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Queer Travel Is About Joy, Not Just Safety


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LGBTQ+ Americans are more than twice as likely as the general population to hold a valid passport. That stat sits at the heart of (Out )on the Road: The Radical Joy of Queer Travel, a new book from writer Lindsey Danis that's part memoir, part guide.

Most conversations about queer travel start and end with safety. Lindsey wanted to write past that, toward joy, belonging, and power. In this episode, they and Aislyn talk about the honeymoon trip that reshaped Lindsey's whole life, the research that turns fear into freedom, and why traveling as exactly who you are is its own kind of homecoming.

Meet this week's guest

Lindsey Danis is a writer and the author of (Out )on the Road, a travel memoir and reported guide written by and for LGBTQ+ travelers. Their work explores queer travel, belonging, and the search for joy on the road. You can find their work at lindseydanis.com.

In this episode you'll learn

  • Why Lindsey scrapped an entire early draft that was a straightforward travel memoir, and what they wrote instead.
  • How research becomes the bridge from fear to joy, and the two tools Lindsey relies on before every trip.
  • Why a honeymoon in Vietnam and Thailand changed not just how Lindsey travels, but where and how they live.
  • What Lindsey hopes allies take away from the book, including readers who never expected to see themselves in it.
  • Episode chapters

    00:00 A Surprising Stat

    02:00 The Book They Needed
    05:00 Scrapping The Memoir
    09:00 Hiding And Choice
    12:00 On Passing
    16:00 Two Favorite Tools
    18:00 A Toast In Vietnam
    20:00 The Honeymoon Shift
    25:00 The Galapagos
    27:00 A Note For Allies
    30:00 Next Stop, Sri Lanka

    Resources

    • Movement Advancement Project — a color-coded database comparing US state laws on gender identity and sexual orientation: mapresearch.org
    • EqualDex — a country-by-country index of LGBTQ+ rights and attitudes worldwide: equaldex.com

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