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The real secret to youth ministry?


This week we are joined by special guest Shelby Millis! 

From her  calling in seventh grade to her current role as a youth director at Asbury Church, Shelby’s journey is filled with inspiration and practical wisdom. She also shares her summer of self-care, including her beloved porch swing bed and weekly pool Fridays, underscoring the need for rejuvenation and mental well-being in ministry. Learn why testing one’s calling and having the support of mentors is crucial for a thriving youth ministry experience.

Witness the remarkable impact of a student leadership team in shaping high school ministry. Through a structured application and interview process, students are groomed for real-world responsibilities, fostering a sense of ownership and accountability. Shelby and I share some hilarious anecdotes about the creative activities planned by the students, emphasizing the significance of open communication channels. By giving students a platform to voice their opinions and take charge, we enhance their leadership skills and enrich the overall youth group experience.

Explore the nuances of youth identity formation in the digital age and the challenges of engaging high school students. We delve into the complexities of social media’s influence and the importance of rooting students' identities in faith. Discover our insights on adapting ministry activities, like late-night worship sessions and casual community events, to create a more inclusive environment. 

Plus, we highlight the essential role of self-care for ministry leaders, sharing personal journeys of seeking mental health support and building healthy ministry relationships. Tune in for a wealth of knowledge on fostering both personal and community growth in youth ministry.

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