Overthinking in Your Underwear

This week, I sit down with one of the funniest overthinkers I know, Ryan Stober. Ryan and I have been co-workers, neighbors and “it’s complicated” for more years than I can count. Over anything he’s a friend, and I love chatting with him. 

Like me, Ryan is over 40, never married, no kids. I attempt to get him to discuss this subject, which I do but not without a wild ride through personal growth, aliens and water fasting. It’s funny, interesting, and full of actual advice (to my surprise).

Lindsay sits down with her cousins, Jenna and Cara Francella, to hear the story of their family’s life-long paranormal experiences. Plus, aliens, psychic abilities, and a colonial boy kneeling in the corner. Expect humor, thoughtful insights, and fun conversation. Ready? Let's overthink it.

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This week, I sit down with my long time friend, and favorite expat, Owen Black, to ask a question I've been overthinking for awhile now... Are the Kens alright? 

We discuss comedy, living in London, The Barbie Movie and what it's like to be a Ken in world where Barbie just made a billion at the box office.

First up, Owen and I overthink:

* The time we did open mics together

* Comedy and cancel culture

* Owen tells me the difference between British and US comedy audiences

Main thought: Are the Kens alright?

* Owen gives me his review of The Barbie Movie

* He tells me about the lost place of men in our society

* We talk about finding your purpose, and I laugh a lot because Owen’s one of the funniest people I know.

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This week, Lindsay sits down with her reality TV addicted friend, Ashlee, to recap the reality TV reckoning, the Rachel/Raquel interview, Britney Spears, And Just like that gets another season, and that one time Lindsay met Lindsay Lohan. Don't miss all the overthinking including:

* Lindsay and Ashlee tell Rachel to "Monica Lewinsky her life"

* The one thing Rachel said that got Lindsay overthinking

* What is Bethany really up to?

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This week, I sit down !again! with my friend, Jill Simpson. She's a licensed professional counselor, specializing in marriage and relationships. This time we discuss dating.Best friend, Trisha, joins us to add her take, and we all eat too many sour patch kids.

Main Thought: Overthinking Dating

* Overthinking your type

* What are your red flags?

* How many drinks is too many drinks on a date?

* What’s the good “first date” question?

* Self-worth, the secret weapon of dating

* Overthinking Attachment Theory

* Are you sending the wrong signals to the Universe?

Learn more about Jill’s online relationship course as well as her at-home Relationship Refresh kit (a great gift for couples) available on Amazon.

If you enjoy this episode, listen to Secrets of a Relationship Expert with Jill and Trisha. Or, watch this episode on YouTube.

DISCLAIMER: Please know that the information shared in this episode is educational only and not considered therapy or counseling. This is not intended to be a substitute for medical advice or treatment. If you feel you are in need of therapy at this time, please seek out a counselor in your area.

First up, Lindsay is overthinking the Montgomery riverfront brawl. Main thought, Lindsay overthinks toxic patterns and relationships ... getting into and breaking out of them.

This week, my niece, Marli McCann, joins me to discuss true crime. Stealing the format of my favorite podcast, My Favorite Murder, Marli and I share “Our favorite murder story.” It’s a fun chat for true crime fans.

This week, I'm overthinking the Lizzo situation.

Main Thoughts: Overthinking True crime

* The strange disappearance of Sneha Anne Philip

* Where is Casey Anthony now and why is it so weird?

If you enjoyed this episode, listen to Move Fast and Break Things where Marli and I discuss leaving home and more.

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Two Gen X Barbies walk into a podcast ...hear their conversation on The Barbie Movie and so much more.

A few weeks ago, I wrote a blog and recorded a pod called "The myth of female empowerment." It was meant to share with you today. But that pod was interrupted by a six foot blonde with perfect dimensions and bright blue yes. Yes, my pod was derailed by the fervor of the Barbie Movie. How could I question anything about female empowerment when women are having a moment crying into their TikToks and having the Best Day Ever? So, today, I'll share that female empowerment podcast with you, but first we'll discuss Barbie—the doll, the myth, the movie.

The Barbie Movie, when did you cry and why?

What's with the Barbie Backlash?

Should the Kens be mad?

That speech at the end.

The marketing machine of Mattel.

Worshiping at the altar of Greta Gerwig

As women, when do we start competing and why?

What's up with jealousy?

How can we support one another? Listen now!

My theory of love and marriage is based on the reality TV show, Married at First Sight. Here’s the theory. Eighty percent of marriage is based on timing, two people showing up at the same point in their lives saying “I’m ready to commit to the concept of marriage.” The idea of two people committing to one another for the rest of their lives.

My theory aside, my friend, Couples Therapist & Relationship Expert, Jill Simpson, has real theories, based on schooling and real life expertise. As a licensed professional counselor, specializing in marriage and relationships she shares her insights on marriage and relationships in this week’s episode. Listen to our chat where we cover: 

The five most common relationship hurdles.

Intimacy, positive mindset, "why people cheat," the one sign it's over, and I even ask about that Jonah Hill situation.

Learn more about Jill’s online relationship course as well as her at-home Relationship Refresh kit (a great gift for couples) available on Amazon.

In this episode, Lindsay talks about "canon events," a TikTok term that made her think about failure and what it can teach us. Listen now to overthink tips on failure, grit and hear a fun conversation with Lindsay, and her Gen Z niece, Marli, and her friend Harper about their thoughts on Canon Events.