Is it worth it to reconcile with my unfaithful husband? We’ve been married three times and divorced twice, but he continues to be unfaithful. My family has uninvited my husband to a $5,000 vacation we paid for because they want me to divorce him; what do I do? My ex-husband told me there was a shotgun in the corner and he wanted to get divorced, so I went and packed all my stuff up. The first caller needs to keep herself safe. I struggle with forgiving others; is this because I question whether God has truly forgiven me? Can you clarify what you said when you mentioned kids come first before the new spouse when there is divorce and remarriage?