JJ West shares about uncharitable thoughts and not giving others the benefit of the doubt. My husband confessed to multiple affairs and keeps putting himself down; how can I convince him that I forgive him and that sin is sin? it’s been 3yrs since a heated conversation with a family member, and now she tells me if I don’t apologize, she doesn’t have any use for me. How do I reconcile with my 49yo daughter who canceled me after a counselor told her to? My ex-husband tried to murder me twice and his behavior is trickling down to my kids! How do I move forward in a one-sided relationship so I don’t get hurt? I called in a few years ago when I was in a crisis and wanted to thank you for the advice you gave me!