Pleasure, power, and dating without apology.

In this episode, Corithina (Papiiii Chulaaa), sex educator, youth empowerment leader, and self-proclaimed career dom, joins Jordan D’Nelle to explore holistic sex education, pleasure-centered learning, and radical self-ownership.

They dive into dating dynamics, communication, kink, and why pleasure, not just prevention, belongs in sex education. Corinthia shares her journey through intentional “messy” dating, redefining relationships, and embracing autonomy in love and desire. You’ll also hear powerful insights on emotional availability, cultural narratives around relationships, and how to create connections that actually align with your values.

Jump to the Good Stuff:

02:24 – Origin story + sex ed activism

06:20 – Why pleasure belongs in sex education

07:37 – Confidence & communication through sex ed

08:00 – Teaching men + menstrual cycle awareness

10:06 – Menopause, generational gaps, and lifelong sex education

13:51 – Dating sabbatical: lovers vs relationships

16:45 – Communication styles in modern dating: voice notes over texting

19:50 – Monogamy myths + cultural conditioning

28:26 – Friendship as a core relationship model

29:15 – Choosing partners who align with your work + identity

31:27 – Kink, BDSM, and finding compatible partners

39.17 – Dating culture, apps, and why men aren’t showing up

45:20 – The “male loneliness epidemic” + relationship skill gaps

46:41 – Pleasure, dominance, and evolving sexual exploration

48:00 – Defining pleasure + where to find Papiii Chulaaa

Pleasure Highlights:

• Pleasure belongs in sex education
• Communication > dating games
• Monogamy isn’t the only model
• Friendship as core relationship
• Emotional availability gap
• Pleasure = self-ownership

Connect with Papiii Chulaaa:

• Instagram @papiiichulaaa
• Instagram @corysmileyface
• Substack  @corysmileyface

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Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women’s sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.