OYNB Podcast

Welcome to a special highlights episode of the OYNB podcast!

As we wrap up Series 3, we're excited to revisit some of the most impactful, thought-provoking, and life-changing conversations we've had. Our goal has always been to provide you with insights and principles that, when put into practice, can truly transform your life. That's the essence of this podcast—to be a catalyst for positive change.

Today, we have a selection of our most memorable guests and compelling discussions. We believe these conversations hold immense value, and if they resonate with you, we invite you to share this episode with anyone in your circle who may benefit from reassessing their relationship with alcohol.

In this episode, you'll hear from a diverse range of voices, including scientists, inspiring speakers, innovative business leaders, and Complete Control stories from members who have taken back control of their lives. Each story and perspective offers unique insights and practical wisdom that can help you on your journey.

Explore a new chapter in your relationship with alcohol and learn more about OYNB and how we can help you make the change: https://go.oneyearnobeer.com/complete-control-program/?el=podcast

If you are ready to take a challenge and see how a break from alcohol can make a huge impact on your overall health and performance, you can visit our challenges and give it a go for 28, 90 or 365 days: https://go.oneyearnobeer.com/challenges-uk/?el=podcast

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Hey everyone! We've reached the final episode of Series 3, and what a wild ride it's been! We've had awesome guests, scientists, cool speakers, and some real game-changing Complete Control stories. Series 4 is up next, and we're cranking it up a notch! But for now, let's kick back and enjoy Scott's journey with Complete Control and how he's rocked the changes in his relationship with alcohol. Enjoy! 

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Stepping away from the bright lights and roar of the crowd isn't easy, especially when it means confronting the silence within. That's the reality Scott, a former NHL icon, faced when he hung up his skates and embarked on a soul-searching journey towards sobriety.

Prepare to strip away the glittering veneer of a professional athlete to uncover a culture of excess and the daunting pressures athletes endure, both on and off the ice. Scott's candid account of his struggles, from the allure of match-day highs topping the leaderboard, to the devastating lows of retirement from the professional game, paint a brutally honest snapshot of professional sport in 2024.

In an intimate exchange, Scott tells coach Jen Fairbairns how he swapped pucks for introspection, and alcohol for authenticity. Hear how the Complete Control program transformed him when he was at his most vulnerable and how he hopes lasting peace can be found through meditation and community.

The ice was Scott's battlefield, despite the inevitable physical injuries from match fixtures, his scars ran deeper with regular battles still fought his mind.

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Coming from a successful famous family sounds like it could be the perfect life, but for Scott Thomas, it exposed him to a world of temptation; as a club promoter and regular attendee at glitzy product launches as a PR company owner in his home town of Manchester.

This explosive episode lifts the lid on the complexities of fame, identity, and the way public life's pressures can shape - and sometimes distort - one's future. Hear how Scott, best known for his time on reality TV show Love Island, publicly trod the path to sobriety, and how his personal battle with compulsive behaviours played out in the papers, rather than behind closed doors.

Ruari and Scott also discuss living with an ADHD diagnosis and the clarity that it can bring to your life at a time when you're learning how to manage compulsive behaviours. Opening up about how community continues to play a critical role in his sobriety, Scott offers some strategies and support for those facing similar hurdles.

Scott's story is full of empowerment, and charts a journey in which alcohol became denormalized, breaking free from the grasp it had on his daily life. The transformation from surviving to thriving demonstrates that with the right support, everyone can change their relationship with alcohol. Whether under the lens of publicity, or privately.

Learn more about our guest Scott Thomas here: 

Scott's Instagram

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In this deeply honest episode, Jen is joined by OYNB member Susie to discuss her shift from overindulgence to finding inner peace.

Three years ago, after many summers filled with excessive alcohol consumption leading to a strain on her marriage and wider relationships, and with the social hangover outlasting the warm weather, Susie decided it was time to finally change her relationship with alcohol.

After finding OYNB through social media, Susie embarked on an 8 week Complete Control challenge, finding her tribe with the other participants who were in a similar situation, by taking full advantage of the community that the program provided. Reflecting on her experience, Susie explains how important the role of daily routines are in sustaining a healthier lifestyle, how she rediscovered who she was by admitting her imperfections and how therapy brought about profound changes in all her relationships.

As her coach, Jen celebrates the successful transformation that Susie has undergone, describing her as “a powerhouse”. For anyone looking to make a positive change to their behaviours, Susie’s story is truly inspirational. This episode dismantles the misconceptions surrounding sobriety, and instead celebrates the clarity and care that come from making healthier choices.

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Join the ranks of those who dare to live a life of discipline and purpose, as we sit down with the indomitable Joe De Sena. Get ready to be challenged and inspired by Joe’s relentless pursuit of resilience, where actions speak louder than words. Hear tales of early morning workouts where a true test of character is part of the daily grind. Joe’s "nobody cares, work harder" mantra isn’t just a catchphrase; it’s a call to arms to anyone who is looking to inspire change and lead by a powerful example. But the path to success isn’t paved with protein shake; it’s full of trials and the occasional stumble.

In this motivational episode, we break down the notion that young people should be shielded from adversity. Instead, we explore the benefits of letting them experience the rich lessons that come from pushing past our comfort zones. With Joe’s insight and Ruari’s own parenting journey, we discuss the benefits that instilling grit and a strong work ethic from an early age can have.

We also hear about how life changing taking part in a Spartan race can be. These races are more than just physical challenges; they’re transformative opportunities that allow participants to take greater control over their life choices, including the decision to say ‘no’ to alcohol.

Joe is a huge tour de force; so for those on a new year health kick, or having already taken steps towards taking control over compulsive behaviours, this episode is the motivation YOU need.

Learn more about our guest Joe De Sena here: 

Website

Joe De Sena's Instagram

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Happy New Year!

Today is the first day of 2024, and there is resolution in the air.

We often find ourselves in a societal loop - normalising alcohol, the very substance that dims our sparkle, only to seek remedies for the gloom it brings. Have you ever considered the silent toll that alcohol is taking on your professional drive and the quality of your connections with family and friends?

This special episode could be the beginning of a year of change for you - it’s time to take control. But unlike “Dry January”, it isn’t about cutting back on drinking for a limited time; it’s an invitation to envision a life where clarity, focus, and relationships flourish. We invite you to imagine your future, the personal growth you see for yourself, and to be honest about the very real (and mostly hidden) costs that alcohol has on your life.

Behind all of this is the neuroscience powering compulsive behaviours. Learn about strategies to manage stress and prevent it from derailing your ambitions for the year ahead. And explore how mindfulness techniques like breathwork can lead to overcoming habits and living a life filled with more personal wins and self love.

What does the best version of yourself look like this year? Grab some headphones and join founder Ruari in creating your personal manifesto for 2024 and beyond.

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If you are ready to take a challenge and join our alcohol-free community, you can test it for 28, 90 or 365 days through one of our programmes: https://go.oneyearnobeer.com/challenges-uk/?el=podcast

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As another year draws to a close, we take time out to spend a few days with loved ones, but for some it can be a real struggle. Complicated families, the absence of a strong support network, or simply missing loved ones can turn the holidays into a tough time.

This special Christmas episode is all about connection and features a conversation between Ruari and Jen Fairbairns reflecting on their year, sharing their highlights and celebrating everything they are personally thankful for. They also look to 2024, making positive affirmations about their hopes for the year ahead.

In this episode we're challenging you, OYNB Podcast listener, to join us as we play a game which encourages real conversations without the influence of alcohol. We also explore the social dynamics of family gatherings and how to navigate interactions more positively at this special time of year.

We hope this episode inspires you to positively engage with family and friends this holiday season, celebrating special times together, and creating cherished moments to remember for years to come.

If you want to play along with us, here are the questions asked during this episode:

In the past year in retrospect, what was your biggest mistake?

In the past year in retrospect, what did you do to advance your relationships?

What is one of the most valuable lessons you've learned this year?

Which 3 people have influenced you the most?

What was the best book, movie or TV series you read or watched in this past year?

Looking ahead to the upcoming year, for what you would congratulate yourself a year from now?

Looking ahead to the upcoming year, to whom do you want to get more attention?

Looking ahead to the upcoming year, what will you do that is really unexpected by anyone, maybe even yourself?

From everyone at OYNB, we wish you a very Merry Christmas!

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In this fascinating exploration of ADHD and its many facets, we're joined by Neal Mankey, chair of ADHD UK, who shares some personal experiences and insightful topics on the connection between ADHD and alcohol. This episode talks about the impact it has on work and personal life, and its connection with entrepreneurship. Neal's role in ADHD advocacy aims to highlight the need for increased awareness and resources in ADHD education and support.

Listen as Neal and Ruari share personal stories of living with ADHD and how it has influenced life decisions, including the choice to eliminate alcohol from their routines. We hear about the difficulties in coping with ADHD symptoms such as anxiety, depression, and feelings of isolation, as well as the unexpected advantages it can bring.

This candid episode also highlights the importance of community and making connections with like-minded individuals.

Learn more about our guest Neal Mankey and the work that he is doing here: 

Neal's LinkedIn

ADHD UK

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If you are ready to take a challenge and join our alcohol-free community, you can test it for 28, 90 or 365 days through one of our programmes: https://go.oneyearnobeer.com/challenges-uk/?el=podcast

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In this special episode, join Jen from OYNB for a heartfelt conversation with the inspiring MT, a human resources director from Pennsylvania, who candidly shares her journey from dependency to self-control. The Complete Control program has given her the tools to break the rules and make a change in her life.

We often hear about the overlooked societal pressures to drink and MT managed to navigate social events without the crutch of alcohol. Her story is an inspiring testament to the power of self-care and the role a supportive community can play in recovery. This episode addresses the challenges of breaking free from dependency, the fear of judgement, and the importance of prioritising one's well-being.

This heart-warming conversation demonstrates that the path to take control is a marathon, not a sprint, and is different for everyone. Ready to make a change?

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If you are ready to take a challenge and join our alcohol-free community, you can test it for 28, 90 or 365 days through one of our programmes: https://go.oneyearnobeer.com/challenges-uk/?el=podcast

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Ever wondered what it would be like to challenge societal norms, and choose an alcohol-free lifestyle? Our guest, Maik Dünnbier, director of strategy and advocacy at Movendi International, made this choice and shares his intriguing journey with us. In the face of the prevalent alcohol norm in Germany, Maik made a conscious decision to live alcohol-free and disrupt the status quo. He opens up about the psychological impact of peer pressure, and the importance of critical thinking when it comes to alcohol consumption.

Navigating the complexities of alcohol policy and its societal implications, we draw attention to the commendable work of organisations trying to raise the legal drinking age and curtail alcohol availability and advertising. We hear about the successful strategies of Scandinavian countries, the potential repercussions of prohibition and explore the impact of the alcohol industry during the coronavirus pandemic - do they really use manipulative tactics to make us drink more?

Addressing the alcohol industry's influence, and the burden of alcohol taxation on society and our healthcare system, underscores the need for effective policies. Maik offers his insights on the current alcohol norms and how we can instigate change for future generations in questioning the role of alcohol in our society, advocating for healthier, more conscious lifestyles.

Learn more about our guest Maik Dünnbier and the work that he is doing here:

Maik's LinkedIn

Website: https://movendi.ngo/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MovendiInt

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/movendi_int/#

Learn more about OYNB and how it could help change your relationship with alcohol - https://go.oneyearnobeer.com/complete-control-program/?el=podcast 

If you are ready to take a challenge and join our alcohol-free community, you can test it for 28, 90 or 365 days through one of our programmes: https://go.oneyearnobeer.com/challenges-uk/?el=podcast

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