Hey friends this message might be a little hard to swallow but it’s so important that you know it and begin to take responsibility for your healing.
While people can be there to support you on your journey and encourage you, they can’t carry you through it, and anyone that is giving you the illusion that they want to carry your pain and trauma and carry you through your healing is lying.
Nobody out of the goodness of their heart is going to come and say “let me carry your emotional baggage” and take on your healing.
Anyone that is doing that is simply trying to deflect from their own issues by making you the centre of their life and that is actually a really dangerous thing and I can say that because I have been that person. I was the person who emptied myself to fill the cups of others, never ended well!
HOWEVER - this is not saying you can’t have people support you, but it is your responsibility to seek the coaches, counsellors and community to help you heal. It’s your responsibility to do the work, nobody is going to do it for you.
Though this is hard to hear, I hope it empowers you to know that you don’t have to rely on anyone and you have the power to completely change your life. ❤️
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