The KYLO Show

Narcissists, Responsibility, and Big Emotions


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Live from Risen King Church in Redding, California, Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most asked-about topics in relationships and parenting—including how to deal with someone labeled a narcissist, how to raise responsible children, and how to guide kids through big emotions without losing connection. Whether you're navigating disrespect in your marriage, parenting toddlers with tantrums, or raising teens who resist chores, this episode offers deep wisdom, practical tools, and real talk from two leaders who’ve walked it out.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Why trying to fix or change someone else (especially a narcissist) is a losing strategy.

  • How to use the KYLO 5 to protect yourself and preserve connection.

  • What it really means to set boundaries with love, not rejection.

  • How to cultivate responsibility in kids through feedback and connection.

  • Strategies for guiding children through sadness and anger with maturity and empathy.

    Key Takeaways:

    • You can’t change someone who doesn’t think they have a problem—focus on managing yourself.

    • Boundaries are not punishment; they are a message of hope for reconciliation.

    • A ten-year-old isn’t too young to begin learning how to steward their part of the relationship.

    • Emotionally explosive moments are opportunities to teach—not control—your children.

    • As a parent, your job isn’t to stop emotions but to protect the culture of your home with self-control and leadership.

      Join the Conversation:
      What stood out to you in this episode? Have you been in a relationship where you tried to fix someone? How do you approach parenting through connection rather than control?

      Stay Connected:
      Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
      Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
      Instagram: @brittneyserpell


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