Modern Anarchy

By Dr. Nicole ThompsonSociety & Culture Relationships

Modern Anarchy episodes

January 26, 2022 41. I'm Too Jealous for Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joli Hamilton
On today's episode, we have polyamorous research psychologist Dr. Joli Hamilton (She/Her) join us for a conversation on jealousy within non-monogamy and creating the relationships you desire. Together we talk about creative vs. boiler-plate monogamy, relationship agreements, and letting our partners be multiple.
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Resources to Learn More:
Esther Perel: The Secret to Desire in a Long-Term Relationship
Myers-Briggs Type Indicator
The Importance of the Relationship in Therapy
Angela Chen's ACE: What Asexuality Reveals about Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex
10 Myths About Monogamy To Leave Behind
1 hr 22 min
January 19, 2022 40. The Paradox of Our Identities with Jordanna
On today's episode, we have R&B singer and song-writer Jordanna (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the fluidity of our identity. Together we talk about analysis paralysis, shifting our negative internal dialogue, and how the internet has shaped our desires for romantic relationships.
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Resources to Learn More:
Grateful Dead - Long Strange Trip
Appalachian Trail
Miss Americana
Inside
Michael Pollan Explains Caffeine Cravings (And Why You Don't Have To Quit)
Drug Use for Grown-Ups
The Dark Side of Hustle Culture | Henry David Thoreau Walden
Black Holes | The Edge of All We Know
1 hr 31 min
January 12, 2022 39. You're Your Own Superhero with Nico Cathcart
On today's episode, we have painter and muralist Nico Cathcart (She/Her) joins us for a conversation about advocating for yourself and living with a disability in the artistic world. Together we talk about recognizing what's within our control, the importance of anchors, and the inequities of the public art world.
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Episode Transcript
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Resources to Learn More:
Art Basel
Few and Far Women
The Spoon Theory
This is Water by David

48 min
January 05, 2022 38. Be Ready to Be Confused with Desmond Napoles
On today's episode, we have the multi-awarded LGBTQ+ advocate, genderfluid editorial and runway model, and published author Desmond Napoles (They\Them or He\Him). Together we talk about Desmond's journey into authentic expression, the future of the LGBTQ+ community, and the importance of embracing others with curiosity rather than assumptions.
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Intro/Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman, Your Smith
26 min
December 22, 2021 37. Two Bad Bitches on Boundaries and Break Ups: Part 2 with Nexus J
On today's episode, we have part 2 of my conversation with artist Nexus J, Together we talk about existential dread, aligning our futures with our values, demisexuality, solo sex, and how diversity impact's the lived experience of a society!
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Resources To Learn More:
Do All Asexuals Think the Same? | Spectrum
When Whites Flock Together: The Social Psychology of White Habitus
1 hr 18 min
December 15, 2021 36. Two Bad Bitches on Boundaries and Break Ups: Part 1 with Nexus J
On today's episode, we have artist Nexus J join us for a raw conversation about the difficulty of relationships. Together we talk about finding a sense of self apart from your relationships, the importance of staying curious, and the faulty binary conditioning of our questions.
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1 hr 14 min
December 08, 2021 35. The Struggle of Living with Vitoria
On today's episode, we have a conversation with activist Vitoria (She/Her) about learning to be comfortable with change and grounding actions in your beliefs. Together we talk about the importance of community, connecting to the present moment, and remembering that no day is ever guaranteed.
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True Social Equity in Cannabis
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1 hr 1 min
December 01, 2021 34. What Does it Mean to Manifest? with Anna
On today's episode we have yogi and soul coach Anna (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the power of the universe. If you are into the whoowoo then this episodes is for you, baby. And if you are not, but still feel like you struggling with wanting to always control everything, then this episode is also for you.
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Resources To Learn More:
5 ways to align yourself with the universe
How to Overcome Your Own Self-Limiting Beliefs
People Talk About Leaving Their Soul-Crushing Rat Race Jobs
As The Pandemic Recedes, Millions Of Workers Are Saying 'I Quit'
10 Tips to Discover Your Personal Dharma
8 Ways to Start Healing Your Inner Child
Transmutation of Energy
Abraham Hicks Emotional Guidance Scale and How to Use it
1 hr 2 min
November 24, 2021 33. Claiming Your Pussy Power with Tazima Paris
On today's episode, we have sex coach Tazima Paris (She/Her) join us for a conversation on the question, what is sex? Together we talk about monogamousish relationships, being femme of center, and the difficulty of judgement.
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Resources
Sex at Dawn
Relationship Satisfaction of Polyamorous Partnerships
Why We Complain in Relationships and How to Stop
Sex, Time, and Power
5 Scientific Reasons You Should Choose Your Friends Carefully
Breakups can impact you in more ways than you think. Here's the science behind why they hurt so much.
Develop Authenticity: 20 Ways to Be a More Authentic Person
5 Ways Your Brain Influences Your Emotions
The female price of male pleasure
1 hr 24 min
November 17, 2021 32. Coming Out to Your Conservative Family: Are You a Gay Villian? with Jordan Parvex
TW: Mention of Suicidal Ideation
On today's episode, we have artist and graphic designer Jordan Parvex (She/Her) join us for a conversation about coming out to conservative family and claiming your queer identity. Together we talk about how our parental relationships shape our desires for attachment, the "othering" of queer identities, and the expectation to be the model minority.
If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend!
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Resources to Learn More
Hello Mister Magazine
At What Age Did You Know You Were Gay?
What happens when a gay person grows up in an anti-gay home
Why We Pick Difficult Partners
Acknowledging Our Parents Are Human
Support for gay marriage reaches all-time high, survey finds
What Is Tokenism, and How Does It Affect a Person's Health? Here's What Experts Say
What does intersex mean?
How The AIDS Crisis Changed The LGBT Movement
Presence vs. representation: Report breaks down LGBTQ visibility on TV
Why This Charming Gay Fairytale Has Been Lost For 200 Years
1 hr 11 min

About Modern Anarchy

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Hosted by Dr. Nicole, a queer, non-monogamous clinical psychotherapist, Modern Anarchy is a living exploration of what becomes possible when we liberate our collective pleasure. The show brings together activists, therapists, and researchers from around the world for vulnerable conversations about sex, relationships, and pleasure liberation psychology.