My Intimacy Therapist

What happens when you are raised in Purity Culture - then become a parent? This episode explores common questions that parents have when trying to decide how to talk to their kids about sex and sexual development.

Our special guest, Dr. Camden Morgante, is a psychologist in the state of Tennessee currently writing a book on the myths of Purity Culture.

DISCLAIMER:

We do mention stages of development in children and the difference between age-appropriate self-exploration versus inappropriate touching behaviors. Please note that if you suspect your child has had inappropriate sexual contact with another individual, consult with local authorities and a trauma-informed registered play therapist (RPT) in your area that knows how to engage in child therapy.

Website: www.drcamden.com

It's possible to be compatible with someone for dating, but not for marriage! In this episode, be challenged on whether your current partner (or the people you date) are great candidates for long-term relationship, or if your connection may only work in the dating experience!

"New year, new me" isn't real; well, not on autopilot. In this final episode of the year, we talk about the how of transitioning from one chapter to the next - whether it's based on a calendar year or simply your decision to make a change in your lifestyle, relationships, or goals.

Let's be clear: intimacy is hard work. And if Intimacy were the superhero with the flowing cape, Shame would be the villain always trying to sabotage the moment. So if you want intimate relationships and want to know how to proactively address the shame that comes up, this episode is for you!

"Comparison is the thief of joy"; have you heard that phrase before?

This meditation may be a bit challenging - after all, sometimes it's hard for us to believe good things for ourselves - but it will help reorient your thinking. Give it a try!

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On this podcast, we talk about intimacy that is multifaceted: spiritual, emotional, and physical all combined. But what does it look like to share spiritual intimacy with a partner?

I personally believe that spiritual intimacy can be uniquely created by each couple. That is, you and your partner get to intentionally decide what it means to share and grow in spirituality together. It is really important to me to share real life stories on the podcast; people talking about how they, personally, have integrated the concept of intimacy into their relationships.

Our special guest today is Christina DeLosAngeles! She is an associate marriage and family therapist, relationship coach, wife and mom of two living in California. Her passion is in helping couples reimagine what it means to co-create more connection in their relationship while working together towards career and lifestyle goals. 

Follow her on Instagram: @christina_dla 

Have you ever minimized your feelings about something? Maybe you feel hurt, afraid or anxious...but you choose to focus on all of the reasons why you shouldn't feel that way. Or why it isn't a big deal.

Let's talk about balance between validating your experience while also not allowing you feelings to take hold of the steering wheel. Whether you're single, dating or in a relationship - this tool will change your perspective on approaching your emotions.

The "relationship plant" is my practical tip to help you meet the specific needs of your relationship and your soul! When you can be aware of what is most important to keep your relationship nourished and well, you'll be more likely to catch areas that are slipping before it becomes a crisis.

This is for individuals, too! Keep your personal plant thriving, and you'll be able to choose and care for your relationship better.

So, what do you (and your partner) need?

Feel free to change the definitions of these to whatever suits you best! This is just to get you started :)

"You decide who you want to be in relationship." -Manwell Reyes

If we're being honest, we BS ourselves in relationships all the time. Do you really not see your toxic traits? Did you really not see those red flags in your partner when you were dating them? Truth is, both people play parts in relationship dysfunction. And if you are thinking, "I didn't do anything to deserve this!" Manny very directly responds, "then the one thing that you did do is choose that partner." (31:10)

This episode is for those - single or coupled - who are ready for an ice bucket of honesty water. Tune in and consider what parts may apply to your current or past relationships!

You know the experience of FOMO, being left out while everyone is celebrating their next big thing?

You're single, and everyone is celebrating their new relationship or engagement.

For this reason, I propose the concept of "personhood," where we celebrate little and big steps in your growth as a person -- not just tied to relationship or family-oriented milestones.

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