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What's YOUR love language? In this episode, Emily & Nate tackle the world famous, 5 Love Languages. What are their love languages and have they changed over time? Whether it's words of affirmation or acts of service,  what has become the relationship version of your Hogwarts House, has its pros and cons.

By diving into the science, the underlying philosophy, and the critiques, they uncover what can make the love languages a powerful tool in your marriage arsenal if used thoughtfully.

Have a listen and then take the quiz here: 5lovelanguages.com

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Quarantine got you feeling like there's literally nothing new to talk about? Does every day feel the same and time has ceased to have any semblance of meaning? Us too!!!

This week, Emily & Nate dive into a set  of 36 questions GUARANTEED by SCIENCE to get you talking beyond the standard "How" questions. The 36 Questions have been proven in studies to make strangers fall in love, and people in long-haul marriages to experience more intimacy and increased vulnerability.

Emily & Nate are taken aback by how quickly the conversation forces them to lean in, learn something new about each other, and uncover truths that they never would have found if they just walked out of their home offices with a:  "How was your day?"

You can find the 36 Questions Here and they can be a great way to connect with family  over the holidays or a way to connect over something other than half watching Netflix while doom scrolling about the fate of the world. What fun!!!

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Movember is here! That time of year where the men in your life shave and grow a 'Stache to raise awareness and money to support Men's mental and physical health. Learn more at Movember.com

On November 1st Nate shaved his beard and began a fundraiser to support the cause and thought it would be a good idea to share a little bit of his own journey through therapy, mental health, and what coming out the other side of depression  can look like.

In this episode Nate and Emily talk about their perceptions of mental health growing up, and how that affected their approach to dealing with depression. Nate walks through how he has dealt with the pressures of conforming to society's views of masculinity, and how that made him want to "fix it" himself.  They share some surprising data on how men respond to therapy differently,  how the search for meaning and belonging contribute to success, and how identifying emotional health can be tied to physical well being. Emily and Nate discuss how overcoming the fear of being perceived as broken can hinder us in creating a pathway to a better understanding of ourselves and our partners.

Want to learn more about great tips to assess you own well-being?
Take the 20-Point Head Inspection  from ManTherapy.org 

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Ah, the holidays! Turkey, presents, carols, eggnog, in-laws...more eggnog, travel plans, travel fails, guilt...even more eggnog, hangover, cookies, ugly sweaters...and it's only Dec 20th. And what's worse, the eggnog's gone.

Nate and Emily discuss how they've navigated the holiday hullabaloo with multiple family units - and their own sanity - to consider. From incorporating each other's family traditions to making everyone feel included while also prioritizing quality time for each other, learning how to navigate the stress of the holidays is a must for every couple.

Thanks to giveaway winner, Laura Enstall for the terrific suggestion!

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Need a little levity during the REAL election coverage? While you’re waiting in line at the polls, listen to our debate and decide for yourselves who deserves to be the leader of our household.

This week, Emily and Nate square off in a robust and tense debate to win your vote as the next President of their United House. Moderated by Kristin Sutter of the Happy News Network Podcast, these two go head to head about kitchen table issues, pet equity, and the exact dimensions of their HVAC filter. Which of the candidates should lead this household into the future, unify both parties, and avoid succession? The fate of their homeland rests in your hands, folks! Be sure to cast your vote on the TALNP Facebook or Instagram page.

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"I would die for her...I would kill for her...either way, what bliss!" -- The Addams Family

On today's very special bonus episode, Emily & Nate talk all about how Gomez and Morticia Addams are killing it at marriage. In fact, they admire the Addams Family SO much that they are dressing up the entire house - dogs included - for Halloween. Be sure to check out their rad costumes (thank you, Nicole Watts) on Insta and Facebook, and tag us with your awesome Halloween pics so we can feature you on our platforms!

HaPpY HaLLoWeeEEEeeeN!!!!!

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What's more important to you: buying things or buying experiences? Do you prioritize building a comfortable savings or paying down debt? Are you an "in-the-moment spender" or a "long-term investor"?

In this week's episode, Emily and Nate ask each other some important questions regarding their finances. Listen as they talk ALL about that cheddar, and reassess where their priorities have changed since the pandemic. Bonus: you can follow along at home by clicking on the link to these 12 questions below, posed by renowned couples therapist, Esther Perel.

Renowned Couple Therapist Esther Perel shares 12 money questions all partners should ask each other during quarantine. Read the full article HERE

Want a kick-ass financial advisor that won't cost you your first born child?
Contact Hannah Raynes at Trilogy Financial and let her know we sent you!

Also, get yourselves ready for our BONUS Halloween episode, dropping THIS FRIDAY, where we reveal our costume theme this year and which creepy and cooky couple we admire the MOST!

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No, it's not an episode about some gelatinous molded tofu blob we had at Aunt Martha's house last Sunday... today, Nate and Emily discuss jealousy. How it happens, who it affects (hint, it's all of us), why it's toxic, and how they were finally able to break the cycle of mistrust and suspicion.

Whether it's because of societal influences, untrustworthy coworkers, long distance, or living in - and eventually leaving - Las Vegas, these two have had plenty of reasons to be jealous, and they've learned a few things because of it. Bottom line: mind your hackles, and be sure you're both playing the same game.

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When it comes to traveling with someone, are you a wanderer or a planner? Is your travel companion the opposite? How can you respect their priorities and still get the most out of your vacation? And when you do manage to find a travel groove with someone, what happens when weather, sickness, or the powers that be throw a stick into the spoke of your tandem travel bike?

This week, Emily and Nate talk about their different travel personalities and how they've worked through the challenges faced when those personalities clash. Sometimes it looks like a heavenly meal with a gorgeous sunset...and sometimes it looks more like a screaming match in the middle of Hell's Kitchen.

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Ever feel like you're constantly climbing up the marriage mountain with no summit in sight? What is it that makes marriage harder than it's ever been, but also more rewarding? In this week's episode, Nate and Emily discuss their favorite book on marriage, The All or Nothing Marriage by Eli J. Finkel. Learn about the history of marriage in America, and how our journey towards becoming the best version of ourselves puts more stress on American marriage than in any time in history. With incredible insight into the challenges and opportunities modern couples face, this book offers perspective, "lovehacks," recalibration techniques, and so much more!

Learn more about the author, Eli J. Finkel here

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