Pairadocs

The tragedy of a mass shooting.  It's all over the news.  Everybody is talking about it, political blame is flying back and forth, and there sits our kids.  Scared, confused, and in some cases, completely ignorant of the events swirling around them.  So how do we best discuss unimaginable evil with our kids and keep their innocents intact?  Not sure that's possible, but listen in as Jimmy and Josh tackle talking tragedy with our children. 

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Luby's Shooting in Killeen

The Case for Faith by Lee Strobel

When God Doesn't Make Sense by James Dobson

If kids are old enough to ask, they're old enough to hear.

You don't have to know an unknowable act of God. There's nothing wrong with saying 'I don't know.'

Talk about the solution more than you talk about the problem. 

Solution: Pray, love others

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

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Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

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Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

If you are as sick of politics as I am, raise your hand, right there where you are…yes, God bless you…yes, I see that hand.  Are there any others?  With the current political climate and ever-present social media bombarding our every waking moment, we can't get away from politics, even if we wanted to.  Every song, TV show, movie, sporting event, etc. has comments, demonstrations, or snide political comments.  IT JUST NEVER ENDS!!  Join the fellas this week, as they examine, how we as believers, couples, and parents can navigate the political ocean that we're all seemingly drowning in. 

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Margaret Thatcher

Jesus is the Answer (song)

Andy Bannister interview

Home Fires

As parents, we set the emotional tone of the home. Don't freak your kids out with your anxieties.

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

When you look in the mirror, what do you see?  What does your child see?  How does our body image impact the way we perceive ourselves and how we perceive others perceive us…I may have used the word, "perceive" one too many times?  Our self-image has an enormous influence on the quality of our lives and the lives of our children, yet how we determine that self-image can make us fickle at best and be damaging at it's worst.  Join the guys this week as they look at how we view our physical selves, where it comes from, and how it can negatively effect our entire lives.

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Josh Harris' announcements about Christianity and his divorce

Solutions:

Parents set the tone

Eat to live, don't live to eat

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

You've heart it said that it is not good for man to be alone.  Well, this week, the guys explore exactly why that is.  This is not about being single, or the benefits of "alone time."  It's about the pervasive, negative impact of toxic isolation in both individuals, couples, and families.  So, in keeping with the theme, listen to this episode in a large group of your closest friends!

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"pathology, sin, addiction breeds in isolation"

"The fruit of the spirit will never breed in isolation"

Isolation - not busyness, but not having people who truly know you.

Solution:

Church! (Being involved, not just going)

Be known

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

This week the guys talk through essential movies to watch with your daughters. Whether you're a dad or mom, watch these movies with your girls. Through these movies you can help them learn healthy feminine traits. 

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History Lovers Club on Twitter

Top 10 Movies for Girls:

1. Parent Trap

2. Mean Girls

3. Princess Diaries

4. Freaky Friday

5. Moana

6. Brave 

7. Wizard of Oz

8. Frozen

9. A League of Their Own

10. Soul Surfer

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

After three episodes dealing with the devastating impact of pornography on a person's life.  The boys thought that a wrap up session was in order.  What are some practical step to elevate this problem?  Listen in and find out…

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www.brainheartworld.org

Part 1 - how porn impacts our brain

Part 2 - how porn impacts our relationships

Part 3 - how porn impacts the world

You have to get real with someone besides the men in your life.

Pornography is infidelity.

Any sex that is selfish is wrong.

The addict brain tells you the exact thing to do in order to keep you addicted.

Disclosure is essential.

Fear is the opposite of faith.

Find a Certified Sexual Addication Therapist (CSAT)

Covenant Eyes

XXX Church

If your spouse confesses to you:

DON'T SHAME

Hurt, anger, sadness are ok emotions to share.

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

A lot of great things come in threes.  The number of outs in an inning or baseball, how many branches of government the USA has, not to mention the number of personalities that make up the holy Trinity.  But don't forget to add to that list the number of episodes in the current Pairadocs series on the adverse effects that pornography has on the mind, relationships…and this week the world.  Please view the third video in the series found at www.mindheartworld.org and join in the discussion of the gruesome impact that porn has on society via sex trafficking, child trafficking, and the mind numbing influence that the porn industry has on those who participate in it.  Not a ton of humor in this one…

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www.brainheartworld.org

Part 1 - how porn impacts our brain

Part 2 - how porn impacts our relationships

Part 3 - how porn impacts the world

Fight the New Drug

"97 billion hours of pornography are viewed each year, equating to 52,000 years of porn are viewed each year... on ONE porn site"

St. Peter's foot

"Porn is a receipt for rape"

"95% of porn involves a woman getting hit"

"Regular porn views are 1/3 more likely to be involved in domestic violence"

"Porn is a documentary of a woman's humiliation"

Teen Vogue Approves of Sex Work for Girls

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

This week the guys are halfway through their three-part series on one of our favorite topics…pornography.  Hopefully, by now you've all gone to www.mindheartworld.org and watched the first two episodes of this groundbreaking documentary about the colossally negative impact that porn has on all that view it.  This week, we will thoroughly examine part two; how viewing pornography all but prevents a person from establishing or maintaining close personal relationships.  One may say, "So what?!  So, I'm watching some pornography.  What harm can there be?"  If you are married, in a long-term relationship, or ever hope to be…listen and learn my friend.  Listen and learn. 

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www.brainheartworld.org

Part 1 - how porn impacts our brain

Part 2 - how porn impacts our relationships

Part 3 - how porn impacts the world

Fight the New Drug

Harvard Study - Happiness 

Wall Street Movie

Michael Douglas

Ghost in the Darkness

The American President

Mirror Neurons

"You double your chances of divorce by viewing porn regularly"

"Happiness=Relationship/Love = Focus"

Keith Green

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

Welcome to a new three-part series of Pairadocs.  We don't do this very often, but in leu of the most recent research establishing the fact that over 8 in 10 of young men between the ages of 20 and 29 are viewing hardcore pornography weekly…I did say, weekly!  We felt compelled to address this issue once again.  We need you to go to www.brainheartworld.org.  This is an amazing three-part video series produced by an amazing organization called Fight The New Drug.  Follow them on every platform that you have available to you.  We want you to log in; view the videos and then engage with us as we discuss the contents.  Part One deals with how pornography impacts…no, changes the brain.  Incredible videos, intriguing discussion.  We'll tackle the second video next week that focuses on how porn all but short circuits our ability to have intimate relationships…Let's do this!!

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www.brainheartworld.org

Part 1 - how porn impacts our brain

Part 2 - how porn impacts our relationships

Part 3 - how porn impacts the world

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com

So, what's more fun than talking about a VERY heart wrenching topic in a way that will alienate half the listening audience?  It's a sad subject and is even sadder that the subject has to be talked about.  Take a listen this week as Jimmy and Josh honestly discuss the tragic topic of abortion.  

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Roe v Wade

1 Timothy 3

Luke 6:32

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

The Timothy Center: www.timothycenter.com