Mastering Midlife with Heidi

Are you afraid of disappointing others or of being judged? Do you often do things out of a sense of loyalty or duty to avoid being seen as bad or unforgiving? Do you feel selfish for putting yourself first or for saying no? If you said yes to any of these, tune in because being in this people pleasing FOG is what we're talking about in today's episode.

Join the Me First Community, where you'll learn to prioritize your needs and desires, gain confidence and a strong sense of who you are, say no without guilt and create a life that feels good in your heart, without concern about judgment from others. You'll be among like minded women all on a journey of self discovery, and will have guidance through expert led discussions, guest speakers, and personal coaching.

If you'd like to know more about what coaching with me looks like, please email me at  [email protected].

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Many people view people-pleasing as a good thing, a positive trait. It can be, when driven by genuine love and generosity. But if your people-pleasing is coming from a fear of not being liked, conflict, being rejected, etc., there's a catch. Tune in to hear about 7 signs that might show you that you're being nice for the wrong reasons, and how to start overcoming "the disease to please."

Ready to break free from defeating patterns and toxic self-doubt to master your success and happiness? Join our live 90-minute monthly workshops and uncover your blind spots, learn practical tools, and create the life you want! Don't let fear and doubt hold you back any longer - visit www.masteringmidlifewithheidi.com/workshops now to check out the latest workshop and catch up on past replays.

If you'd like to know more about what coaching with me looks like, please email me at  [email protected].

Download my FREE guide: 20 Ways To Say "No" Without Guilt.

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Stress is no fun and has many negative side effects. Yet, many of us spend a lot of time in this state and some almost wear it as a badge of honor. Do you want to stop living in survival mode? In this episode, I'm breaking down how and why our bodies and brains get addicted to stress, and what you can do to kick stress to the curb.

Are you ready to create a life you don't need a vacation from? StressMas in July begins July 20th and is an easy way to prioritize your well-being. This free challenge is the easiest, non-challenging challenge you'll ever do! Just watch a 5 minute video each day about how to find more peace in your life, then share your video takeaways and win cash prizes and exclusive coaching. Head over to the Mastering Midlife with Heidi Facebook Group today and claim your spot.

If you'd like to know more about what coaching with me looks like, please email me at  [email protected] or book a free Clarity Call at  https://calendly.com/heidi-gustafson/30min.

Download my FREE guide: 20 Ways To Say "No" Without Guilt.

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Do you look in the mirror and see someone that you deeply love as much as a dear friend? I've despised the person looking back at me, for reasons deeper than physical appearance. In today's episode, I'm sharing how negative perceptions develop and why we end up holding onto them, even when we know they're not benefiting us. Tune in to look at your reflection in a brand new way.

Are you ready to create a life you don't need a vacation from? StressMas in July begins July 20th and is an easy way to prioritize your well-being. This free challenge is the easiest, non-challenging challenge you'll ever do! Just watch a 5 minute video each day about how to find more peace in your life, then share your video takeaways and win cash prizes and exclusive coaching. Head over to the Mastering Midlife with Heidi Facebook Group today and claim your spot.

If you'd like to know more about what coaching with me looks like, please email me at  [email protected].

Download my FREE guide: 20 Ways To Say "No" Without Guilt.

This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher. 

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What is happiness and why does it feel so elusive at times? In this episode, I'm shining a light on the connection between happiness and inner peace, and 3 things to look at so that you can live a peaceful, happy life on a daily basis.

Ready to break free from defeating patterns and toxic self-doubt to master your success and happiness? Join our live 90-minute monthly workshops and uncover your blind spots, learn practical tools, and create the life you want! Don't let fear and doubt hold you back any longer - visit www.masteringmidlifewithheidi.com/workshops now to check out the latest workshop and catch up on past replays.

If you'd like to know more about what coaching with me looks like, please email me at  [email protected].

Download my FREE guide: 20 Ways To Say "No" Without Guilt.

This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher. 

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Are you feeling perpetually overwhelmed, drained, and teetering on the edge? Could these feelings be more closely tied to your personal boundaries than you realize? Through exploring my own experiences with burnout and boundary-setting, I'll uncover five key signs that these two might be interconnected.

Ready to break free from defeating patterns and toxic self-doubt to master your success and happiness? Join our live 90-minute monthly workshops and uncover your blind spots, learn practical tools, and create the life you want! Don't let fear and doubt hold you back any longer - visit www.masteringmidlifewithheidi.com/workshops now to check out the latest workshop and catch up on past replays.

If you'd like to know more about what coaching with me looks like, please email me at  [email protected].

Download my FREE guide: 20 Ways To Say "No" Without Guilt.

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Do you say 'sorry' a lot? Most often, the situation doesn't actually warrant an apology. Over apologizing sends the message that you've done something wrong or didn't try hard enough. Tune in for ways to reframe 'sorry' so that you can improve your confidence, self-esteem, and communication skills.

Ready to break free from defeating patterns and toxic self-doubt to master your success and happiness? Join our live 90-minute monthly workshops and uncover your blind spots, learn practical tools, and create the life you want! Don't let fear and doubt hold you back any longer - visit www.masteringmidlifewithheidi.com/workshops now to check out the latest workshop and catch up on past replays.

If you'd like to know more about what coaching with me looks like, please email me at  [email protected].

Download my FREE guide: 20 Ways To Say "No" Without Guilt.

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Have you ever thought "when X happens, then I'll do Y"? If so, this thinking could be stealing your happiness from the present moment. Tune in to find out the circumstances in which "when-then" thinking is helpful, and those in which it is not. Plus, discover why this is a common thinking pattern and what you can do to stop it.

Ready to break free from defeating patterns and toxic self-doubt to master your success and happiness? Join our live 90-minute monthly workshops and uncover your blind spots, learn practical tools, and create the life you want! Don't let fear and doubt hold you back any longer - visit www.masteringmidlifewithheidi.com/workshops now to check out the latest workshop and catch up on past replays.

If you'd like to know more about what coaching with me looks like, please email me at  [email protected].

Download my FREE guide: 20 Ways To Say "No" Without Guilt.

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Are you a people-pleasing, procrastinating perfectionist? If so, you're not alone! Tune in to learn about the "trifecta of Ps," how these behaviors feed off each other, and what you can do to break the patterns to live a more fulfilling life.

Ready to break free from defeating patterns and toxic self-doubt to master your success and happiness? Join our live 90-minute monthly workshops and uncover your blind spots, learn practical tools, and create the life you want! Don't let fear and doubt hold you back any longer - visit www.masteringmidlifewithheidi.com/workshops now to check out the latest workshop and catch up on past replays.

If you'd like to know more about what coaching with me looks like, please email me at  [email protected].

Download my FREE guide: 20 Ways To Say "No" Without Guilt.

This episode was produced by The Podcast Teacher. 

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Does your stress seem kind of like an appendage? It may feel like it's a part of you, something you can't put down. If so, you're not alone...I've been there! In the second half of this two-part series, I'll uncover even more things you're probably doing and how they unknowingly contribute to the stress that feels attached to you.

Stop letting stress control your life! Register for the Mastering Stress Workshop on April 20, 2023. A replay is available for anyone registered.

Do you want 1 on 1 support to define your goals, face your barriers, and receive tailored steps for lasting change? Contact me at [email protected] to schedule a complimentary connection call.

Download my FREE guide: 20 Ways To Say "No" Without Guilt.

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