If you want abundance in anything in life, whether its your social life, your health, your wealth, sex life, whatever, stop waiting to GET it to be happy. Happiness is a prerequisite to attract abundance in your life.
You have power right now to choose how you think and feel. It was never about possessing something or getting external validation that gives you the sense of peace and fulfillment. Perpetuate hell on earth by "needing" things to make you feel "happy." Or learn the skill of raising your baseline emotional state, and counting your blessings.