In this interview, Nyx Melody shares a beginner friendly guide to all things related to gender and sexuality. Nyx explains what LGBTQIPA2S+ stands for? We discuss HIV/AIDS myths, how to be more affirming and what straight privilege looks like. Nyx also touches on why pronouns matter and the importance of pride. Lastly, Nyx answers what the terms, cis gender, queer and non-binary mean. 

Nyx Melody, LMHC (legal name: Nicholas Moran) (pronouns: they/them/their and fae/faer/faers) is a queer, non-binary/trans femme and panromantic New York State psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, and anti-oppression/LGBTQIA+ consultant. Fae also teaches at NYU and Columbia University. They are passionate about working with individuals, couples, and groups who are struggling with various issues, including but not limited to: trauma/abuse, gender/sexual identity, anxiety, depression, substance use, acculturation, racial identity exploration, and dismantling internalized inferiority and/or superiority. Nyx graduated from the Point Park University with a bachelor's degree in Psychology where fae completed a research study regarding the ongoing coming out process for queer men. They completed a dual master's degree: Masters of the Arts in Psychological Counseling and a Master of Education in Mental Health Counseling from Teachers College, Columbia University, where fae took extensive course work and engaged in research initiatives surrounding queer and gender expansive microaggressions/mental health concerns. Nyx has extensive experience working with queer and straight clients, couples, and groups surrounding exploring sexuality/gender, kinks, consensual non-monogamy, and polyamory. They also have experience providing clinical documentation in support for gender affirming care for transgender and gender expansive individuals. Listening, validation, curiosity, challenging, and accountability are important features of Nyx’s approach to their work with faer clients. Through consultation, Nyx seeks to amplify the messages and teachings of Queer folx, TGNC folx, & the BIPOC community to create affirming practices/policies. As a supervisor, fae aims to assist their supervisees and colleagues with developing culturally responsive approaches to therapy and increase competencies for working with queer and gender variant clients

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In today's therapy session, Krista and I review pros and cons in relationship as well as deciding if you should stay or leave a partner.

Trigger/Content Warning: Instances of abuse and domestic violence are discussed in this episode.

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Kim Bilyk is a Women’s Empowerment & Sexual Health Coach. She helps women connect to their body and align their hormone health so they can be a badass in all areas of their life. Kim is also a Reiki Master, Yoga Therapist, Occupational Therapist, author of “Womb Wisdom Journal, and host of the podcast "Power & Pleasure; All Things Women's Health Uncensored." IG: @kimbilyk_ E-mail: [email protected] Website: www.amala-living.com Womb Wisdom Journal; https://bit.ly/3Ep4rvshttps://bit.ly/3Ep4rvs Interested in 1-1 coaching? Book a discover call here https://calendly.com/amalaliving/discovery-call Cycle Syncing: Optimize Your Period to Maximize Your Productivity & Health Masterclass - 1/18/22 -

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In today's therapy session, Krista and I discuss the following...

Can people of the opposite sex really just be "friends"?

What are red flags to look out for and signs of narcissism?

Why are we attracted to emotionally unavailable people?

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In today's solo episode, I share my intentions for 2022. This year I am working on unconditional self acceptance and not asking myself “how can I be better?” but where can I be braver?

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Tatiana wears many hats as a student, researcher, teacher, counselor, and artist. In essence, she helps others feel and heal as a mental health professional and yoga teacher. Tatiana aims to infuse her approach to mental health with her interests in holistic wellness, yoga, and mindfulness. She has a focus on sex therapy and is currently researching female sexual desire by interviewing practicing sex therapists across the country. Additionally, she is a trauma-informed yoga instructor and teaches in a variety of settings including substance abuse recovery, juvenile justice, veterans affairs, and public studio classes. Lastly, Tatiana curates meditation mall beads with the intention to create wearable art for purposeful meditation. You can follow her @tunwinbytatiana on Instagram!

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Désirable's products are the culmination of almost three years of research and development. It all began in 2011, during a university project on the ethics of designer in the industry of erotic toys. The conclusions were shocking: the current sex toys industry ignores the concepts of ethics, responsibility and hygiene. Thus, there are some sex toys that are manufactured with materials prohibited for use in children’s toys. This is how we started the Design & Intimacy project, which aimed to provide an alternative that is more ethical, responsible and in harmony with the erotic and intimate realities of couples. We believe that handmade products are like a good home-cooked meal: you can feel the love in every bite. From Day One, we decided that every single piece of the product (either the packaging, the storage bag or even the silk covered platform) would be handmade by people near us, in the beautiful province of Québec, Canada. We designed and carefully selected every tiny detail in order to make sure that you could feel our dedication in every step of the way.

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In today's therapy session, Krista and I unpack when and how to appropriately set boundaries in your relationship(s).

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In today's therapy session, Michael and I talk about changing within a relationship, how to set healthy boundaries and ways to find balance while asserting yourself successfully when communicating with a romantic partner. 

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When it comes to pleasure products, I adore Tracy's Dog and their Ducking Sucking & Licking Vibrator. It's a cute 2 in 1 tongue licking and clit sucking vibrator that is magnetic rechargeable, easy to clean, 100% odorless, waterproof and high quality, body safe silicone with 14 different modes. Tracy’s Dog believes that everyone deserves great sex and to own their sexuality. They bring loads of joy to their loyal customers, and you can receive Free Standard Shipping on Order $60 and over at tracysdog.com

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In today's therapy session, Krista and I talk about love bombing, the dv cycle of violence and how to set boundaries while forgiving. 

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