Relationship alignment should be a goal of any couple. Are you truly aligned with your partner?
A lot of people get swept away by passion. They use the feeling of love in order to determine the quality of their relationship with someone. This is where a lot of people run into trouble. I'm not a relationship expert, but I believe that love is a choice, more than it is a feeling.
Love is a commitment that two people make, to wake up every day and be the best that they can be, both for themselves and their partners. When it comes to being in a relationship, there is no room for selfishness.