Pj Alpha Music Podcast

Episode #83 Why being patient is hard

One of the greatest qualities and virtue of any person is to be patient. Is like Elon Musk said, "Patience is a virtue, and I'm learning patience. It's a tough lesson". In my opinion, is one of the hardest traits of the alpha mindset and self-development journey to learn and conquer.

Here are some of the reasons why you might have a hard time with patience:

1. It forces us to be present without certainty

2. It will take away power and control

3. You might have a discomfort situation

4. You have to force yourself to reframe your attitude

5. Your might want this quicker than your expectations

Episode #82 Why Stuff needs to get done

I have worked on this my entire life and managed to get better at finishing my stuff on time. Do not get me wrong, I always struggle with procrastination and finding a date to retire from it, but I know that day will come when I finally decided not to be lazy.

here are some of the benefits of getting your stuff done:

1. You will have a more relaxed mind

2. It will provide the opportunity to review what you have done

3. It will lead to a high level of self-trust

4. You will avoid penalties or repercussions

5. It will help generate more motivation

6. Build Character

Have you ever thought to yourself why you do not believe in anything? I went through it and I guess a lot people as gone through it as well. But the most important thing is you can still come back and be rebirth and have that energy to move forward and start believing again.

But first, let me point out some of the results of not believing in yourself anymore:

1. You become "Lazy"

2. You stop trying

3. You lost the lust (sexual desire) for life

4. People stop believing in yourself

5. You make up excuses and place blames

6. Fear of Failure

The Nature of Envy article: https://www.mentalhelp.net/blogs/the-nature-of-envy/

Emotions are very hard to deal with. We have them but too ofter difficult to control for some weird reason. Now, it is not all bad since there are some tips and tricks that can help you become a better identifier of these compulsive behaviors.

Here are some tips:

1. Write down your feelings

2. Figure out what makes you sensitive

3. Do not be too hard on yourself

4. Limit overthinking

5. Think before you act and be open for feedbacks

6. It is not about you

Episode #78 Why Lying is Bad In A Relationship

Lying is one of the main reasons a lot of relationships lose trust in each other. Making their foundation unsteady and vulnerable for bad outcomes. As soon you lie once you lie twice and so on and so on.

Here are some points that could be the result of lying:

1. Lies destroy trust

2. Lying shows a lack of respect

3. Lying demonstrate selfishness

4. Lies make a relationship unstable

5. lie lead to lie

6. Lying can lead to a compulsive behavior

Negative people are very toxic to your life. They can suck all your emotional sense and take advantage of your genuine desire to help them. Even confuse your kindness for weakness, which is worst.

Here is some point to take in consideration:

1. Negative people are draining

2. Negative people do not have your best intention in mind

3. Negative friends do not want you to be successful

4. Misery loves company

5. Your potential to be great is at risk

Episode #76 With Carlos Santiago

Carlos Santiago, solo guitar player, songwriter, and composer. Originally from the island and commonwealth of Puerto Rico. Currently living in the state finally Florida released his first single "Futuro Incierto" with great success. Today, we spoke about his upcoming project and everything behinds the scene!

Follows Carlos:

On Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCFVJ2WB4A0

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/csantiagolatinrock/

Episode #75 why everything goes wrong in my life

Life always throws you curve balls and we need to find a way to hit them. If you get a simpler glimpse it may be that things are not as bad as you think. Do not get me wrong, people and even my self asked the same question "why everything goes wrong in my life?" but it is important for us to start learning from those experience and see them as a great opportunity to learn.

Here are my points regarding that my help you understand this problem:

1. Everything is not about you

2. Everything is temporary

3. Happiness is a result of your approach to life, not what happens to you

4. Lookout the people that are in your corner

5. Bad times don't define you, but your approach does

6. Complaining, screaming, crying about it, won't change anything

7. Do not go to the blame game

8. Do not panic

Episode #74 How to get rid of rejection

We all got rejected at some point in our life. Nobody goes without being a perfect human being and be the unrejected person in the entire world. I get rejected every time in my daily life and that is a good thing because I aspire to get a stronger character as a person. 

Here are some tips that might help you understand rejection:

1. You cannot get rid of it

2. Take it and move on

3. Do not take it personally and move on to the next one

4. Is not about the now, but what is coming in the long run

5. It's a game, do not take it too seriously.