Becky discusses how blame is a defense mechanism that takes away our power to heal, to resolve, to get free.I am a chaplain at a major hospital; after going on four dates, I saw red flags, and now I’m in a dark valley.How do I handle my daughter-in-law who is going to give our grandchild her last name instead of our son’s last name?I was hit by a drunk driver 13yrs ago that caused me to be disabled. Recently I broke my femur in an accident, and it has brought up a lot of anger issues that I thought I had resolved.How do I go to my son’s wedding if I don’t support them getting married? He is 27yo, lives at home, and works only 10hrs a week, and they will live with her parents.