August 04, 2025

"Pick-Me" Dating Tips Exposed

1 hour 25 minutes

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen break down the most harmful dating advice women get from so-called “Pick-Me” mentors, and why being “chosen” should never be your goal. From Auntie wisdom at family gatherings to viral advice from online coaches, we unpack the hidden misogyny behind it all. But first, in Tea Time, we discuss Slim Thug’s fixation on Megan Thee Stallion, Uber’s mounting legal problems, the 4chan users hacking of the Tea App, and the five Canadian hockey players acquitted in a high-profile sexual assault case. Then, in Feminist Herstory, we spotlight Catherine the Great.

🎧 This episode is a deep dive into the dating “advice” designed to keep women small, compliant, and afraid of being alone - and why rejecting that fear is your first step toward freedom.

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

The dangerous myth of “being chosen”

How Pick-Me culture punishes self-respecting women

The emotional cost of dating advice from male centered women

Why staying single is always better than dating a terrible man

How dependency on men sabotages women’s futures

What Catherine the Great can teach us about power and survival

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:

Slim Thug Calls Speculation That He's Interested in Megan Thee Stallion 'Stupid'

https://www.complex.com/music/a/jaelaniturnerwilliams/slim-thug-calls-rumors-that-hes-interested-in-megan-thee-stallion-stupid

Sovereign’s Video On Slim Thug and Megan Thee Stallion

https://youtu.be/i0PbSTP_Srw?si=X1CIIYCaKKLTm8-q

Man Sentenced to Life in Prison for Brutal Murder of Mom-of-Four Uber Driver

https://people.com/man-sentenced-life-in-prison-murder-uber-driver-11728872

Rideshare Lawsuit for Assault in Uber & Lyft (July 2025)

https://www.sokolovelaw.com/personal-injury/sexual-abuse/uber-lyft-rideshare-assault/

Uber Sexual Assault Lawsuits

https://www.lawsuit-information-center.com/uber-sex-assault-lawsuit.html

Hackers Leak 13,000 User Photos and IDs From the Tea App

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna221139

Man Smashes Wife’s Car To Keep Her From Going Through His Phone

https://www.tiktok.com/@thereal_beverly/video/7531563693096619277

Gulabi Gang – Female Vigilante Group in India

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gulabi_Gang

Cats Listening To Neighbors Argue

https://www.tiktok.com/@sierra.knell/video/7483444770736655662

Five Ice Hockey Players Found Not Guilty in Canada Sexual Assault Case

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cn0qlwnyy70o.amp

Human Development Index

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_Human_Development_Index

The Egg Decides Which Sperm Fertilizes It

https://www.news-medical.net/news/20200611/The-egg-decides-which-sperm-fertilizes-it.aspx

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:

We Need A Reckoning

https://bluecactuspress.com/product/we-need-a-reckoning/

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🕰️ Episode Chapters:

00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!

02:10 Slim Thug’s Obsession With Megan Thee Stallion

04:52 Uber’s New Feature and Safety Concerns

10:57 The Tea App Hacked

17:48 5 Hockey Players Found Not Guilty

24:58 Pick-Me Dating Tips Exposed

35:07 Standards and Non-Negotiables in Relationships

50:08 The Dangers of Dependency on Men

01:04:23 Choosing vs. Being Chosen in Dating

01:07:44 Feminist Herstory: Catherine the Great

01:20:52 Poll Results: Male Dating Coaches

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.

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