Nobody Told Me!

We are proud and inspired by the fact that our listeners want to learn, grow and make a difference in this world in so many ways. You know you have a lot to contribute and you may be searching for ways to shake things up in your life and the world in general. That's why we know you'll be excited to listen to the next half hour!

Our guest on this episode, Michael Bungay Stanier, is the author of the best-selling book, "The Coaching Habit" and the founder of the training and development company, Box of Crayons, which has taught coaching skills to hundreds of thousands of people around the world. His newest book is called, "How To Begin: Start Doing Something that Matters".

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The holidays are supposed to be a time of joy, but that may not be what you're experiencing if you're missing someone who's passed away. Our guest on this episode is grief crisis consultant Harold Ivan Smith, who's written many books on grief including, A Decembered Grief: Living with Loss While Others are Celebrating. In this interview, he shares some great advice for how to enjoy this time of year while also celebrating the memory of our loved ones who have died.

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Ever since we saw the television show, Hoarders, we've wanted to talk with our guest on this episode, extreme cleaning specialist Matt Paxton. Matt has spent decades helping people sort through messes in attics, basements, garages and elsewhere. For the past couple of years, he's been the host of the PBS television show, "Legacy List with Matt Paxton", which highlights families that are downsizing or settling an estate of a loved one.

Matt is also the author of the soon-to-be published book, "Keep the Memories, Lose the Stuff: Declutter, Downsize, and Move Forward with Your Life".

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There's been an increase in new or worsening mental health issues for many people during the pandemic. Anxiety, depression, stress, despair and loneliness have spiked and experts believe we'll continue to feel the mental health impact of the pandemic for a long time to come.

Our guest on this episode, psychiatrist Dr. Margaret Chisolm, is a professor at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine. She contends that mental illness need not define people nor consign them to a life on the margins. Dr. Chisolm offers her insights in her new book entitled, "From Survive to Thrive: Living Your Best Life with Mental Illness". Her website is margaretchisolmmd.com.

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Think about any major disaster in the world over the past 30 years and our guest, Robert Jensen, was probably on the scene and personally involved for days, months or even years afterward. Robert is the chairman of Kenyon International Emergency Services, which provides crisis management response to hundreds of businesses and governments.

Robert has spent most of his adult life responding to major disasters like the 9/11 attacks, Hurricane Katrina, the 2010 Haitian earthquake and the 2004 South Asian tsunami. He is the author of a gripping new book, "Personal Effects: What Recovering the Dead Teaches Me about Caring for the Living".

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What's it like to suffer from a chronic, mysterious illness which the medical establishment doesn't know how to diagnose and treat? Where do you look for answers? And, how does this impact your life?

We delve into those questions on this episode with our guest, longtime New York Times opinion columnist Ross Douthat, who is known for writing on politics, religion, moral values, higher education and film. He's with us to talk about his latest book, which is a very personal one called, "The Deep Places: A Memoir of Illness and Discovery".

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We're delighted to welcome bestselling poet and author Maggie Smith back to the show. In 2020, her book, Keep Moving: Notes on Loss, Creativity, and Change, became a breakout bestseller in the midst of the pandemic.

Maggie's powerful collection of quotes and essays on facing life's challenges with creativity, courage, and resilience provided inspiration and insight to people around the world who were experiencing one of the toughest times in their lives. Now, Maggie has developed an interactive workbook to guide readers on their own journeys toward growth during times of grief and uncertainty. It's called, Keep Moving: The Journal. Her latest book of poetry is called, Goldenrod. Her website is maggiesmithpoet.com.

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Joining us on this episode is Robert Greene, the international bestselling author who's well-known for his books on strategy, power ,and seduction. His books include, The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War and Mastery. Robert's latest book is called, The Laws of Human Nature, which is designed to "immerse you in all aspects of human behavior and explain its root causes."

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--> Lumineux: plant and mineral hygiene products like Lumineux's famous toothpaste and whitening products are changing the game. They taste just as good and we were wowed by the research into why using their strategy works so well. Just in time for the holidays: enjoy 15% off your first purchase by going to http://www.oralessentials.com and using promo code 'Nobody'.

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Are we the only ones who spend time every. single. day. wondering how our dogs are trying to communicate with us?

We know there's at least one other person who's on the same page! Clive Wynne is a canine behaviorist who explores the incredible relationship between people and dogs in his new book, Dog is Love: Why and How Your Dog Loves You.

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--> Lumineux: plant and mineral hygiene products like Lumineux's famous toothpaste and whitening products are changing the game. They taste just as good and we were wowed by the research into why using their strategy works so well. Just in time for the holidays: enjoy 15% off your first purchase by going to http://www.oralessentials.com and using promo code 'Nobody'.

--> Maxine's Heavenly Cookies: the most delicious plant-based, gluten-free, vegan, low sugar cookies! We love all of their flavors, especially Mint Chocolate Chunk and Chocolate Chocolate Chunk! Go to http://www.maxinesheavenly.com/nobody and use promo code 'nobody' to get 25% off your order.

--> AirMedCare Network (AMCN): add inexpensive Fly-U-Home coverage to your AMCN membership so that if there's a medical emergency, you can make the call to be transported back to your local hospital—closer to your own doctor and family. Fly-U-Home takes care of absolutely everything from hospital A to hospital B. No bills. No paperwork. It's a smart way to reduce stress—and put control of your care in your hands. Sign up for Fly-U-Home today and receive up to a $100 eGift Card. by going to airmedcarenetwork.com/tellme and use offer code TELLME.

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It's easy to feel overwhelmed by the mixed messages society gives us about what it means to live well. We hear that there are so many things we should do--enjoy the moment, dream big, get up before the sun, make time for everyone in our lives while having a spotless home and doing the perfect workout.

Well, what if you could do what matters in your life, skip the things that don't and be a person again? You can, according to our guest, Kendra Adachi, founder of "The Lazy Genius" movement and author of the New York Times bestseller, The Lazy Genius Way: Embrace What Matters, Ditch What Doesn't, and Get Stuff Done .

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