The KYLO Show

Navigating Family Dynamics with Courage and Clarity


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This week on The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney take us to Vancouver, Washington, where they respond to powerful audience questions about family disconnection, political disagreements, and parenting through transition. Whether it's a daughter using "boundaries" to cut off relationship, a seventeen-year-old disrupting family game night, or a holiday skipped because of political differences, the heart of this episode is about restoring connection without compromising your values. With wisdom, laughter, and plenty of real talk, Danny and Brittney offer practical tools for loving your people without losing yourself.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • The difference between boundaries and punishment in relationships.

  • How fear drives disconnection—and how love casts it out.

  • Why adult children sometimes distance themselves and how to rebuild trust.

  • What to do when siblings in the same home become strangers.

  • How to build a culture of respect in your home through shared family values.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Boundaries keep the door open for reconciliation. Punishment shuts it.

    • When a child disconnects, start by asking: “Do I have a mess to clean up?”

    • Family time is a culture you create, not an obligation you force.

    • Your job isn’t to control your adult kids—it’s to become a trusted friend.

    • Clarifying your family values (like a “Family Creed”) helps everyone know what’s expected and what matters most.

      Join the Conversation:

      Have you ever been on the receiving end of a "boundary" that felt more like rejection? Or maybe you're a parent learning to navigate new dynamics with adult children. We'd love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and tell us how you're learning to keep your love on.

      Stay Connected:

      Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
      Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
      Instagram: @brittneyserpell


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