_on_fire or go to her website at Vasutribe.com

                    On todays podcast, we answer these questions:

                    • What does it mean to have a Phone vacation? 
                    • Why should I take a phone vacation?
                    • Have you ever thought about how much time you spend on your phone & how that might negatively impact your lifestyle?
                    • What am I filling my time with that doesn’t need to be there?
                    • How does being off your phone effect your sleep? 
                    • Why do we rely on our phones so much?
                    • How can we create the space to think deeply about our life? 
                    • Why are Natalie & I so passionate about getting off the phone?
                    • "I began examining my relationship with my phone." 

                      "The phone stresses out our nervous system, but when you strip away distractions you can figure out how you’re really feeling in any given moment."

                      "Are you feeling bored? Or is it being present? Maybe that’s what peace feels like..." 

                      49 min
                    • 18. How to Reduce Stress & Begin Living a Playful Life with Gary Ware

                      Gary Ware is a Strategic Play Consultant. Yes. You read that correctly. He helps companies & professionals level up their skills & become the best versions of themselves through fun & entertainment.

                      Connect with Gary on IG: @Garyware

                      Click here for your Free PLAY PDF

                      Topics included:

                      “The opposite of play isn’t work. It’s depression.”

                      • Why should you live a playful life?
                      • How do you stay curious?
                      • What brings you joy?
                      • Are you experiencing burnout?
                      • What is your intention in any given moment?
                      • What are some forms of play we can do as adults?

                      • Bottom line: Adults need play. Play reduces stress.

                        Learn how to get uncomfortable- don't do something just because "things have always been this way".

                        Average sucks so be willing to take leaps of faith.

                        What’s the worst that could happen? The worst is that you go back to what you were doing before.

                        Resources Mentioned:

                        1. Breakthroughplay.com
                        2. Go to an Improv class near you!
                        3. Decisive: How to Make Better Choices in Life and Work
                        4. ZAPPOS book 
                        5. Michelle Poler 
                        6. The Y exercise
                        7. Click here for your Free PLAY PDF

                        8. 1 hr

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