Durability is being able to carry my dog whenever she needs and to be fully with her and present, when it's time to say good bye
*note: at this moment, my girl Priah has a CLEAN BILL OF HEALTH, this is a hypothetical and realistic possibility in the FUTURE, way, way, way down the line*
So a couple weeks ago, Priah and I had a minor medical scare, turned out to be something remedied with some probiotics and a bland diet for a couple weeks, but it got me thinking...
If you're like me, you see yourself as your animal's guardian and protector. It's our job to provide a safe and secure environment where they are loved and cared for and prevent or relieve any unnecessary pain.
I felt a lot of feelings in the 90 minutes time between I called the vet and we had our visit; I can't prevent hurt, and when someone or something I love hurts and I can't relieve the hurt, it is gutting for me
I realized in that moment, it's not about me
Priah just sees me has the person takes care of things and loves her, and how do I do that?
I pick her up and carry all 75lbs of her with long arms wherever she has to go
I reassure her that whatever is happening, how ever things unfold, I'm here, right here with herAnd that's the best embodiment of physical and emotional durability I can ever come up with
physical strength to take care of the one's you love
emotional resilience to stay. in. the. moment.This is my definition, this is my scenario, there are thousands of iterations, and this is what my practice helps people do