Out Loud & Laughing

By Bryan Ruiz and Jon RuizSociety & Culture

Out Loud & Laughing episodes

February 17 Redefining Fatherhood: The Gaddies Journey with David Morgenstern
In this engaging conversation, David Morgenstern, the creative force behind Gaddies, shares insights into his journey as a queer dad and entrepreneur. He discusses the evolution of his brand, the importance of community engagement, and the challenges of balancing personal identity with business. David reflects on the significance of representation and celebration within the LGBTQ+ community, and how his experiences as a parent have shaped his approach to business. The conversation also touches on the fun and lighter side of parenting and personal style, culminating in a playful game segment.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction to David Morgenstern and Gaddies
02:02 The Evolution of Gaddies and Community Impact
05:18 Consumer Feedback and Brand Adaptation
09:20 Balancing Personal Identity and Business
12:56 Parenting and Intentionality in Business
16:06 Navigating Vulnerability and Authenticity
18:30 Trusting Ideas and Building Confidence
19:24 Future Plans for Gaddies and Community Engagement
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David Morgenstern, Gaddies, queer parenting, community building, brand identity, consumer insights, parenting, self-discovery, LGBTQ+ representation, family values
27 min
February 12 Valentine’s Day: Celebrating Love and Self-Acceptance with David Hernandez
In this special Valentine's Day episode, hosts Jon and Bryan welcome back singer-songwriter David Hernandez to discuss his journey in music, the impact of his song 'Beautiful', and the release of 'Beautiful 2.0'. David reflects on his personal growth, the importance of self-love, and the significance of collaboration with fellow artist Mila. The conversation touches on the pressures of fame, the evolution of confidence, and how Valentine's Day can be a celebration of self-love and chosen family.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Valentine's Day Celebration with David Hernandez
02:15 The Journey of 'Feel It All' and Its Impact
04:48 Reimagining 'Beautiful' for a New Era
08:51 Full Circle: Collaborating with Mila
10:02 The Evolution of Self-Love and Sobriety
13:24 Reflecting on the Challenges of 2016
15:40 The Shift from Surviving to Thriving
18:55 Valentine's Day: A Celebration of Self-Love
21:32 Rapid Fire: Valentine's Day This or That
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Valentine's Day, self-love, David Hernandez, Beautiful 2.0, music journey, collaboration, LGBTQ+
26 min
February 10 Radical Honesty: Navigating Love and Identity with Steven Peters
In this engaging episode, hosts Bryan Ruiz and Jon sit down with Steven Peters, a digital powerhouse known for his radical honesty and vulnerability. The conversation begins with a light-hearted discussion about their shared Florida roots, transitioning into deeper topics such as the political climate in Florida and its impact on personal safety and identity. Steven shares his journey from curated content to embracing authenticity, revealing how a viral moment on social media led him to discuss body dysmorphia and the complexities of dating in today's world. The trio explores the challenges of dating in New York City, the importance of self-care, and the liberating power of vulnerability in building connections.
As the conversation unfolds, Steven reflects on his sober curiosity and how it has transformed his perspective on social interactions and personal well-being. He emphasizes the significance of being intentional in dating and the importance of surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals. The episode concludes with a fun segment where Steven shares his preferences in a light-hearted game, showcasing his personality and humor. Overall, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of identity, community, and the journey toward self-acceptance.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction to Steven Peters
03:02 Reflections on Florida and Personal Safety
06:05 The Shift to Authenticity and Vulnerability
09:12 Sober Curiosity and Self-Care
11:09 Navigating Dating in New York City
13:52 The Importance of Intentional Dating
17:01 Advice to His Younger Self
19:59 Fun Segment: This Is That Now
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radical honesty, dating, body image, vulnerability, sober curiosity, New York City, community, self-care, authenticity, personal growth
26 min
February 05 Breaking Barriers: LGBTQ+ Representation in Sports
In this engaging conversation, Bryan and Jon explore the representation of LGBTQ+ athletes in the Winter Olympics, discussing historical context, current athletes to watch, and the influence of media and pop culture on the perception of these athletes. They highlight the challenges faced by openly gay athletes and the evolving narrative around LGBTQ+ representation in sports. The conversation is filled with humor and personal anecdotes, making it both informative and entertaining.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Winter Olympics and Community Representation
02:58 Historical Context of LGBTQ+ Athletes
05:53 Current LGBTQ+ Athletes to Watch
08:57 The Role of Media and Pop Culture
12:03 The Evolution of LGBTQ+ Representation
15:00 Fun and Games: Olympic Style This or That
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Winter Olympics, LGBTQ+ representation, gay athletes, sports, media, pop culture, community, history, current events, athletes
25 min
February 03 Navigating Life Shifts with Matt Gilhooly
In this episode of Out Loud and Laughing, hosts Bryan Ruiz and Jon welcome Matt Gilhooly, an award-winning storyteller and host of the Life Shift podcast. The conversation delves into their shared high school experiences, the impact of grief on personal growth, and the importance of vulnerability and authenticity in storytelling. Matt shares the origins of his podcast, which began as a school assignment during the pandemic, and how it evolved into a platform for exploring life-changing moments. The discussion emphasizes the significance of listening, being present, and creating a safe space for others to share their stories. The episode concludes with light-hearted rapid-fire questions that reveal more about Matt's personality and preferences.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction to the Life Shift Podcast
02:58 High School Memories and Shared Experiences
06:00 The Birth of the Life Shift Podcast
08:48 Navigating Grief and Personal Stories
12:07 Finding Your Voice and Authenticity
15:04 The Art of Listening and Being Present
17:47 Curiosity and Connection in Storytelling
24:27 Navigating Conversations: The Role of the Host
25:00 This or That: Fun Insights into Matt's Life
29:02 The Balance of Work and Podcasting
30:01 The Importance of Listening
31:59 Personal Preferences: Scruff vs. Clean Shaven
32:57 Living Preferences: Florida vs. Massachusetts
34:01 Closing Thoughts: The Value of Conversation
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podcast, storytelling, personal growth, grief, authenticity, vulnerability, high school, emotional awareness, life shifts, listening skills, The Life Shift, Matt Gilhooly
35 min
January 29 Kissing into the New Year: The Viral Love Story of Ricky and DJ
In this lively episode, host Jon welcomes Ricky Locci & DJ Petrosino, the viral couple who made headlines with their New Year's kiss in Times Square. The conversation dives into their unexpected rise to fame, the significance of their kiss in the context of LGBTQ representation, and their personal journeys in health and the arts. Ricky shares his experiences as a physical therapist and founder of Fitting in Fitness, emphasizing the importance of mental health and body positivity within the LGBTQ community. DJ reflects on his career as a performer and his transition into interior design, highlighting the creative connections that have shaped his life. Together, they discuss the challenges and triumphs of being openly queer in their respective fields, and how their relationship has flourished amidst their individual journeys.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction to Ricky and DJ
01:11 The Viral New Year's Kiss
08:27 Ricky's Journey in Health and Fitness
15:08 DJ's Artistic Path and Transition
20:18 How Ricky and DJ Met
24:41 Fun Rapid-Fire Questions
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LGBTQ, New Year's kiss, Ricky Locci, DJ Petrosino, body positivity, mental health, queer representation, physical therapy, interior design, viral couple
25 min
January 27 Manifesting Dreams: The Journey of Ryan Lu
In this engaging conversation, Ryan Lu shares his transformative journey from a paraeducator to a digital empire builder, emphasizing the power of manifestation, journaling, and self-reflection. He discusses the importance of community and connection, the psychology behind his beliefs, and his aspirations to become a pop star. Ryan's candid insights into his creative process and emotional depth reveal a passionate individual dedicated to sharing his authentic self through music and content creation.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction to Ryan Lu and His Journey
02:54 The Manifestation Journey Begins
06:02 The Power of Journaling and Self-Reflection
09:09 Realizing the Power of Words
12:06 The Psychology Behind Manifestation
15:00 Building Connections Beyond Money
17:59 The Pop Star Dream and Creative Aspirations
21:00 The Emotional Depth of Music
24:00 Personal Preferences and Fun Questions
27:03 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Ryan
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manifestation, journaling, self-reflection, personal growth, pop star, creativity, psychology, community, emotional depth, connection, Ryan Lu, Delulu, Delulu with Ryan Lu podcast
30 min
January 22 It Takes a Village: Grief, Gay Fatherhood & Building Family From the Ruins
In this episode, Jon and Bryan welcome José Rolón (@NYCGayDad), a prominent figure in the LGBTQ+ community and a single father of three. José shares his inspiring journey from being a high-end wedding planner to navigating the challenges of raising his children after the loss of his husband. He discusses the emotional complexities of surrogacy, the decision to continue his family after his husband's passing, and the importance of community support in his parenting journey. José emphasizes the significance of vulnerability and emotional openness in fatherhood, contrasting his experiences with traditional machismo upbringing.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction to José Rolón
02:30 The Journey of Surrogacy and Loss
06:52 Building a Support System
10:11 Unlearning Machismo in Parenting
15:03 Open Communication with Kids
18:08 Balancing Wedding Planning and Parenting
20:19 The Importance of Asking for Help
23:24 Fun This or That Round
27:10 Where to Find José Rolón
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LGBTQ+, single father, surrogacy, emotional vulnerability, parenting, community support, resilience, family, wedding planning, machismo
29 min
January 20 Navigating Advocacy for the Trans Community and Self-Care with Zeke Smith
In this engaging conversation, Zeke Smith, a prominent figure in the LGBTQIA community and a member of the GLAAD board, discusses the importance of representation in media, the challenges faced by the trans community, and the power of storytelling. He shares his personal journey from being a contestant on Survivor to becoming an advocate for trans rights, emphasizing the need for accurate representation and the role of allies in supporting the community. Zeke also highlights the significance of self-care amidst the ongoing struggles faced by the LGBTQIA community and the importance of living authentically and joyfully.
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Time Stamps:
00:00 Introduction to Zeke and GLAAD
02:59 The Role of GLAAD in Media Representation
05:55 Zeke's Journey and the Power of Storytelling
08:56 Self-Care and Advocacy in a Heavy Climate
11:56 Media's Impact on Trans Narratives
15:05 Debunking Myths About Trans Experiences
17:57 Zeke's Advocacy and Personal Joy
20:58 Living Authentically and Celebrating Love
23:58Closing Thoughts and Future Conversations
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GLAAD, LGBTQIA, representation, media, storytelling, trans rights, advocacy, self-care, cultural change, Zeke Smith
31 min
January 15 Celebrating 100 Episodes: Laughter, Love, and Community
Join Jon and Bryan as they celebrate their 100th episode with laughter, heartfelt reflections, and a look back at their journey. From sharing personal stories to building a vibrant community, this milestone episode is a testament to friendship and the power of conversation. Tune in for a special episode filled with joy, gratitude, and a glimpse into the future of "Out Loud and Laughing."
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#PodcastMilestone #OutLoudAndLaughing #100Episodes #PodcastCommunity #LaughterAndLove #Celebration #PodcastJourney #FriendshipGoals #PodcastLife #QueerVoices
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21 min