For too long, the world has told men that gentleness and sensitivity are weaknesses. That to be a “real man,” you have to be tough, stoic, and unyielding. But the truth is: gentleness and sensitivity are not the opposite of strength—they’re the foundation of it. And when you pair them with boldness, you create a masculinity that is not only powerful but deeply human.For more tools to live beyond your unwanted attractions and into your purpose, visit ownyouridentitynow.com

Have you ever noticed how quickly your mind can turn a simple observation into a full-blown story? You see an attractive guy, and before you know it, your brain is off to the races. But what if you could stop the mental loop? You could say, "He's an attractive guy." Period.

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Have you ever felt like you’re on the outside looking in when it comes to friendships? In this episode, we’re breaking down those barriers and talking about how to build the deep, meaningful connections you were made for.

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Feeling stuck regarding SSA? Take this quiz to see where you are letting it hold you back in 5 key areas: ssaquiz.com.

In this episode, I share the top 3 things I sought from porn, and the 6 steps that made the biggest impact for me toward freedom from porn.

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Satan loves to turn up the bass on our negative thoughts, but every time you make a choice aligned with faith, love, and connection, you’re tuning into God’s frequency. You’re dismantling the lies and amplifying the truth. In this episode, I'll show you how.

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 What is more powerful— staring at our sin or staring at the face of God? Gaze at the face of God. And let His holiness, His love, and His grace bring you to your knees—not in shame, but in awe.

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When you stay open in the midst of discomfort, you give yourself permission to hope, to dream, to love, to fail, to get hurt, and to rise again. That is the stuff of life. And it all starts with a willingness to sit in the discomfort, to hold space for the impossible, and to trust that something beautiful is on the other side.

In this episode, you'll hear men speak directly to the young man I call Timothy. When I record each of my podcast episodes, I imagine sitting across from him in his living room, letting him know he is not alone and is more powerful than he thinks. I've invited others to do the same. Listen in.Interested in joining a 12-week coaching group with me and a small group of men? Learn more and book a free discovery call at ​ownyouridentitynow.com/groupcoaching​ to apply.

My five-year-old son came up to me with this big grin on his face and asked, “Dad, can we wear matching clothes today?” He wasn’t trying to prove anything. He just wanted to connect. He wanted to say, “You’re like me. I’m like you.” It inspired me.

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Some mysteries are traps—they pull us into obsession, comparison, or fear. Others are healthy invitations—they call us to grow, to trust, and to live more fully alive. In this episode, I explore both.

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