Becky discusses the habits we use to construct our lives knowingly and unknowingly. My son is in his early twenties and is having panic attacks; what else can I do if he doesn’t want to see a counselor? What is the difference between a therapist and a counselor? I have been advised to stay in an extremely abusive marriage and just pray. Why is it that I can talk in a setting like a Bible study, but I get anxious in a social setting like a baby shower? I am a senior citizen and fell in love with a widower, but he told me that he wouldn’t marry me unless his middle-aged sons get on board; should I stay in this relationship? Alcoholics Anonymous or Life Recovery? Should I keep attending both groups or choose one?