Precious Predicaments

Today we live in a culture that is obsessed with sex. It is in the media, in our churches and in our homes. Unfortunately unlike other addictions or addictive behaviors this behavior is taboo. While there is plenty of information as it relates to individuals addicted to alcohol, drugs, food and gambling.  Individuals addicted to sex are less likely to find help and in most cases do not realize that they may have a problem. There may be several reason for this one being that sex addiction is a disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and behaviors. It is poorly understood and difficult  to diagnose. In a culture where sex, like alcohol is socially acceptable and encouraged, and sexual images and provocation abound it becomes challenging to distinguish  between normal sexuality and excessive or abnormal sexual behavior. If you are the partner of an individual that you question may have a sex addiction there are some important things that you need to know. First it is not about the sex. Second it's not about you. And thirdly restoration is possible.

And if you have been told that your sexual appetite is out of control. Or you find yourself preoccupied with sex. Or just perhaps engaging in sexual behaviors that is causing a disruption in your life or relationship i.e. compulsive masterbation, multiple affairs, anonymous sex, obsessive dating, compulsive use of pronography, risky or unsafe sex, cyber sex, exhibitionism, voyeurism, prostitution or the use of prostitutes join me and my Special Guest Heather Sequin as we explore this topic and offer solutions. You may also call in if you have questions at 516 387-1914. You don't have to hide, be embarrassed or live in shame. Let's learn how to engage in Healthy Sexual Relationships. Let's talk and end the silence

In our society many individuals are preoccupied with what they may think, feel or believe to be a defect in ones personal appearance. Be it imagined, or slightly a physical concern. The problem is when such becomes excessive. This preoccupation may cause a significant distress or impairment in ones social, occupational, or other areas of functioning. Many relationships have been ruined, lives a have been taken and jealousy appears to be on the rise.  Today individuals spend billions of dollars on items to inhance their beauty or physical attractiveness. In some cases it can go to the extreme when the individual is beautiful just as they are yet they don't believe it. Words are very powerful. Self Esteem and Self Worth is priceless. Join me on 2/27/17 at 12pm Pacific along with my special guest as we discuss Body Dsymorphic Disorder. We will provide education, insight and resources as we help others understand that this is a real disorder that affects many. If you are concerned about your looks, body or physical appearance such as your face, head size, hair type, genitals, breast or butt give me a call at 516 387-1914.

Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. Don't let others tell you how you should look or feel. You were created by God in his own image. This has nothing to do with being healthy or physically fit. So let's stop breaking others down and better understand the word UGLY

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In honor of President's Day and with today being the month of Black History I would like to take the time to pay honor to those elected to serve as The President Of The United States as two of our past presidents were born during the month of February. I along with my guest Dr. Lisa Romain will pay honor to the amazing contribution that many African Americans have made by standing up for change and injustice. Many of us do not know our history. Sad to say that for years I was one of them yet I am still learning about the amazing contribution that many individuals have made. Yet sadly many individuals take for granted the path that was set and the doors that have been open as many have died, fought, cried and prayed for change. Black History Month began as Negro History Week which was created in 1926 by Carter G Woodson a noted African American historian, scholar, educator, and publisher. It became a long month of celebration in 1976. The month of February was chosen to coincide with the birthdays of Fedrick Douglass and Abraham Lincoln. There is still work to to do so let's give honor to those individuals including family members and individuals past and present.

Join me by calling 516 387-1914 on 2/20/17 at 12pm Pacific. We will be talking about our favorite and most influential president and those that have changed history and made an impact on our life. I

Is love really in the air? Yet many will say who really cares. February 14th is Valentine's Day. How will you be honoring that day? On this day many people will be exchanging cards, candy, gifts or flowers with their special Valentine. To some it is the day of romance. For others it is the day that we dread the most. Restuarants and hotels will be over crowded. Children will be asking their parents to purchase items for their classmates or special friends. The common symbols for this day are hearts, red roses and Cupid. Questionare you really with the one you love or searching for someone to love you? Join me and my special quest Quinton Morgan as we discuss relationships. Relationships can present many challenges and we all deserve to be loved, valued and respected. So let's talk. If you are not loving the one you are with stop wasting your time.

This is going to be a fun, interesting, and entertaining episode.

Quinton Morgan resides in Jacksonville Florida. He is a BEST-SELLING Author, Public Speaker, and Relationship Advocate. He’s certified in the fields of Wellness Advisory and Ballast Management. He is also a Producer, Filmmaker, and an AWARD-WINNING Director. Quinton has been a featured guest or cost host on Live and Internet radio shows, as well as, Television. He has also been featured in several magazines. Quinton is currently pursuing a degree in Psychology with a focus in Family Therapy. Quinton wants to learn more about people and the human condition in general. He feels attaining this degree will solidify his platform, and help him reach as many people as possible to bring relationships “Back to the basics of love”. Quinton's mission is to help bridge the gap between men and women in order to understand each other better. Thus allowing healthy loving relationship to develop. Author of Male and Female Baggage. So let's unpack you suitcase.

Today's episode Beating The Odds is designed to encourage, empower and motivate individuals that are living with challenges. It could be mental, physical, medical, financial, or relational. 

Have you ever been told that you were not smart enough, talented enough, beautiful enough or have enough money to do something? Those words could have came from a teacher, friend, parent, relative or trusted friend and in some cases perhaps a perfect stranger. What hurts the most is when we trust and believe what was said. Many believe in dreams and some believe in miracles yet there are those that never try or perhaps will just give up. Whether you have been told that you have a life threatening illness. You are medically challenged. You are living in a neighborhood stricken with property, drugs, compromised educational system there is hope. Try stepping out on faith

Join me on 2/6/17 at 12:00pm Pacific as I will have two special quest Monshawn Simon-Tittle and Steven Thomas as they share their amazing stories as to how they are continuing to BEAT THE ODDS despite what the world or others may think or their parents were told. Beating The Odds is to succeed despite not having a good chance of succeeding.

All callers are welcome to share your stories or life challenges at 516 387-1914. Nothing is to hard for God.

One may view success as the achievement of something desired, planned, or attempted. Another may define success as fame, prosperity or wealth. Many will wait to obtain an outcome yet fail to acknowledge the sacrifice, respect or the individuals that they have encouraged, empowered along the way. I now view success based on how one assist others towards becoming successful. There are many resources to assist others in becoming successful. However many have learned that success comes with a cost. Yet many have also learned that failure was apart of success. There are also three types of successful individuals: 1. Those who feel confident and highly competent but genuinely humbled by their position or leadership. 2. Those who are happy to see their superficial make-up filled faces names on TV/press/business cards or in the mirror yet will not answer their emails and will not or cannot spare 10 minutes to speak with another unless it is necessary to influence or prestige or assist them. 3. Those that will hurt others to get to the top. And struggle with power.

Dr. Damita Johnson is a woman of God committed to being what He has called her to be and doing what He has called her to do. She is the VP of Operations at God's Success Empowerment Community. It is an organization for Churches, Ministries, Christian business owners, and Christians that are partnering together for success and power in order to continue taking Care Of Kingdom Business.

Dr. Damita Johnson is also the President of the Women’s Success Empowerment Network (WSEN). The WSEN is under the umbrella of God’s Success Empowerment Community and has the same goals and objectives, but from a female perspective. It caters to the needs of God’s women. She is an author.She has been happily married for 33 years to Apostle Gene Johnson. They are in ministry together. They have one daughter, a son in law and four granddaughters.

I apologize for the sound as it relates to the 12PM show. Todays topic is to discuss the symtpoms and treatment as it relates to PTSD and it symptoms. You can call in at 516 387-1914 to become part of the discussion. This is going to be a very interesting show.

Post Traumatic Stress Disoder is a real illness. Many suffered in silence because they did not know what to do. It was not until 1980 that The American Psychiatric Association added PTSD to the third edition of its Diagnostic and Statistical Manual. PTSD is a unique disorder. Many individuals believed that it only affected individuals that were associated with the military or may have participated in a war. We have now learned that this disorder extends beyond the military. One can look healthy and normal and can develop PTSD after witnessing or living through a traumatic event, such as a war, a natural disaster, sexual assault, any type of abuse, or a bad accident. We are now also learning that this is becoming a crisis that is being ignored as many individuals are being wounded in their own homes and neighborhoods.  One will experience symptoms of stress and other symptoms of danger after the event is over. This can effect the life of the individual and those around them.

Join me on 1/23/17 at 12pm Pacific as I provide valuable information about this disorder. You don't have to live in fear. Let's end the stigma associated with mental health treatment and educate others about the symptoms, treatments and resources.

You can call in at 516 38-1914 email me at [email protected] or follow me on Twitter @Japreciousp @Jeanette_Abney or sign up to listen at Www.secure.blogtalkradio.com at Precious Predicament

Mental Health, Mental Wellness, Mental Disorder are terms that are being used yet many still struggle with symptoms and the aftermath daily. There continues to be very little knowledge as to why there appears to be a growing concern in this area yet many still struggle with understanding symptoms, behaviors, preventative measure, diagnosis and medication regiments. January is Mental Health Awareness Month. Join me and callers as I provide information, resources, education, humor and insight into what we know as depression, anxiety, bi-polar, being crazy and other symptoms. Let's pull off our mask, let go of the fear, shame and blame as we learn updated information.  The goal is to become empowered, resilient, and accepting self and others as we discuss the challenges many individuals and family members experience on this episode Mental Health A Cry For Help. Call in and share your story or experience at 516 387-1914. You can also email me at [email protected] An open mind can become an open heart which can start yourhealing process.