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- 267. Love in a F**ked up World - Dean Spade
On today’s episode, we have Dean (he/him) join us for a conversation about radical community building. Together we talk about dismantling the romance myth, NRE safety planning, and curiosity over campaigning.
🔥Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-liberation-relationships-group
🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/267-love-in-a-f-ked-up-world-dean-spade
🔥Modern Anarchy Community:
Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.com
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Intro and Outro song: Wild wild woman by Your Smith
Dean's Community:
Website: https://www.deanspade.net/
1 hr 38 min - 266. Cry Hard. Cum Hard: the Connection Between Pleasure and Grief with Jess DeVries
On today’s episode, we have Jess (she/her) join us for a conversation about normalizing the full range of the human existence. Together we talk about embracing the surrender of orgasm, learning to trust your intuition, and freeing the sounds of the body.
🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/266-cry-hard-cum-hard-the-connection-between-pleasure-and-grief-with-jess-devries
🔥Modern Anarchy Community:
Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Intro and Outro song: Wild wild woman by Your Smith
Jess's Community:
Website: https://www.belovedcoaching.net/about-jess
1 hr 19 min - 265. The Tension of Erotic Energy: Premature Ejaculation of Vulnerability with Aaron Frazin
On today’s episode, we have Aaron (he/they) join us for a conversation about the sexual tension between safety and risk. Together we talk about following your erotic compass, the existential obstacle of isolation, and cumming to our life intentions.
🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/265-premature-ejaculation-of-vulnerability-the-tension-of-erotic-energy-with-aaron-frazin
🔥Modern Anarchy Community:
Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Intro and Outro song: Wild wild woman by Your Smith
Aaron's Community:
Website: https://www.aaronfrazin.com/
1 hr 20 min - 264. Burnt-Out Libido: When You Need a Polycule to Afford NYC with Justine Ang Fonte
On today’s episode we have Justine (she/her) join us for a conversation about the adult word, pleasure. Together we talk about how sex education differs across the states, when receiving pleasure is difficult, and moving through miscarriage.
🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/264-burnt-out-libido-when-you-need-a-polycule-to-afford-nyc-with-justine-ang-fonte
🔥Modern Anarchy Community:
Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Justine's Community:
Website: https://www.justinefonte.com/
✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
1 hr 30 min - 263. When the Sex Party is Home: Power, Play, and Permission with Gili Jala
On today’s episode we have Gili (they/them) join us for a conversation all about the language of desires. Together we talk about the power of curiosity, learning to meetyourself, and embracing the gray space.
✨Queer Joy: Psychedelic Therapy Group: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/queerpsychedelictherapy
🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/263-when-the-sex-party-is-home-power-play-and-permission-with-gili-jala
✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
🔥Modern Anarchy Community:
Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Gili's Community:
Website: mxgili.com
1 hr 34 min - 262. Sex Under Fascism: Being An Ethical Slut with Michelle Hy
On today’s episode we have Michelle (she/her) join us for a conversation all about how these current systems are impacting our access to eroticism. Together we talk about cuckholding your jealousy, the sexiness of respecting others’ autonomy, and being an ethical slut.
✨Queer Joy: Psychedelic Therapy Group: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/queerpsychedelictherapy
🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/262-sex-under-fascism-being-an-ethical-slut-with-michelle-hayes
🔥Modern Anarchy Community:
Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Michelle's Community:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/polyamorouswhileasian/
✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
1 hr 37 min - 261. The Practice of Relationship Anarchy with Ewan McConchie
On today’s episode we have Ewan join us for a conversation unpacking the practice of relationship anarchy. Together we talk about non-attachment with jealousy, embracing the obstacle, and the journey of connecting with your authentic self.
🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/261-the-practice-of-relationship-anarchy-with-ewan-mcconchie
✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
🔥Modern Anarchy Community:
Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
1 hr 20 min - 260. The Collective Power of Queer, BDSM, and Non-Monogamous Communities with Liam Wignall
On today’s episode we have Liam Wignall (he/him) join us for a conversation about the transformative power of community. Together we talk about an evolutionary perspective on non-monogamy, what happens when you see your therapist at a dungeon, and the ethics of privacy vs transparency in non-monogamy.
🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/260-the-collective-power-of-queer-bdsm-and-non-monogamous-communities-with-liam-wignall
✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
🔥Modern Anarchy Community:
Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
💫Liam's Community:
Blue Sky: https://bsky.app/profile/liamwignall.bsky.social
1 hr 16 min - 259. Year 5 Reflection with Dr. Nicole and Dr. Lydia
I LOVE YOU, DEAR LISTENER! Here's to a lifetime of learning, unlearning, and learning together.
Special thanks to my dear friend, Dr. Lydia. I couldn't do this work without your loving support, laughter, tears, and companionship along the way. I love you, dearly.
🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/year-5-with-dr-nicole-and-dr-lydia
✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
🔥Modern Anarchy Community:
Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
Dr. Lydia
Website: https://williamsburgtherapygroup.com/meet-the-team/dr-lydia-kudret
1 hr 33 min - 258. Your Empowered Pleasure-Based Sexuality Narrative with Jane Downey
On Today’s episode we have Jane (she/her) join us for a conversation all about liberating our communities and stepping into empowered pleasure. Together we talk about the bravery to be curious, integrating the wisdom of a dominatrix, and doing the lord’s work of pleasure liberation.
💙Free Queering Psychedelics: Set, Setting, and Sacred Joy in Queer Community Workshop https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/event-details/queering-psychedelics-set-setting-sacred-joy-in-queer-community-1
🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice
💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/258-your-empowered-pleasure-based-sexuality-narrative-with-jane-downey
✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith
🔥Modern Anarchy Community:
Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Instagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast
💫Jane 's Community:
Website : https://www.nandrewstherapy.com/about-jane-downey-lpc
Psychology Today : https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/jane-downey-mason-oh/1525122
1 hr 29 min
About Modern Anarchy
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Hosted by Dr. Nicole, a queer, non-monogamous clinical psychotherapist, Modern Anarchy is a living exploration of what becomes possible when we liberate our collective pleasure. The show brings together activists, therapists, and researchers from around the world for vulnerable conversations about sex, relationships, and pleasure liberation psychology.
Are you ready to learn more about your pleasure?
New episodes every Wednesday.
Learn more: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
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