POV

Have you ever found it challenging to love some people?  Me too.  Loving someone is a choice that doesn't always come with ease.  It could be differing opinions, negative energy or their presence. Sometimes we have to dig deep to tap into the reasoning behind why love can be a challenge.  I've learned that triggers and unhealed wounds teach me a lot about my relationships and my capacity to love.  In all honesty, loving someone comes easy for me now a days, its the liking that's shifting.  I'm learning that I can love a person and not like their ways and I can love them fully as they choose to be from a distance, if necessary. 
Loving thy neighbor as thy self doesn't require you to lose you in unhealthy behavior. This action should fill your cup, not deplete it for love is a beautiful gift that everyone is worthy of.

This week I talk about a topic that’s easy and challenging, love and loss. The ease comes from therapy and the challenge comes from the bruises I received on the way.  In this episode, I speak specifically about my fertility challenges and multiple miscarriages over the last ten years.  I must admit, this is a tender topic for many so seek your heart to discover if you’re ready to tap into that space. I decided to share this part of my life’s journey with you all because I know I’m not alone and often times our feelings of inadequacy, guilt, anger, frustration, depression, etc cloud our minds and make us forget that we are complete beings right now. 

I hope this episode helps you send love and joy to those with a desire to be parents and assists you in being "swift to listen and slow to speak" when you know a person or meet someone who’s journey you assume should be on your ideal path.  Silent prayers are the best.

* I’d like to give a heavenly thank you to my high school teacher Mr. Spud Morgan for his words of wisdom. They live on in many of the lives he touched. 

This week I delve into family, framily and the holidays. This can be a touchy subject or a peaceful and welcoming one. Either way, you get to navigate this terrain. My hope is that you enter this holiday season with grace, gratitude and lots of self care. Be mindful of your triggers and the energy you carry and receive from others. My prayer is that you welcome this time of year and feel your loved ones around you either physically and or in spirit. What are you thankful for? I hope you make your own list.

This week I talk about the power of our words and how they can set us up for success or distress.

In this episode, I discuss my past relationships and how I created my own acceptance of less and my journey to loving myself regardless of who loved me in return.

I hope this episode motivates you to love yourself more and reassess your love requirements from others. 

I’ve got a new segment that I’m excited to share with you. It’s called Motivational Nuggets to Love By. This was created from FB live videos I used to do while in transition.  Well, now it’s made it’s way to POV! 
Welcome to Episode 1: Love: Boundaries and Healthy Spaces

Join me as I talk about life’s journey in different spaces and growth from many places. 
This week, I’m discussing a healthy love that’s self centered. 
I hope it motivates you to regularly reassess your boundaries and check in on your levels of joy and peace. 

A gentleman, a Morehouse and Rutgers Law School Graduate, a Father, Husband and Fighter for the Down trodden are a few defining words for my next guest. 

Harrison McIver III is a man who’s  determined to leave a mark on this world. Harrison’s ambition and drive came from his parents who he lovingly calls his heroes.

In this episode, Harrison reminds us that if we live fully and lead with love, there’s nothing we can’t do. 

This episode of POV is not to be missed!  Meet Mrs. Yarbrough. She is a woman who many know and respect. Her energy, heart and memory can put anyone under 35 years of age to shame even though she reached her centennial year in August!

Wisdom, life lessons, education and love describe Mrs. Hattye to a T.  Her influence and determination to make sure every black child she met knew their rich history and contributions to this country has been an achieved life goal.   Oh, and the next time you go to the Smithsonian Museum, make sure you check out her WWII scrapbook on the second floor!!

I hope Mrs. Hattye inspires you to be the change this world needs. I pray she motivates you to love deeply and make hard decisions that are in your best interest….And don’t forget to live your life unapologetically!

Have you ever wanted to do something you’ve never done but you haven’t allowed it a season to manifest?  Yeah, me too but not Jen.  Jennifer Lowe says YES!  She’s not afraid to try, do, succeed, or fail because there’s no failure when you show up for yourself. 

Jen’s energy enhances the air and lifts your mood.  She’s a person who welcomes a deep connection and knows what’s really important in life. She’s experienced the world in ways few have all while staying true to herself and her journey. 

In this episode, Jennifer reminds us through her vigor for life and zest for new experiences, to reignite our yes so we can get to doing. 

Want to connect?

IG & Twitter:@jenjenlowe 

FB: https://www.facebook.com/jenjenlowe

Website: www.jenlowe.com

This week, we meet Andrea. She’s an artist who knew early on that her home would be the stage. Her story may sound familiar in the beginning but her faith walk and ability to shift and receive reminds us that we can have it all, just not at the same time. In this episode, Andrea reminds us to listen to our inner voice and be open to when it’s time to pivot on our journey.  The bending makes us flexible, not breakable.

Want to connect?

IG: @theandreality

FB: https://www.facebook.com/flemingandread

Crystin, our amazing hostess with the mostess, reviews life after her 40th birthday.