The Dr. Leaf Show

Mastering the Art of Dating


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Dating today feels like emotional gymnastics — and no one knows that better than Talia, a dating expert and podcast host who went on 150 dates in one year. In this episode, I sit down with Talia to unpack what she learned, how she stayed grounded, and why modern dating can be so mentally exhausting.

We talk about:

  • The neuroscience of dating and attachment styles
  • How to build resilience after rejection
  • Dating app burnout
  • What “slow burn chemistry” actually means
  • The role of neuroplasticity in healing unhealthy patterns
  • Why self-compassion might be your strongest dating tool
  • Talia also shares daily practices, mindset shifts, and practical advice that will help anyone — whether you’re new to dating, starting over, or just tired of the same dead-end patterns.


    This conversation will change how you think about dating, love, and your brain.


    📌 Chapters:


    00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

    00:30 Talia's Journey to Becoming a Dating Expert

    01:12 Scientific Approach to Dating

    01:51 Mental Resilience and Podcast Impact

    03:20 Breaking Free from Dating Patterns

    05:44 Intentional Thinking and Practical Steps

    09:55 Overcoming Overthinking in Dating

    11:30 Identifying Personal Needs vs. Fear-Based Desires

    14:32 Focusing on Personal Growth

    15:01 Handling Rejection in Dating

    16:22 Using Dating Apps Intentionally

    18:10 The Concept of Slow Burn Chemistry

    19:33 Aligning Dating Choices with Core Values

    20:31 Self-Compassion in the Dating Journey

    23:57 Reentering the Dating Scene with Confidence

    25:11 Debunking Dating Myths

    25:40 Daily Practices for Emotional Wellbeing

    26:05 Defining a Successful Relationship

    26:41 Final Thoughts and Gratitude


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