No One Dies from Divorce

While navigating through the turmoil of his own divorce, Andy Heller read countless support books to help him through the process.   He identified a crucial hole in the self-help space for men and women experiencing divorce.  His book, “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family,” is his give back with a stated goal of making the divorce process easier.  In this episode we discuss all the tips to help you not only survive through divorce but thrive and along the way learn to give yourself the grace and compassion that you deserve. This is an episode you don’t want to miss.  Pick up Andy’s book on Amazon and grab a copy of “No One Dies From Divorce” as well.  

Jahan Kalantar fell in love with advocating for the little guy. During the pandemic, overnight he went from a booming practice in Syndey to zero revenue. The Government's regulation was confusing, convoluted and divisive. So he took to TikTok to help explain the law in plain English.  Then he struck TikTok gold with the Depp-Heard case, or as he calls it, the trial of our generation.  As a self proclaimed nerd, Jahan read up on Virginia law to give the most informed and eloquent play by play of the trial. Join me and Jahan as we talk, all things legal from defamation, to domestic abuse, coercion,  to public relations, and what happens when you’re not prepared for your day in court. 

Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo co-host one of the top marriage podcasts on Apple called, The One Extraordinary Marriage Show.  From their own experience and years of helping others, they know a thing or two about what it takes to make any relationship last.  It starts by understanding the six pillars of Intimacy.  Tony and Alisa have written a best selling book, “The 6 Pillars of Intimacy” to guide anyone who wants a stronger, healthier relationship.  If you have gone through a divorce or are going through a divorce, their advice will give you the tools you need to create a better you and learn how to love and be loved to the fullest.   

Shakira and Gerard Pique split after 12 years together.  They have two children together. There is much speculation and gossip around why they are breaking up.  Join us as we go into all  the juicy details of the power couples split.   Shakira’s hips may not lie but her lips aren’t moving and the truth behind their break up may never come to light.  And later, my guest Kelly Baldwin and I will dive into the difference of Common Law Marriage and Paternity: what it means for you and your family and the different reliefs each type of case gets. 

Michael Wise is a paralegal for MoxieLaw, a personal injury firm. He is dedicated to helping people find peace and closure through difficult times, including the struggles many of us have with mental health. Today Michael and I will be discussing the very sensitive yet crucial topic of suicide. Join us as we go over 5 things you can do to help you through your darkest moments and remember, Tomorrow Needs You! If you or a loved one are struggling with suicidal thoughts, please call 988 for help. You are not alone.

Welcome to season 2! Tessa is the founder of The Job Doctor. A practice dedicated to building career strategies and re-engaging people in the workplace.  She believes anyone and everyone can gain new skills to enter the workplace and thrive.  Tessa was newly divorced and had been out of the workplace for a while.  She knew she had to provide for her family which would require hard work and determination to become a valuable asset in a company.  She worked her way up from an entry level position at Franklin Covey to becoming one of the leading executive females in the company. Tessa is here today to tell you that whatever your circumstances, with the right coaching and the right attitude, you can become invaluable in any job.  She will share with us how to create the career you want, deserve, and that will allow you to provide for yourself and your family. 

No One Dies from Divorce concludes it's first season. Thank you everyone for the support and we will see you in the fall! Follow @jillcoil on Instagram, Tiktok, and Facebook to stay up to date. 

Krista Andersen is passionate about living fully, family, conflict engagement, using words to heal instead of harm, and creating memorable experiences. Her passion for how words are used to heal and harm led her to the field of mediation where Krista is devoted to helping clients learn how to engage in conflict in healthy ways.  Knowing that conflict is a constant in our lives, Krista seeks to educate people on how what they say and write has a deep impact on their relationships and personal well-being.  Her personal mantra is “words matter.” Further, as a Cancer Survivor she discusses how she found joy in the journey and was able to overcome grief, fear and resentment to use her experience as an opportunity to inspire.  Krista is an example of how we can use our trials as a platform to become the best version of ourselves.  And though the road will not necessarily be easy it will give you strength and fortify to overcome all.  

The final divorce tip this season! I'm explaining what to do when divorcing a  Narcissist

You sometimes have to fall flatter on your face then you ever have to be able to stand taller than you ever could.  This is exactly how Megan Sanford would describe her experience of being addicted to Meth, pregnant at 19, and not knowing if she would be here tomorrow.  Megan shares her most vulnerable story with the world in hopes that it will give hope and encouragement for anyone feeling they are in a hopeless situation.  Megan rallied back after giving two children up for adoption, quit doing drugs and turned her life around.  Now almost ten years later she is married, has two more kids, has a relationship with the two kids she gave up for adoption, is over ten years sober, and just graduated law school.  Megan tells the world that if she can stand up after her experience so can you.