By Our Kids Play Hockey
The Our Kids Play Hockey podcast network is the ultimate resource for youth hockey parents, players, and coaches who want to support youth athletes on and off the ice. Hosted by experts (w
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Ever wondered how to stay calm and enjoy your child's hockey games without the stress? Join Lee MJ Elias, Mike Bonelli, and Christie Casciano Burns as they share invaluable insights on managing anxiety as a hockey parent. Through personal stories and practical advice, they explore the journey from being a nervous wreck to finding peace at the rink. Learn how to support your young athlete, understand the importance of letting kids learn from failure, and discover the power of unconditional love and praise. This episode is a must-listen for any parent navigating the highs and lows of youth hockey.
Key Discussion Points
- Lee shares a story about feeling calm while watching his daughter play hockey, contrasting it with his earlier anxious experiences.
- Christie compares the experience of being a new hockey parent to having a first child, emphasizing how experience reduces anxiety.
- Lee and Christie discuss the importance of letting kids learn from their experiences and failures.
- Mike talks about the emotional reactions parents have during their kids' sports events and the importance of reflection.
- Lee highlights the significance of recognizing that parents have little control over the game and should focus on supporting their children.
- Christie stresses the importance of unconditional love and support, rather than critiquing, after games.
- Mike mentions the need for parents to allow their children to become independent, even if it means watching them struggle initially.
- Lee discusses the long-term development of skills in hockey and the importance of patience.
- Christie and Lee talk about the value of not discussing the game in the car unless the child initiates the conversation.
- Mike and Lee reflect on the impact of social media on parents and children, emphasizing the need to focus on personal growth rather than comparisons.
0:00 Intro
0:08 Overcoming Anxiety as a Hockey Parent
3:07 The Evolution of Parenting in Youth Hockey
12:35 Notes from a Hockey Elder
14:06 Parenting Lessons from Hockey
16:18 The Impact of Parental Behavior on Young Athletes
18:51 The Challenges of Parenting in Youth Sports
20:35 Changing Parental Involvement in Youth Sports
28:31 The Long Game in Youth Hockey
38:43 Realization of Over-Involvement
47:00 The Importance of Development Over Winning
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What are you supposed to do while you're waiting to go back out on the ice between shifts? This week on The Ride To The Rink, Lee shares the importance of staying hydrated and mental preparation. By observing the game from the bench, players can also gain valuable insights into both their own team and their opponents. The discussion emphasizes the power of positive team communication inspired by Sidney Crosby's leadership style, and underscores the need for emotional regulation to handle the game's ups and downs.
Key Discussion Points
- Hydration Between Shifts
- Mental Preparation Between Shifts
- Observing the Game
- Positive Team Communication
- Emotional Regulation
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0:00 Intro
1:32 Hydration During Hockey Games
2:33 Mental Focus Between Shifts
5:05 Positive Communication and Teamwork
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Ever wondered how girls hockey differs from boys hockey? Join us as Kim McCullough, director of Total Female Hockey, shares her insights on the social dynamics and skill development in youth hockey. Discover the unique challenges and opportunities in the girls' game and how they shape the future of female athletes.
- Kim McCullough highlights the social aspect as a key difference between girls and boys hockey, emphasizing peer connections.
- Skill levels are similar at young ages, but checking introduces a physicality difference in boys hockey.
- Challenges in involving more women in coaching are discussed, with Kim sharing her experiences and the impact of life events like childbirth.
- Kim shares a story about going into labor while coaching, showcasing her dedication.
- Parents' expectations differ, with boys' parents often becoming intense earlier.
- Confidence is crucial in girls hockey, with Kim encouraging creativity and "skating to daylight."
- Female coaches bring unique empathy, having faced similar social pressures.
- Communication and understanding dynamics in girls hockey are vital, as players often avoid standing out.
- Coaching strategies for girls focus on collaborative competition and fostering creativity.
- Female representation on the bench is important for player connection and support.
00:00:00 Intro
00:01:49 Girls Hockey vs. Boys Hockey
00:05:17 Challenges for Women in Coaching
00:14:21 Navigating Girls Hockey Pathways to College
00:23:37 The Role of Female Coaches in Hockey
00:25:10 Encouraging Women to Pursue Coaching Careers
00:30:38 The Importance of Visibility and Mentorship in Women's Hockey
00:40:26 Coaching Girls in Hockey
00:43:28 Confidence and Physicality in Girls Hockey
00:57:22 Empathy in Coaching Girls' Hockey
01:02:59 Girls' Reluctance in High-Pressure Situations
01:04:30 Empowerment Through Leadership Roles in Sports
01:05:44 Collaborative Competition in Women's Sports
01:12:01 Kim McCullough's Global Coaching Experience
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What does it take to build a winning team in the NHL? In this special crossover edition of "Our Kids Play Hockey," host Lee MJ Elias joins the NHL Wraparound podcast, featuring Neil Smith, former GM of the 1994 New York Rangers Stanley Cup champions, and Vic Morren, award winning ESPN veteran. Together, they interview Keith Jones, President of the Philadelphia Flyers, discussing the intricacies of team building, the importance of character in professional hockey, and how these principles apply to youth hockey. This episode offers a unique glimpse into the minds of hockey executives and the strategies behind creating a successful team culture.
Key Points:
- Keith Jones delves into the critical aspects of team building and culture within professional hockey, drawing from his personal experiences and insights.
- Insights from Jonesy's book are discussed, with a focus on the chapter "I'm Minus Seven," which explores the balance between personal performance and team dynamics.
- The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing and enhancing individual players' strengths to build a cohesive team.
- Neil Smith and Keith Jones discuss the pivotal role of leadership in fostering a strong and positive team culture.
- Jonesy highlights the collaborative approach to decision-making within the Philadelphia Flyers, stressing the importance of teamwork at the executive level.
- The discussion touches on the significance of gathering input from all team members, including trainers and assistant coaches, to maintain a healthy team environment.
- Jonesy praises the involvement of CEO Dan Hilferty, noting his supportive leadership style and its positive impact on the organization.
- The challenges of maintaining a positive team culture amidst external pressures and noise are addressed, with strategies for staying focused on core values.
- Jonesy underscores the importance of developing well-rounded individuals in youth hockey, emphasizing character alongside athletic skills.
- The passionate and demanding nature of Philadelphia sports fans is acknowledged, with Jonesy discussing how this influences team operations and goals.
Listen to the full episode of NHL Wraparound with Keith Jones at https://nhl-wraparound-podcast.captivate.fm/episode/ep-24-building-it-back-up-with-keith-jones
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Ever wondered how to turn a long car ride into an unforgettable adventure? Hockey mom Christie Casciano shares her insights on making road trips to out-of-town tournaments a memorable experience for kids and parents alike. She emphasizes the importance of completing schoolwork before hitting the road, allowing for a stress-free journey. Christie suggests engaging in fun activities like I Spy and word games to keep the ride lively and interactive. She also highlights the value of bonding with teammates and friends during these trips, encouraging meaningful conversations and shared memories. With Christie's tips, road trips become more than just a journey—they're an opportunity for connection and fun.
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Are you navigating the college hockey recruitment maze? Boston University Women's Hockey Assistant Coach Megan Myers shares invaluable insights to help young players and their families through this challenging process. She emphasizes the importance of drive, patience, and enjoying the journey, while also highlighting the resources available, such as club coaches and team managers. Megan also discusses the significance of self-advocacy, encouraging players to take charge by writing professional emails, sharing schedules and videos, and communicating directly with coaches.
Megan acknowledges the anxiety that often accompanies recruitment and offers practical advice, including alternative communication methods like texting or FaceTime for those who find traditional methods daunting. The conversation also touches on the evolving nature of coach-player communication, noting the increased flexibility to accommodate different comfort levels. Importantly, Megan reminds us that recruitment is a two-way street, with coaches also feeling the pressure to win the trust of potential players.
Key Discussion Points
- Drive and Patience in the Recruitment Process
- Utilizing Resources like Club Coaches and Team Managers
- Importance of Self-Advocacy
- Professional Communication with Coaches
- Managing Anxiety in Recruitment
- Alternative Communication Methods
- Evolution of Coach-Player Communication
- Two-Way Nature of Recruitment
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Are you already feeling the pressure of the season? This episode of "Our Kids Play Hockey" offers essential tips to help parents manage anxiety and enjoy the game. Lee Elias and Mike Bonelli discuss the common tendency of parents to hyper-focus on their own child, often leading to unnecessary stress. They emphasize the importance of viewing the game from a broader perspective, understanding that youth hockey is about development over the season, not just individual games. The conversation also touches on the balance between competitiveness and kindness, and how parents can create a supportive environment for their kids. Whether you're a seasoned hockey parent or new to the rink, this episode provides valuable insights to help you and your child thrive this hockey season.
Key Discussion Points
Tips to Manage Anxiety During the Hockey Season
- Awareness of Focus
- Understanding Parental Perspective
- Macro View of Development
- Encouraging Fun and Enjoyment
- Handling Mistakes Constructively
- Role of Influential Parents
- Avoiding Over-Involvement
- Gratitude and Perspective
- Goalie Parents’ Unique Challenges
- Collective Experience
- Life Lessons Through Hockey
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How often do you communicate on the ice? This episode of "The Ride to the Rink" with Lee explores the critical role of communication in hockey, highlighting how it can make or break a game.
Key Points:
Importance of Communication on the Ice
- Emphasis on the necessity of verbal communication during games and practices.
- Comparison of past and present communication habits due to technology.
Situational Awareness and Tactical Communication
- Examples of essential verbal cues on the ice.
- The impact of communication on player performance and team dynamics.
Practice Strategies for Improving Communication
- Lee encourages players to vocalize during drills and games.
- Techniques for integrating communication into practice routines.
Challenges and Solutions
- Lee addresses the difficulties some players face with verbal communication.
- Strategies for overcoming shyness and improving communication skills.
0:00 Intro
0:08 Importance of Communication in Hockey
4:12 Encouraging Team Communication
6:13 Challenges for Introverted Players
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Dive into our essential guide to college hockey recruiting with hosts Lee MJ Elias, Mike Bonelli, Christie Casciano Burns, and Sheri Hudspeth in this episode of "Our Girls Play Hockey." Joined by Megan Myers, assistant coach for the Boston University women's ice hockey team, the discussion covers everything from the ideal age to start thinking about college hockey to crafting the perfect email to catch a coach's attention. Megan shares her expertise on navigating NCAA rules, the importance of balancing academics and athletics, and the value of both official and unofficial visits. This episode is a must-listen for players, parents, and coaches looking to understand the recruiting process and make informed decisions about their hockey futures.
Key Discussion Points
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Do you have team building built into your practice plans this season? Hosts Lee MJ Elias and Mike Bonelli dive into the importance of team building in youth hockey. They share practical tips and fun exercises to help coaches and parents create a tight-knit team. From trust falls to tic-tac-toe with hockey sticks, they show how just 20 minutes a week can make a big difference. Whether your team is on a winning streak or facing challenges, these simple activities can help build trust, communication, and accountability. Perfect for any point in the season, this episode is packed with easy-to-implement ideas to keep your team connected and motivated.
Key Discussion Points:
Importance of Team Building in Youth Hockey
- Emphasis on the necessity of team building at the start of the season.
- Establishing trust, communication, and accountability within the team.
- Common misconceptions about team building activities (e.g., pizza parties).
Challenges Faced by Coaches
- Limited budget and time constraints for team building activities.
- Lack of parental involvement and support.
- Balancing team building with other coaching responsibilities like power play and penalty kill.
Effective Team Building Strategies
- Simple, low-cost activities that require minimal resources.
- Examples of team building exercises:
- Trust falls
- Paper plate navigation
- Hula hoop rock-paper-scissors
- Tic-tac-toe with hockey sticks and sandbags
- Importance of defining trust and setting team priorities (team, teammates, self).
Implementation Tips
- Scheduling team building sessions after practice.
- Engaging parents and involving them in activities.
- Adapting activities based on the age group and team dynamics.
- Using team building to address specific team issues (e.g., communication problems).
Frequency and Timing of Team Building
- Recommended frequency: once a month, with more frequent sessions at the start of the season.
- Key periods for team building: beginning of the season, post-holidays, and pre-playoffs.
Benefits of Team Building
- Enhances team cohesion and performance.
- Helps teams overcome challenges and improve overall experience.
- Encourages critical thinking, problem-solving, and mutual support among players.
Parental Involvement
- Strategies to involve parents in team building without overwhelming them.
- Examples o
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The podcast currently has 307 episodes available.