Many former spouses have been separated for a while, but have not have gotten around to getting divorced. For some people that’s an intentional decision – they do not want to be divorced, or they do not want to accept that their marriage is over. For others, it is just procrastination. But is there a deadline for getting that divorce, or dealing with the other legal issues around separation? This episode of the Ontario Family Law Podcast dives into a crucial topic that affects millions of people every year—deadlines for getting divorced. Anyone who is thinking about filing, already in the process, or just curious about how long it all takes, should watch this episode as Certified Specialist in Family Law, John Schuman, unravels the legal timelines, waiting periods, and practical tips for navigating the divorce process. Listen to this episode right to the end to make sure you do not miss any important points. A video version of this episode is available on Youtube. If you found this episode helpful, check out these episodes on similar topics: 99. When Can You Throw Out Your Ex?98. 7 Big Costly Child Support Mistakes95. How to Pick The Country For Your Divorce91. Should One Spouse Leave the House on Separation?88. Can You Be Legally Separated and Not Know It?79. What Am I Legally Required To Do First After Separating?72. Why a Judge Might Refuse to Grant Your Divorce67. How Long Does It Takes to Get Divorced in Ontario?60. Should You Take Your Ex to Family Court?30. Spousal Support (Alimony) Entitlement 3. Divorce – What does it mean? How do I get one? The Ontario Family Law Podcast is acompanion to the book, Guide to the Basics of Ontario Family Law. Get it as a ⁠$8.99 Kindle eBook ⁠, or as an ⁠AppleBook for your iPad or iPhone ⁠. You can also get it as a⁠ paperback or hard cover from Amazon⁠ or at better bookstores.

TO CONTACT JOHN SCHUMAN:

website: ⁠www.schumanlaw.ca⁠

email: ⁠[email protected]⁠

phone: 647-342-6775

Sometimes people going through Family Court sometimes think that a judge made a mistake, possibly a big mistake. The result is that things went badly in Court. Perhaps the person who was self-represented or perhaps they did not have good representation, or the perhaps the judge did not hear properly or understand. Whatever the cause, the result was that at least one party in court thinks the judge made a mistake. Family court cases are important to the parties, and they can have a profound effect on how the parties, and the children, live the rest of their lives.

Since a judge making a mistake can have a devastating effecton a family, and perhaps make things very difficult for the children, in this episode of the Ontario Family Law Podcast, Certified Specialist in Family Law, John Schuman, explains what to do when a judge makes a mistake.  He goes over the three different types of mistakes and the procedure for fixing the mistake.   Using the wrong procedure can make itimpossible to correct the mistake, so this episodes provide critical information for anyone who needs to fix something that a judge has done. There is a video version of this episode on Youtube.

If you found this episode helpful, check out these episodes on similar topics:

106. 5 Things You Should NEVER Do in Family Court

90.  ⁠5 More Costly Misconceptions About Family Law⁠

85. ⁠4 Things That People Get Wrong about Divorce Law⁠

83. ⁠⁠Family Law Strategies That Fail⁠⁠ 

77. ⁠⁠What Happens if You Breach a Family Court Order⁠⁠ 

67. How Long Does It Take to Get DIvorced in Ontario?

66. ⁠⁠How to Change Child Support

36. Is Family Court Biased?

The Ontario Family Law Podcast is acompanion to the book, Guide to the Basics of Ontario Family Law. Get it as a $8.99 Kindle eBook , or as an AppleBook for your iPad or iPhone . You can also get it as a paperback or hard cover from Amazon or at better bookstores.

TO CONTACT JOHN SCHUMAN:

website: www.schumanlaw.ca

email: [email protected]

phone: 647-342-6775

It is the time of year when many people are getting married. That makes it a time of great celebration and planning, with lots of hopes and dreams. It is also a time when the people around the loving couple wonder whether the betrothed know what they are getting into. Lots of the comments on past episode of this podcast, question the wisdom of get married at all. Those comments lament the legal implications of getting married. Divorce rates are goind down. Still, people should know what they are getting into when they are getting married, and how the law changes things for each of the married spouses. In this episode of the Ontario Family Law Podcast, Certified Specialist if Family Law, John Schuman explains what you should know about Family Law BEFORE getting married. The topics include how marriage affects property rights and ownership, the legal restrictions on matrimonial homes, spousal support, child support - especially for children of other relationships, and how being maried prevents your from having another spouse... and doesn't. Getting married is one of the biggest decisions people make. They should know the the consequences of that decision beofre taking the plunge. So, every one who is engaged, or contemplating marriage, should watch this episode before the wedding. If you found this episode helpful, check out these episodes on similar topics:99. When Can You Throw Out Your Ex?97. Do You Really Need a Prenup (Marriage Contract or Cohabitation Agreement)?96. If I Let My Partner Move In, Will They Get My House?93. How to Lose Your Assets in Divorce or Separation92. How to Protect Your Assets in a Relationship or Marriage91. Should One Spouse Leave the House on Separation?85. 4 Things That People Get Wrong about Divorce Law73. How to Give to Your Kids, But Not Their Spouse/Partners63. What Can You Do With A Marriage Contract?TThe Ontario Family Law Podcast is a companion to the book, Guide to the Basics of Ontario Family Law. The latest edition, which is up-to-date on all important divorce issues is now available. Get it as a $⁠⁠⁠9.99 Kindle eBook⁠⁠⁠ , or as an ⁠⁠⁠Apple Book for your iPad or iPhone ⁠⁠⁠. Also, you can get it as a ⁠⁠⁠paperback or hard cover from Amazon⁠⁠⁠ or at better bookstores.

TO CONTACT JOHN SCHUMAN: website: ⁠www.schumanlaw.ca ⁠email: ⁠[email protected] ⁠phone: 647-342-6775

When separating spouses or parents go to Family Court, they want to win. Often they hire great family lawyers, like the host of the Ontario Family Law Podcast, Certified Specialist, John Schuman. But, there are times when everything is going well in a party’s case, and then that party does somehting in the courtroom that torpedoes an almost certain win. At other times, that same behaviour dooms someone’s case from the start. These family court litigants are not necessarily doing anything illegal, and they might otherwise be nice people. But, those unfortunate separated spouses or parents raised the ire of their judge and then things went badly. The future of the children, the family and everyone's finances depends on what Family Court Judges decide. So, to keep people from unnecessarily destroying their prospects in Family Court, this episode of the Ontario Family Law Podcast covers some things people should NEVER do in Family Court.

These mistakes that people make are not legal mistakes. They are practical ones, such as rolling their eyes at the judge, failing to make disclosure or telling the judge off. This episode shows how ordinary people can easily avoid missteps in Family Court.

If you found this episode helpful, check out these episodes on similar topics:

103. 8 Ways to Lose a Parenting (Child Custody) Case

94. What Happens at Your First Day in Ontario Family Court

90. 5 More Costly Misconceptions About Family Law

83. ⁠Family Law Strategies That Fail⁠ 

77. ⁠What Happens if You Breach a Family Court Order⁠ 

60. ⁠Should You Take Your Ex to Family Court?⁠⁠ ⁠ 

The Ontario Family Law Podcast is a companion to the book, Guide to the Basics of Ontario Family Law. The latest edition, which is up-to-date on all important divorce issues is now available. Get it as a $⁠⁠9.99 Kindle eBook⁠⁠ , or as an ⁠⁠Apple Book for your iPad or iPhone ⁠⁠. Also, you can get it as a ⁠⁠paperback or hard cover from Amazon⁠⁠ or at better bookstores.

TO CONTACT JOHN SCHUMAN: website: www.schumanlaw.ca email: [email protected] phone: 647-342-6775

The Law Says Adultery Does Not Affect a Divorce, But That’s Not Always True

When one spouse has an extra-marital affair (or any sort of affair outside of a committed relationship), it can be devastating for the other spouse. It can reflect a betrayal, a lack aof honesty and questionable judgment. The innocent spouse feels a lot of emotion. Those emotions can include anger, and strong desire for justice to correct the wrong that was done to them. But then they hear that Canada has “no-fault” divorce and the affair does not affect what orders a family court judge will make. None of the laws permit any sort of adjustment to the compensation because of an affair. Is that true? 

Well, it depends. In this episode of the Ontario Family Law Podcast, Certified Specialist in Family Law, John Schuman, explains when and how an affair can have an impact in Family Court, and when it does not.  Check out the video version of this episode on YouTube.

If you found this episode helpful, check out these episodes on similar topics:

99. When Can You Throw Out Your Ex?

96. If I Let My Partner Move In, Will They Get My House? 

91. Should One Spouse Leave the House on Separation? 

85. 4 Things That Everyone Gets Wrong about Divorce Law

81. ⁠⁠⁠Can Separated Parents Agree to No Child Support?⁠

80. When Can I Throw Out My Ex’s Stuff?

79. What Am I Legally Required To Do First After Separating? 

60. Should You Take Your Ex to Family Court?

The Ontario Family Law Podcast is a companion to the book, Guide to the Basics of Ontario Family Law. The latest edition, which is up-to-date on all important divorce issues is now available. Get it as a $⁠⁠9.99 Kindle eBook⁠⁠ , or as an ⁠⁠Apple Book for your iPad or iPhone ⁠⁠. Also, you can get it as a ⁠⁠paperback or hard cover from Amazon⁠⁠ or at better bookstores.

TO CONTACT JOHN SCHUMAN: website: www.schumanlaw.ca email: [email protected] phone: 647-342-6775

Child support is the part of divorce and family law that many people hate the most. Since, in Canada, monthly child support is based entirely on the payer’s income, it might seem logical that a parent can reduce his or her child support obligation by reducing his or her income. However, even people who have legitimate losses of income can find it difficult to reduce their support obligations. The same principals apply to spousal support.

In this episode of the Ontario Family Law Podcast, Certified Specialist in Family Law, John Schuman, covers why intentionally reducing income will not lower support… and how those rules can even affect people who have lost their job or had other income losses through no fault of their own.

A video version of this podcast is available of YouTube.

If you found this episode helpful, check out these episodes on similar topics:

98.   7 Big Costly Child Support Mistakes

90. ⁠⁠5 Family Law Fails⁠⁠ 

89. ⁠⁠⁠Is Child Support Ever Too Much? ⁠ 

81. ⁠⁠⁠Can Separated Parents Agree to No Child Support?⁠⁠ 

76. ⁠⁠⁠Why Your Income for Taxes May Not Be Your Income for Child Support (or Spousal Support)⁠ 

66.. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠How to Change Child Support⁠

54. ⁠Child Support Does Not End at Age 18⁠⁠

53. ⁠How to Pay Less Child Support

The Ontario Family Law Podcast is a companion to the book, Guide to the Basics of Ontario Family Law. The latest edition, which is up-to-date on all important divorce issues is now available. Get it as a $⁠⁠9.99 Kindle eBook⁠⁠ , or as an ⁠⁠Apple Book for your iPad or iPhone ⁠⁠. Also, you can get it as a ⁠⁠paperback or hard cover from Amazon⁠⁠ or at better bookstores.

TO CONTACT JOHN SCHUMAN:

Phone: 1-647-342-6775

Email: [email protected]

Web: www.schumanlaw.ca

The implications of child custody decisions are far-reaching and can significantly impact the lives of both children and parents. It is important not to make mistakes, especially when parenting matters are before a court, arbitrator or a professional parenting assessor. Since the stakes are so high for both parents and children, this episode of the Ontario Family Law Podcast looks at some big mistakes that parents often make, but can easily avoid. If you are in family court over your kids, or worry that you may be, this will be an extremely important episode for you. 

In this episode of the Ontario Family Law Podcast, Certified Specialist in Family Law, John Schuman, explains eight big mistakes that people make in child custody or parenting cases. Those mistakes are: 

1. Using the term “child custody” 

2. Putting the parents interests first 

3. Ignoring the Best Interests Legal Test 

4. Assuming being a parent gives you a right to the kids 

5. Being unsupportive of the children’s relationship with the other parent 

6. Saying a child should decide what relationship to have with each parent Contents: 

7. Inconsistent or unreliable behaviour 

8. Being careless on social media and messages.

If you found this episode helpful, check out these episodes on similar topics: 

101.  ⁠What Happens At Parental Alienation Treatment Programs According to Courtroom Testimony⁠

100. ⁠⁠Why Hearing from Kids in Divorce is Important and DANGEROUS!⁠⁠ 

78. ⁠⁠⁠The Rights of Grandparents and other family Members to See Kids⁠⁠⁠ 

75. ⁠⁠⁠When Can You Legally Stop Your Ex From Seeing the Kids?⁠⁠⁠ 

61. ⁠⁠⁠Can You Move With the Kids After Separation or Divorce?⁠⁠⁠ 

59. ⁠⁠⁠Why You Won’t Get Custody of Your Kids⁠⁠

38. ⁠Ontario Private Schools, Standards and Education Law⁠

The Ontario Family Law Podcast is a companion to the book, Guide to the Basics of Ontario Family Law. The latest edition, which is up-to-date on all important divorce issues is now available. Get it as a $⁠⁠9.99 Kindle eBook⁠⁠ , or as an ⁠⁠Apple Book for your iPad or iPhone ⁠⁠. Also, you can get it as a ⁠⁠paperback or hard cover from Amazon⁠⁠ or at better bookstores.

TO CONTACT JOHN SCHUMAN:

Phone: 1-647-342-6775

Email: [email protected]

Web: www.schumanlaw.ca

From the comments and requests of followers, it seems that a lot of separated parents have difficulty getting information about their kids - whether it be from schools, or health care providers or in relation to activities or from other agencies that are involved in kids’ lives. This is a question that I am asked a lot. Those followers have come up with complex applications of several laws to access information. Getting information about your kids after separation should not be that hard. Difficulty getting that information may be an indication of parental alienation.

When parents are cut off from their kids after separation, or have serious relationship problems with them, they might ask Family Court Judges to fix to fix the problem by ordering an “alienation workshop.” Those programs promise to fix the problem in a few days. However, several jurisdictions have banned parental alienation workshops. The reasons relate to what happens at those programs, and sometimes that they can perpetuate family violence. The treatment protocols of these programs are trade secrets and so the program providers do not publish exactly what they do. 

But, In this episode of the Ontario Family Law Podcast, Certified Specialist in Family Law, John Schuman, reveals what, through litigating parental alienation cases, he saw program providers testify. He has obtained the transcripts of what they said. In this episode he plays those transcripts so parents can find out exactly what happens at parental alienation treatment programs. 

Watch the video version of this episode on YouTube.

The Ontario Family Law Podcast is a companion to the book, Guide to the Basics of Ontario Family Law. The latest edition, which is up-to-date on all important divorce issues is now available. Get it as a $⁠⁠⁠⁠9.99 Kindle eBook⁠⁠⁠⁠ , or as an ⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Book for your iPad or iPhone ⁠⁠⁠⁠. Also, you can get it as a ⁠⁠⁠⁠paperback or hard cover from Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at better bookstores.

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When parents separate, particularly when there is a lot of conflict, it is common for one parent to say that it is important to listen to what the kids want. That parent wants the other parent, or a judge or arbitrator, to listen to the opinion of the children when setting up parenting arrangements after separation. The UN Convention on the Rights of the Child requires that children be heard in matters that affect them. But, insisting that the other parent, a judge or any other authority listen to the children is one of the most dangerous things that a parent can do. In some circumstances, judges view a parent making that request as evidence that parent should not be caring for the children at all.

See the Everclear video here.

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