Men Speaking Out

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According to the CSSE – which stands for the Center for Systems Science and Engineering at John Hopkins University - As of today (9-May) there are almost 4 million total confirmed cases of the Covid-19 virus with 1.3 million cases in the U.S. alone. Not to mention roughly almost 78K deaths in the US.

Now by the time this podcast is published those numbers won't be accurate. If you would like to see these up-to-date statistics real-time go to - https://www.arcgis.com/apps/opsdashboard/index.html#/bda7594740fd40299423467b48e9ecf6

This podcast we talk about what are we doing as MEN in our households to protecting our families (practicing social distancing, etc.) and preparing ourselves for the worst from this pandemic by having life insurance in place to at least bury yourself or your loved one.
 
So join Rocky, John, Charles and me (Bazz) as we talk about both items above and much more. 

Listen in and think about it.

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How many times have you heard...

• Did you hear what I said?
• Are you even listening to me?
• “Earth to Bazz” you didn't hear a word I said?

Sometimes we get so wrapped up in our own very personal world that we don’t hear or see anything outside of ourselves. Not to mention, whatever is shared, doesn’t hold our attention.

This frame of mind can apply to anyone we encounter (e.g. our spouse, children, friends, job, or just people in general). 

So why is that?

• Could it be that we don’t need to know every little detail of what’s being shared?
• Or do we just respond differently from certain cues that we are programmed to pay attention to?
• Lastly, do we even care?

Well, chime in to hear my guest - Rocky Steve, Derrick, John, and myself (Bazz) talk about some of the reasons why we as men do hear ya, we just don't listen.

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Let me hit you with some facts. There are 3.5 billion smartphone users (which is 42% of the world's population - https://www.bankmycell.com/blog/how-many-phones-are-in-the-world).

According to a study done in August 2019, It mentions that the average person spends 3 hours and 15 minutes on their cell phone, with an estimated increase to 4 hours by 2021. (https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/aug/21/cellphone-screen-time-average-habits)

Why? Because we spend more of our pastime on social media, playing games, reading the news, and using texting as a method primary way to communicate. We've gotten away from passing time from actually physically talking and spending time with each other as we did before mobile devices. What we don't realize is that is the hurting our relationships with loved ones, family, friends, co-workers, etc.

Maybe what we NEED is a "Digital Detox". So with that being said, in this podcast, I am joined by BJ, John, Tanisha, and Charles to talk about the pros and cons of being attached to this mobile device. How it acts as a "Dopamine" that impacts our mental and physical health.

Listen in...

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Before we get started with this podcast. MSO would like to say the following:

During this time with the spread of the Covid-19 Virus, please make sure you are practicing good hand washing, social distancing and taking time to spend with your family reconnecting with each other in your very own household. Also, it doesn't hurt to reach out to remote family members and friends to check on them as well.  For more FACTS pertaining to this Coronavirus, please visit the https://www.cdc.gov/.

Attention Men! Have you ever felt like what you are doing for your family, friends or people you know and love has no value? Do you think that they even appreciate you for the person you are? Whether its fixing items around the house, paying bills or even just being present, do the people around you even understand who you are as a person?

Well, join BJ, Tory and myself as we sit and talk about the levels of appreciation from our friends, colleagues, family and even our partners. Does appreciation from them even exist?

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How many times have you heard, "I'm just not ready to commit yet." Does that make you feel like your wasting time and why? Well, listen in on this podcast as we talk about some of the challenges women face with men on this subject.

We talk about some of the broken promises made in a relationship, lost loves, commitment, acts of service, and being open-minded when it comes to sex (can ya teach an old dog new tricks). 

On this podcast joining me are Tanisha, Quick, Nina, Deshaun, and John. Each one of my guests shared their past experiences and had great input to offer on this subject. Even much so that the conversation got heated.

Great stuff!

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As we grow the MSO platform, we are always creating subjects to make you think about life. This topic is no exception. Think about it for a second...who or what is the priority in your life? Is it in the order of GOD>Spouse>Children>and everything else? Or do you fall into the "Everything Else" category?

Well, listen in on this podcast as I am joined by Tanisha, Ellis, JD, Empress, Eric, and BJ as we discuss the divine order of "Prioritizing Your Partner Over Everything Else". Some of the questions answered are:

• Are YOU a priority in your partner's life?
• Do you make your partner feel he or she is a priority in your life?
• What order do your biological or bonus children fall into within this space - especially if you're newly married?

 Good stuff!

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In 2019 according to Statista, a survey taken of over 2000 individuals within the United States were polled if they had life insurance and the results were shocking. Only 57% of Americans from that survey owned life insurance and 43% did not. Also according to caring.com, 57% of U.S. adults do not have a will and lack estate planning.  Why is that?  Why are we not making this a priority? 

Well, if you are interested in learning how to achieve estate planning goals, this episode will help you navigate this task, by giving you the steps and education you'll need to not only prepare you but your family as well. 

With this episode, we (John, BJ, Chris and myself) discuss the importance of Life Insurance, Estate Planning, Wills, Trust, Power of Attorneys, Long and Short Term Care Insurance and finally how insurance payouts work. Not to mention, you'll hear a story about how someone lost it all because their affairs were not in order.  Lastly, how we as the men of our households need to take command of this space and be prepared by making sure we have taken the steps for this day when it comes...because it will.

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With the recent death of the current retired NBA player, his daughter and the other seven passengers with the horrible helicopter accident, we just never know when it's our time. My prayers go out to their families as some of us have lost a loved one to an unfortunate accident. The question here is...are you prepared when you leave the living? Do you have all your affairs in order so that your family will be able to lay you to rest in peace? Is there any outstanding debt you didn't take care of that now your family has the burden of dealing with? Did you ever sit own and have those financial conversations to teach your children how to manage money, pay off bills, plan retirement and create generational wealth? Most importantly - do you have the right amount of life insurance (if any) to cover funeral expenses? 

These are intense questions, right? Well, join me, and my insurance / financial experts - John and Chris as we discuss these questions and much more on this podcast.

I even got educated on this one...Listen In!

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I was always taught that "Whatever is hidden in the dark, will always come to the light." I never did understand what that truly meant, until I got older and had to experience this for myself. 

Whenever we come across someone new, who are we meeting? How long will it be, before we see that person for who they are? How long will it be before all kinds of hidden flaws or secrets come out (because they always do eventually)? Once we find out, will we abandon ship or stick it out? Also, do they have a hidden agenda?

Well, join me, Breeze and our new guest Mike, as we discuss some of the horror stories behind meeting the real person or their representative. This one will open your eyes. 

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Have you ever been reluctant in taking a chance with someone or something because you weren't sure about the outcome? Was the risk greater for failure than success? What were you afraid of? What were some of the potential obstacles (blockers) that made you think twice about moving forward? Lastly did you "not" take that opportunity for yourself because of some other 3rd party in your life?  Well, we answer all these questions and more on this episode. I am joined by Randy, Tory, and Kel and each one of my guests shares a story about a situation in their life when they had to stand up and face those fears and why they took the chances they did and the outcome from them. 

I even share a story of an opportunity that I missed out on because of the fear of losing the relationship with the loved ones in my life. 

Another great show. You've got to listen in.

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