Precious Predicaments

There is a big difference between substance use and abuse. However where do we draw the line? Why is it the some individuals can drink socially yet others may have relational issues, health problems, financial problems and legal problems. It appears that we live in a society where we glamorize drinking and drug use. With the legalization of Marijuana in many states many now believe that they have a legal right to get high. I have heard it been said that many parents have an attitude that I would rather for my child to use at home than to do it in the streets. Many use drugs to celebrate, socialize, grieve, and self medicate. Today's episode will explore the difference between use and abuse. It will provide insight into the risk of addiction and addictive behaviors. It will address the lies that individuals tell the self and others. It will also provide information regarding the different treatment modalities. Join Jeanette Abney and Special Guest Arthur Magilevski of Valley Recovery Center as we provide the listeners with information, resources, and support to guide individuals if they want help with becoming sober as we explore, "The High Is A Lie." Call and speak with  an expert at 516 387-1914. We all deserve a lifestyle change

Our past can be like a ghost. We all have one. The past is an indication of events that have occurred before a given point in time. Many individuals spend a lot of time reminiscing about the past while others would like to forget what happen. The role they may have played in it. The individuals that played a part in their history or existence may still have our power. Good or bad we must learn how to process those events so that such will not play a negative role in our present and follow one into their future. With that being said our past can have a strong hold on our life. We can view it as a problem or a chance of a lifetime. This episode is designed to discuss the cycles of abuse, break generational curses and help others find hope, healing and peace as they learn that they are not alone. We can't change the past. However we can break the Cycle Of Abuse, Dysfunction, and Strenthen Families. 

Join me and Special Guest Sharon Cook as she share her personal story The Life I Once Lived. A true story of an aspiring young lady that grew up on the South Side of Phoenix Arizona. While growing up was beat, molested, and brutalized underneath the watchful eyes of her alcoholic mother. 

This is going to be a show worth listening to as you hear how this guest share her hurt, pain, fear, tears, death of family members as she share her journey about finding the strength to survive dispite her past. Join, share or listen on Monday January 2, 2017 12pm Pacific 516 386-1914. There is strength in numbers.

The meaning of Christmas varies from person to person. This is the time of the year when many go out of their way to spend money only to watch their children destroy the items right before their eyes. Many become obsessed with watching the holiday commercials as others await to watch the NFL and NBA games. And let's not forget those holiday love movies. Many family members travel near and far to celebrate the holidays with those they love. Today's esisode is designed to discuss your most memorable Christmas. For many it could be the lost of a love one, the expansion of new family members or friends. It could be the best gift you received or the fruit cake that you re-gift and gave to your sister. Give me a call on 12/26/16 at 12pm Pacific  516 387-1914and share your Christmas experience. The show will make you laugh, cry and hungry at the same time.

Knowledge is powerful and wisdom can lead to greatness. Today as we attempt to teach our children and young adult about the importance of education it seems like we are wasting our time. Some continue to listen and wonder what is going to be my reward? Many struggle with being shy while other are somewhat bored. As many attempt to make good grades they are often called names as they struggle with self esteem and relational issues. Today's topic is designed to inform others that, "Being Smart In School Can Be Cool. " it is sad that we often see individuals praised for their altheletic abilities and attractiveness. Yet when it comes to those that are smart, have manners and values they will often dummy down in order to be accepted by others or to fit it. The word Excellence means greatness and doing your very best. Achieving excellence is never easy to do. However it is a quality that people really appreciate because it is so hard to find. There is a difference between being smart and being perceived as a geek.  So join myself and Malik EA Trey as we help to promote Execellence as others will still feel cool to be smart in school. If you are a student, parent, educator or concerned individual join the conversation by calling 516 387-1914

Why can't we livelike the Brady Bunch? I have the step children from hell! My step mother only want's my father. You are not my daddy! When you leave take your children with you! My step father was the best thing that ever happen to me. Being in a relationship with another can be a challenge or a blessing. However when it comes with children from a previous relationship what is one to do? There are many types of families however today blended and step families appear to be the norm. The new relationship can bring children or adults from previous relationships or marriages which may present many challenges. The new relationship may resurrect old, unresolved anger and hurt. Some children may resist the change while others may adapt well. And for some the issue may not be the children it could be the parents or adults within the relationship. Today's episode is designed to look at different types of stepfamilies and address the challenges they may encounter. I will also provide tips and strategies to assist with making the family become successful by empowering the parents so that they can reduce stress and provide a loving and stable home. There is always room for growth. I will also provide information regarding when the home has become dangerous and is in serious need of a decision or intervention. If you are a step parent, a child living in a blended home, or was raised by a step parent give me a call at 516 387-1914 and share your experience here at Precious Predicaments with Jeanette Abney.

There is no such thing as a perfect parent. A parent can be a minor or a legal adult. In our society the role of a parent comes with many responsibilities and one often feel that they need a break. However taking that break can be demonstrated in different ways. Many view substance use as the norm. And with the legalization of marijuana in some states the difference between substance use versus substance abuse is becoming more complex. As a parent one is viewed as a role model. That relationship is one that can leave a blue print in one's life. Today's show is designed to address the issue of substance use and parenting. My goal is not to blame or shame parents or individuals. The goal is to educate listeners as I discuss childhood experiences, parenting styles, perinatal drug exposure, child abuse, general neglect. And the role of The Child Walfare System.  Many believe that they have a right to do what they want as an adult. Many  have also been taught that theonly way to celebrate, grieve and enjoy life is to Turn Up or use a controlled substance.  When a parent or other family members use drugs or other substances in the home it can create a host of problem. Give me a call at 516 386-1914 and share your opinion. You can't change what you don't acknowledge. Let's protect our children by becoming a better role model. Drug and Alcohol Use Can Hurt Children.

Hurt and pain is not always easy to deal with. Emotions can feel like you are on a roller coaster. Life as we know it may not always not fair. Suicide is the third leading cause of death. It is also a cause of death that is preventable. Suicide most often occurs when stressors exceed ones coping capacity or when one may be suffering from a mental  or terminal health condition. Today's show is designed to educate individuals and family members as I provide information regarding the warning signs, risk factors, health factors, environmental factors and historical factors as well as other information and resources

Suicidal thoughts can effect anyone regardless of age, gender or background. Being aware and providing resources can assist in saving a life. Let's join together by letting others know that we hear you before it becomes too late. Life is precious and trouble don't last always. Give me a call to share your precious predicaments and turn your darkness into light.

Today many families are celebrating time together as we are celebrating Thanksgiving. Today per the request of my uncle I wanted to share my family member with my listeners. We are requesting that all of my family members and close friends near and far give me a call at 516 387-1914so that we can connect as a family. Call and join us at 7pm Central Time as we will be online in Arizona celebrating Thanksgiving 2016.

What does Respect mean to you? Today in our society many individuals are out of control. Many have behaved in a way for a very long time yet others are now becoming very bold. We really need to address this problem as others are watching and listening. During this episode I along with guest will be discussing The Importance Of Respect. As a culture what happen to respect? Is respect earned or given? Who deserve to be respected? Fear Vs Respect. What was I taught as a child? As you can see many have questions. As a nation many are teaching others that it is ok to be disrespectful. Respect appears to be a quality that is lacking in our society. Let's go back to the basics and learn how to respect another regardless of another person's abilities, achievements, race, culture, skin color or qualities. That would mean acknowledging another's existence, culture, morals, and values. As long as we have breath in our bodies we are never too old or young to learn. Let's learn how to improve our relationships with others. We All Deserve Respect. What we fear we hate. We all have something to contribute to society. Let's be more careful with our words. Learn to think before we speak.  I would like to challenge others to dig deep within their soul and change what needs to be changed. Operating in fear, ignorance, disrespect, hurt, pain and  unforgiveness will continue to block one from truly enjoying the quality of life that we all deserve. Give me a call at 516 387-1914 and let's talk. An act of kindness can go a long way. Why not be a better role model? Somebody is watching you. If we change the way we think it could inhance the way we treat others.

The importance of education can not be stated enough. Today we will discuss the evolution as it relates to the importance of obtaining an education. I along with guest will explore the challences and success of traditional and non-trditional pathways of obtaining an education.We will explore the role of education quality in economic growth as well as employment. We will also explore how we as a society view education.  Historically many cultures viewed education differently. One may question is one educated, literate or perhaps articulate? What is a considered a professional student? We will explore having street smarts, common sense, jail house experience or what my mama said versus obtaining a high school dipolma. Not to mention obtaining  post secondary education. If you are interested in going back to school or concerned about the future of your love ones as it relates to education listen or call in at 516 387-1914. We would love to hear from you here at Precious Predicaments.