Pairadocs

This week, the guys sit down for a lively discussion with Jeff Huxford.  He had a great career as a physician, a great family, what could possibly go wrong?  How about a car accident that caused a traumatic brain injury?  His life, their life, changed in that instant.  You'll love his story told in his new book, Finding Normal: An Uninvited Change; An Unexpected Outcome.

Links to information discussed in the show:

 Jeff's First Book: Finding Normal

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Website: www.jeffhuxford.com

Facebook: @jeffhuxfordmd

Instagram: @jeffhuxford

Twitter: @jeffhuxford

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When we say "mindfulness" many of you, especially guys, tend to nod off.  Mindfulness, you assume, is about meditation, yoga, and saying, "Namaste" while struggling to get off the floor.  But that is NOT what we mean by being mindful.  We mean, living your life intentionally, and with purpose.  If you want a better marriage, a better family, a better walk with God, then you have to make a choice to make that happen.  Listen in as the boys do their best impersonation of personal fitness trainers, by instructing you on how you can be your best you!!  Come on!! And two and three…

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Caffeine Free Diet Coke

Josh's made up change quote:

for change to happen there has to be vision, a plan and an act of will

A Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster

Change requires 3 things:

We need to realize the need for change

We know what to do to change

Motivation to change

If you're not mindful, you're mindless

Be present

Solutions:

Time with your family (schedule it!)

Talking face to face

Play - do something fun

Say No

Accountability

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

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The guys sit down with Brent Crowe this week. He speaks about his new book Moments 'til Midnight. 

Links to information discussed in the show:

Student Leadership University

Brent's Latest Book:

Moments 'Til Midnight

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Website: www.momentstilmidnight.com

Facebook: @brent.crowe.9

Instagram: @brentacrowe

Twitter: @brentacrowe

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

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Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

We talk all the time about how we need to choose which battles are worth having with our kids, but the same is true in our marriages.  There's a difference between an irritant and a "deal breaker."  So where is that line drawn?  How do we know when to let an issue go with our spouse?  Better yet, CAN we let an issue go?  Listen in as the guys get out their sidewalk chalk and show us where to draw healthy conflict boundaries. 

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Steve Martin 

John Gottman Research

Philippi

Thessaloniki

"First bucket - Personal Preferences - things that minimally (if at all) impact your life"

"Second bucket - Infractions - things that impact your life but aren't deal breakers"

Third bucket - Deal breakers - things that are separation worthy"

• For personal preferences - mention to your spouse that you'd like this to change and then get over it"

• For infractions - mention to your spouse you'd like it to change, bring in a 3rd party to speak to you and your spouse (counselor, and then get over it"

• For deal breakers - mention it to your spouse, seek 3rd person counsel and then potentially separate from spouse.

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

This week, Josh has a visit with Dr. Russell Moore.  Dr. Moore is President of the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission of the Southern Baptist Convention…in other words, he's a big wig…no, actually, he's a huge wig!  In fact, if you add an "h" to wig, as in whig, he's the biggest Whig since Daniel Webster…just a tip o' the hat to history buffs.  Josh talks with Dr. Moore about his brand-new book, The Storm-Tossed Family: How the Cross Reshapes the Home. 

Links to information discussed in the show:

Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission of the Southern Baptist Convention

Russell's Latest Book:

The Storm-Tossed Family

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Website: www.russellmoore.com

Facebook: @russellmoore

Instagram: @russellmoore

Instagram: @drmoore

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

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Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

It sounds crazy, but it is one of the most normal thoughts one can have in marriage, "Who is this person I married?" Sometimes our spouse seems completely different than the person we married years ago. What do we do? Is this an excuse to just give up? Is change that bad? It it inevitable? Listen in as the guys discuss what to do when our spouse changes. Spoiler alter - ALL SPOUSES CHANGE! :)

Links to information discussed in the show:

Baby It's Cold Outside Controversy

Jeff Huxford

Barbara Streisand and Neil Diamond - You Don't Bring Me Flowers

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"You didn't marry a lifestyle, you married a person."

"So much of our disappointment with our spouse's changes is our unmet expectations."

"Change is inevitable; when we're doing it [marriage] right AND when we're doing it wrong, change happens."

"You gotta change the change."

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

This week the boys visit with Dan Thomas.  Dan is the Director of Timberline Lodge in Winter Park, CO, which is part of a larger ministry called Torchbearers International.  These ministries focus on discipling young adults and impacting the next generation.  Dan and the boys discuss infusing Christ into your kids and the impact that has on them when they leave our homes.

Links to information discussed in the show:

Timberline Lodge

Torchbearer's International

Timberline Blog

"Too often we're professing Christians but practicing atheists"

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Website: www.timberlinelodge.org

Facebook: @TimberlineLodge

Instagram: @timberlineministries

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

Spiritually and theoretically, we would all say that we want our lives, our marriages, and our children to be different from "the world."  Yet, if one takes, even a casual glance, its easy to see that we are not very different at all.  In fact, we seem to be working overtime, LITERALLY, to make sure that we're not different from our lost culture in the slightest way…except for maybe where we go on Sunday mornings…occasionally.  Listen in as the guys discuss how we can learn to Viva La Difference!! 

Links to information discussed in the show:

 We don't wake up different, you have to be intentional in your difference.

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

Your going to love the interview this week, as the guys visit with Hayley Morgan.  Hayley is a writer, speaker, a social entrepreneur, owner of the online boutique, Nellie Taft, and in all her free time, authored the new book, Preach to Yourself: When Your Inner Critic Comes Calling, Talk Back with Truth.  If I was Hayley's inner critic, I'd be saying, "For the love!  Stop doing so many things!  You're wearing me out!"

Links to information discussed in the show:

Nellie Taft

Some of Hayley's Books:

Preach To Yourself

Wild and Free

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Website: www.hayleymorgan.com

Facebook: @hayleymorganauthor

Twitter: @hayleyEmorgan

Instagram: @hayley.e.morgan

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com

How can we teach our child to tell the truth, when culture is screaming at us every day that objective truth doesn't exist?  There is no greater example of this than the politically generated Transgender insanity that is currently sweeping the nation.  How do you respond when your 5-year-old kindergartener is being taught, in their school, that not all boys are really boys and not all girls are really girls? They are being force fed the insidious doctrine that objective reality isn't real after all. God has called you to parent in unprecedented times.  Listen in.

Links to information discussed in the show:

Article from Brown University on Gender Dysphoria

When Harry Became Sally

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Dr. Jimmy Myers on Twitter: @docjimmymyers, Instagram: @jmyersfam, and Facebook: @docjimmymyers

Dr. Josh Myers on Twitter: @docjoshmyers, Instagram: @docjoshmyers, and Facebook: @docjoshmyers

Pairadocs Podcast on Twitter: @docspodcast, Instagram: @docspodcast, and Facebook: @docspodcast

How do give to the show: www.patreon.com/docspodcast

Billy Myers: www.therapywithbilly.com