Midlife Style School with Afton Porter

We all know that middle age can be a challenging time for many reasons, and reinventing yourself can seem difficult if you don't know where to start. But fear not!

We have the Midlife Style School is designed for you!

I've compiled a list of ten ways that you can make an impactful change through style and image. Let's dive in!

1. Invest in a wardrobe audit: A wardrobe audit is a great way to reassess your style and figure out what pieces you need to feel comfortable and confident. You can do a virtual closet edit with you, or you can do it yourself by taking inventory of your existing clothes, shoes, accessories, and makeup. This will help you determine what items should stay in your closet and which ones should be donated or thrown away.

2. Have fun with colors: Midlife is often associated with playing it safe when it comes to colors, but don't let this stop you from experimenting with different tones! Try wearing bright colors as accents to give an otherwise neutral look some pop—think red heels, yellow earrings, or a printed scarf. If you're feeling more daring, go ahead and incorporate bold colors into entire outfits.

3. Play with layers: Layering is a great way to keep your style interesting without investing too much money or effort. Build on simple basics by adding coats, ponchos, or accessories like scarves or statement necklaces for an instant transformation boost. You can also play around with different textures such as chunky knits, velvet materials or shearling coats for added visual interest.

4. Discover the power of accessories: Accessories are an important part of any outfit as they can add personality and flair to any look. Experiment with hats, jewelry, bags, belts and shoes that appeal to you—you don't even have to break the bank! Thrifting is a great way to find vintage gems that won't cost much yet will make any outfit stand out.

5. Make comfort a priority: Don't sacrifice comfort for fashion! When buying clothes always make sure they fit properly and aren't too tight or too loose so that you feel comfortable all day long. Choose fabrics like cotton or linen which are breathable and gentle against the skin so that you won't be restricted in movement while still looking stylish!

6. Get creative with prints & patterns: Midlife doesn't mean playing it safe! Instead, embrace loud prints and bold patterns as part of your newfound style journey; think polka dots blouses paired with statement stripes blazers for instance… The possibilities are endless once you tap into your creativity!

7 Try out athleisure looks: Athleisure wear isn't just for 20-somethings – it's one of the best ways to stay comfortable while still looking chic at any age! Try pairing cozy joggers with a structured blazer for an effortless yet pulled together look perfect for running errands or meeting up friends .

8 Incorporate vintage finds into modern looks: Vintage clothing often has unique designs and patterns that might be difficult to replicate today; use them as accent pieces in modern wardrobes for a fashionable twist on old classics! For example pair mom jeans from the 80s with a sleek top from the current season – it will look super trendy yet timeless at the same time .

9 Show off those curves (or lack thereof): If you want to truly reinvent yourself in midlife through style & image then consider shifting away from traditional body shapes - whether its emphasizing curves if you have them or embracing slouchy silhouettes if not - there are plenty of options available both online & offline !

10. Treat yourself once in awhile: At this stage in life many people forget about themselves due to financial restraints but don't forget – treat yourself every now & then by splurging on high-end items such as designer bags , quality shoes , statement jewelry etc ... They will last much longer than fast fashion trends & will help elevate any mundane outfit into something special!

And there you have it – my 10 tips on how to reinvent yourself through style and image during midlife – I hope the advice helps you feel confident enough to take the plunge into exploring some new looks over the next few months!

Be sure to join us inside the Midlife Style School!

Have you ever taken a look at your relationship with clothing?

Everything from the way we think about them, to how they make us feel can have an impact on our lives. Sure what you wear matters - it's natural for people to first be drawn in by visual aesthetics or individual style choice.

But that isn't all there is!

Think of clothes like circumstances that offer up different opportunities depending on who YOU decide to be while wearing them- A painter or doctor?

As always, these thoughts and feelings drive actions which will determine where life leads you next.

Want help in finding out what clothes those are?

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Here is your monthly Fashion Advisory and it's coming in hot!

Top Style Vibes:

1. Urband Minimalism

1. Retro Maximalism

I'm sharing the top 8 fashion trends for women in midlife and what not to wear this spring & summer 2023

1. Volume

2. Low Rise Jeans

3. Full Skirts

4. Stilettos

5. Knee Length Skirts

6. Hanky Hems

7. Pretty Prints

8. Opaque Fabrics

What on their way out?

1. Distressed Denim

2. Very Dark Denim

3. Bleached Denim

4. Extreme High Rise

5. Cropped Jackets

Leave a review and let me know which trends you are excited to wear.

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Are you ready to start living your most stylish midlife in 2023?

If so, you're in the right place, I'm going to show you how to start decluttering your mind of all the negative thoughts that have been keeping you stuck. You see, clutter isn't just the stuff on your floor — it's anything that stands between you and the life you want to be living.

And that includes the thoughts that we tell ourselves like "I'm not good enough," "There's something wrong with me," "I'm not worthy of my dreams," or "It's too late." It's time to start believing different things about yourself and start living the life of your dreams — let's get started!

Identify The Lies You've Been Believing

The first step towards decluttering your mind is to identify the lies that have been holding you back. These are usually stories from our past that we carry with us into adulthood. They can be things like "I'm not smart enough" or "I'm a failure" or even "I can never do anything right." It's important to recognize these stories for what they are - lies - and begin to challenge them. Ask yourself if these stories are really true - or if they were created by fear, insecurity, or an external force (like society). Once you identify these lies and call them out for what they are, then it will be easier to release them and move forward.

Replace Negative Thoughts With Positive Ones

Now that you've identified some of the negative thoughts that have been holding you back, it's time to replace them with positive ones. Begin by writing down a list of empowering affirmations such as "I am capable of achieving my goals," "I am worthy of love and respect," or "I have everything I need within me to succeed." Then read through this list every morning when you wake up and every night before bed — this will help train your brain to think more positively and create new neuropathways in your brain so that positive thinking becomes second nature.

Take Action Toward Living Your Dreams

Finally, start taking action towards living your dreams. This could mean signing up for an online class in a subject that interests you, starting a new business venture or side hustle, creating a vision board for your future goals, signing up for a volunteering opportunity - whatever it is that brings joy into your life! Taking action is often one of the hardest but most rewarding steps towards living our dream lives — so don't be afraid to take risks and go after what sets your soul on fire!

Now it's time for YOU take charge of YOUR life in 2023! Decluttering your mind is no easy task — but I'm here to teach you how inside the The Midlife Style School the month of January and more topics throughout the year.

Once done it can help release years' worth of baggage so that you can finally live freely without being weighed down by the past. So don't wait another day; start taking small steps today by joining me inside The Midlife Style School.

Your style coach,

Afton

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Your Image & Style Plan

1. Afton will give you your best colors and you pick the ones you want to include in your wardrobe

2. Afton will guide you to your best silhouetttes and you decide which ones you want to wear

3. You learn the style principles and practice them

4. Afton guides you on how to choose your vibe for your image

5. Polish your style

Design your personal style and develop into the woman you need to be to achieve your 2023 goals.

Life & style coaching is inside The Midlife Style School.

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You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream. ~C.S. Lewis

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We spend sometime at the begining of this episode celebrating 2022. It so important to acknowledge our big and small wins.

5 Ways to Haute Couture Your Life

1. Taking Action Brings Clarity

2. Don't Wait Until You Feel Ready

3. You Have Everything Within You Right Now

4. Don't Believe Everything You Think

5. You Can Be Happier in 2023 By Changing Your Perspective

Happy New Year!!

Step into the shoes of the best version of you by practicing being your future self. I will walk you thorugh a visualization of who that is and inspire you to be that woman. There are no more excuses, it's impact time!

Email me at [email protected] to schedule your styel breakthrough for 2023!

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Your Style Coach,

Afton

You are ready for your most stylish midlife with more confidence, elegance & style.

It is possible for you!

I will walk you through how in this free 4-day class and you are invited.

We are going to dive deep into what the results are in your life and how to elevate from where you are for next-level success.

If you are feeling stuck, frumpy, too old, unworthy, or not able to do what you really want to do, this class is for you!

We are going to not only look at your wardrobe but how you want to elevate your life.

This is the total package.

We aren't waiting until january to start making changes

Here is Step 1...rewriting your story.

Grab the workbook here or register for the next live event: https://www.styleguidesociety.com/style

Email me with questions at [email protected]

Your style coach,

Afton

As your style coach, I'm helping you be your glamorous self this holiday season.

Be sure to listen how to dress for the following events:

• Cocktail Party
• Office Party
• Christmas Brunch (casual holiday gathering)
• Religious Service
• Christmas Eve

Here is the holiday dress link: https://hueandstripe.com/catalog/836H&SYP78

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Free Style Breakthrough Session with Afton: Email [email protected]

Do you see yourself as a VIP....a very important person?

There is nothing that you can wear that will make you a VIP.

Reading books, your education or job, doesn't create VIPs.

The only way for you to become a VIP is to SEE yourself as one.

It comes from within you.

I went to a 3-day coaching event with my life coach, Brooke Castillo, and I absolutely loved it. (Yes, coaches need coaches)

There was three different types of tickets we could buy to attend the event.

1. A virtual ticket (I don't know how much these were)

2. General Admission tickets $197

3. A VIP ticket $1997

I could've got into the same room for $197 but I chose the VIP tickets.

Why?

Because I wanted to be treated as a VIP.

I wanted extra time with Brooke.

I wanted the good food, and I wasn't disappointed

But, even more than that...

I wanted to surround myself with people who saw themselves as VIPs.

I met some amazing women and the experience I received was priceless.

They reminded me of the women inside ELEVATE and my VIP clients that have made the decision to invest in themselves.

I have two questions I want you to ask yourself:

What experiences have you grown from because you saw yourself as a VIP?

What experiences have you passed on because you didn't see yourself as a VIP?

Anytime I have the opportunity, I choose to see myself as a VIP.

Fashionably,

Afton