Have you ever encountered someone in your professional life who seemed charming at first, but turned out to be a bit too self-centred for comfort? This week on the podcast we're diving deep into the world of narcissism with my guest, the insightful Lindsay Ruiz who has deep experience in this area and focused her doctorate in organisational development and change around narcissistic behaviour. Together, we unravel the complexities of narcissistic behaviour and its impact on the workplace. It's a conversation filled with personal stories and research that will arm you with the knowledge to navigate these tricky waters. 

Press play for a thoughtful exploration of the human psyche, the complexities of workplace dynamics and the nuances of narcissism. 

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Introduction to Lindsay Ruiz (00:04:42)

And her background in dealing with narcissism in the workplace.

 

Understanding Narcissism and Narcissistic Abuse (00:07:13)

Explanation of narcissism as a personality disorder and the impact of narcissistic abuse on individuals.

 

Causes and Traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (00:10:24)

Discussion on potential causes and traits of narcissistic personality disorder, including environmental, genetic, and neurobiological factors.

 

Emotional World of Narcissists (00:13:47)

Insight into the emotional world of narcissists and the lack of self-awareness and empathy.

 

Narcissists' Pursuit of Power and Control (00:16:50)

Explanation of how narcissists seek power, manipulate their environment, and get away with their behaviour, especially in the workplace.

 

Comparison of Narcissism, Psychopathy, and Machiavellianism (00:19:35)

Comparison of narcissism, psychopathy, and machiavellianism as part of the "dark triad" of personalities.

 

Institutional Complicity and Betrayal in Narcissistic Abuse (00:21:52)

Discussion on how institutions contribute to the thriving and protection of narcissists, and the lack of support for victims of narcissistic abuse in organisational settings.

 

Systemic Issues in Workplace (00:24:37)

Exploring how competitiveness and political environments contribute to promoting narcissistic leaders.

 

Speaking Truth to Power (00:28:31)

The difficulties in creating environments for dissent and constructive conversations with leaders.

 

Narcissistic Clusters (00:35:56)

Exploring how narcissists attract and enable each other in power structures.

 

Enabling Narcissistic Behaviour (00:38:20)

Discussion on the rewards and motivations for being an enabler of narcissistic behaviour.

 

Preventing Abusive Behaviour (00:40:04)

Suggestions for systemic changes, personal empowerment, and redefining ethical leadership.

 

Leadership Crisis (00:46:44)

Reflection on the current leadership crisis and the difficulty in finding exemplary public leaders.

 

Favourite Leadership Podcast (00:49:20)

Lindsay recommends "The Path," a podcast showcasing non-linear success stories.

 

Impact of Narcissistic Abuse (00:52:31)

Discussion on the pervasive and systemic nature of narcissistic abuse and the need for awareness.

 

Creating Safe Cultures (00:54:12)

Reflection on creating safe cultures in workplaces and communities to prevent emotional wounds.

 

Dealing with Narcissists (00:55:19)

Zoë's tips on identifying and dealing with narcissists in the workplace.