Hi Friends!

Allison here! We recorded this episode in November, and then kept pushing it aside to publish more timely episodes, but I think it's one of my favorite conversations. I'm so glad Alice came up with the idea of discussing nuance, the ways we turn to all-or-nothing thinking, and the vulnerability of holding incongruent truths.

Please join me (Allison Larkin) and Alice Carbone-Tench for this discussion about nuance, and then let us know if nuance is something you struggle with, delight in, or haven't even thought about very much. Are there times in your life when embracing nuance might have saved you some heartache? Are their times when black-and-white thinking saved your sanity? Leave us a comment or send us an email at [email protected]. We'd love to hear from you and may include your message in a future show! We hope you enjoy this episode!

xo Allison & Alice

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Today, we are so happy to talk about the profound beauty and resilient spirit of poet laureate Andrea Gibson (and their wife megan falley ) captured in the documentary Come See Me in the Good Light, recently Oscar-nominated. Through personal stories of love, loss, community, and art, this episode reflects on how facing mortality can deepen our appreciation for life’s fleeting moments, and allow us to live and love outside of the pre-conceived boxes of society and surrounding ourselves with all that we call love.

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Alice and Allison are thrilled to have friend of the pod, author, narrator, and founder of Audiobrary, Julia Whelan, back to talk about romance! They discuss the difference between romance in real life, romance in novels, and romance in the movies. Julia gives listeners a breathtakingly brilliant rundown of the historical context of romance novels, and explains how current events shape love stories. They discuss the craft of writing romance novels, and the way e-books and audiobooks have changed the way readers consume romance. Plus, Julia shares some romance recommendations for readers new to the genre.

Let us know what you think about romance! Do you read romance novels? Tell us  about your relationship with romance novels, and let us know your favorite romance titles or sub-genres. Or, if you’ve held the the perception of romance novels as “trash,” where do you think that belief came from? Why do you think joy and pleasure might be considered less valuable than darker themes? Email us at [email protected] to share your thoughts!

Wishing you a Happy Valentine’s Day!

xo Alice & Allie

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In this episode, Alice, Allison, and Katie Clark Gray dive into the transformative history of the Lilith Fair (Lilith Fair: Building a Mystery now available on Hulu), exploring how women have built supportive systems, challenged societal norms, and reshaped cultural narratives from the 90s to today. They share personal stories, discuss the evolution of feminism, and envision a future of greater solidarity and empowerment for women.

Katharine Clark Gray is a writer for film, stage, web, and podcasts.

xo Alice & Allie

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Resources & Links

* Building a Mystery - Hulu Documentary

* Sophie Gilbert’s Girl on Girl

* Indigo Girls - Closer to Fine

* Lilith Fair Official Website

* Tori Amos - Ithaca College Concert 1997

* Sofia Isella - Social Media Profile

* Kim Gordon - Sonic Youth

* PJ Harvey Official

* Brandi Carlile - Official Site

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Hey there, book lovers! Allison here! In this episode, Alice and I are diving into our favorite topic—books! We chat about the joy of reading during the day (because who doesn't love a good book on a rainy Sunday?), and how audiobooks have become our multitasking best friends. We also reminisce about those comforting childhood series that bring back all the nostalgia.

We ponder the role of poetry in writing prose and how it adds an added element to storytelling. Whether it's the art of crafting a screenplay or getting lost in a literary series, there's something truly special about the way words can transport us to new worlds.

Join us as we balance the heavy and the light, and celebrate the power of storytelling. We'd love to hear what you're reading, so drop us a line and share your latest book adventures! Do you have a topic you’d like us to discuss in a future episode? Send us an email or voice note at [email protected]

xo Alice & Allie

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Alice and Allison engage in a heartfelt conversation about the challenges and nuances of asking for help, especially in the context of Alice's recent hip surgery. They explore the emotional complexities of receiving help, the societal pressures to appear self-sufficient, and the deepening of personal relationships through vulnerability. The discussion also touches on the broader implications of community support and the importance of authenticity in seeking assistance.

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Hi everyone, Allison here! In this episode, Alice and I dive into the fascinating world of rituals and habits. We chat about how these practices shape our lives, offering a sense of grounding and community. From my personal experiences with ADHD to Alice’s insights on cultural traditions, we explore how rituals can be both anchors and bridges in our chaotic world.

Do you have thoughts about rituals you’d like to share with us? Send us an email or voice note at [email protected]

xo Alice & Allie

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Join us—Alice Carbone Tench and Allison Larkin—as we dive into a chat about the 90s—a decade that shaped us in so many ways. We explore the authenticity of that era, the cultural shifts, and how technology has changed our lives. We talk about ways to reconnect with those meaningful experiences of our cherished past while embracing the present.

Do you have thoughts about the 90s you’d like to share with us? Send us an email at [email protected]

xo Alice & Allie

Links

* Alice’s 2014 Essay on the 90s

* Counting Crows Documentary, Have You Seen Me Lately

* Jane Pratt on Substack

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In this episode, Allison and Alice discuss the theme of rejection, exploring its impact on personal growth and creativity. They discuss the fear of failure, the societal pressures to succeed, and how rejection can be a stepping stone to self-discovery. The conversation touches on personal anecdotes, the importance of resilience, and the idea of seeking rejection as a means to broaden one's horizons.

xo Alice & Allie

The conversation was inspired by this article on Psychology Today: Why Rejection Is a Worthy Goal

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Hello, friends! In our latest chat, we dive into the evolution of color in fashion, home decor, and aesthetics. We talk about how society's trends have leaned towards monochromatic palettes and share our personal experiences with color. We also touch on the role of social media and the importance of expressing individuality through style. Plus, we have a little critique on the Pantone Color of the Year. This episode is all about embracing color and making personal choices in a world that often feels a bit too bland.

What’s your personal color of the year? We’d love to know! Email us at [email protected]

xoAlice & Allie

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