Dr. Alice asks if we should overlook subtle verbal and non-verbal mistreatment. It depends. My 2nd marriage is heading toward divorce. Why can’t I give grace to the men in my life? I am trying to rebuild my marriage after my wife’s two affairs, and the therapist put the blame on me. My wife cuts me off when I try to tell her how I feel. My adult son has been doing well after rehab; was I right to tell him he can’t stay with me every weekend? How can I direct my mom who receives spiritual abuse from her pastor? My 35yo daughter married a woman and now is trans; what do I do since he cut me off after the election? Should I stop talking to my narcissist husband who is verbally abusive?